"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A Perfect Example Of A Guy Who Has Looks, Money and Status But Still Failing With Women

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Disclaimer: Yes I know it's a TV show take it with a grain of salt, however, guys like "Leo" do exist

Starts at 3:43

The guy is very awkward and has no game, his whole gimmick is "I'm Rich, I'm RICH" Guys like this exist believe it(typically Trustfund guys who have been rich all their lives) or not a perfect example of a guy who grew up with money but no self-awareness, no charisma, no game. Just look at the girl's reaction in the 14:20 mark you can tell she is not digging it. That still shot in 14:27 If you can't recognize that she's not into you. The 14:30 minute mark with the weird hand behind her head

Once again money, status, and even looks won't help you if you don't have a personality, self-awareness and can read the room and act accordingly!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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His whole gimmick is "I'm Rich, I'm RICH"
Im just stating the obvious (but hopefully someone new to game will read this someday): Terrible strategy (unless he´s looking for something along the lines of gold diggers / sugar babies) and pretty much a turn-off with hot girls (other girls too I guess but who cares about them, they are sexually invisible). He dries their p00zy faster than the Sahara Desert.

Instead of starting his interaction with women by blabbing about how much money he has, he should communicate that information in other ways aka "Show, dont tell". I think that would be a good start for him.
 

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Disclaimer: Yes I know it's a TV show take it with a grain of salt, however, guys like "Leo" do exist

Starts at 3:43

The guy is very awkward and has no game, his whole gimmick is "I'm Rich, I'm RICH" Guys like this exist believe it(typically Trustfund guys who have been rich all their lives) or not a perfect example of a guy who grew up with money but no self-awareness, no charisma, no game. Just look at the girl's reaction in the 14:20 mark you can tell she is not digging it. That still shot in 14:27 If you can't recognize that she's not into you. The 14:30 minute mark with the weird hand behind her head

Once again money, status, and even looks won't help you if you don't have a personality, self-awareness and can read the room and act accordingly!
Another way to think about this: The character played by Jared Leto on My So Called Life wouldn't have gotten panties around the world soaking, if he'd acted like Devon Gummersal... Even Claire Danes's pops on the show joked about him not having the guts to admit outright: "I hang around your house, because I want to see your daughter naked"
 

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He has money and status. I don't think his looks are that amazing. He's not fit/muscular.

Other than money and possibly status as a business owner, he does not have much going for him. He might have enough money to carry him. He got reasonably far with Brittany based on money alone. She's into his money but wasn't into him in any way.
 
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He has money and status. I don't think his looks are that amazing. He's not fit/muscular.

Other than money and possibly status as a business owner, he does not have much going for him. He might have enough money to carry him. He got reasonably far with Brittany based on money alone. She's into his money but wasn't into him in any way.
You know you can convey money and status without actually having it?

Would it help?

I read a book by a former plastic surgeon. He said that after he altered people's faces, their personality didn't change.

Meaning, he made them pretty on the outside, but they couldn't overcome their negative view of themself

He was mostly right imo

Psycho-cybernetics I think it was. Highly recommended
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You know you can convey money and status without actually having it?

Would it help?

I read a book by a former plastic surgeon. He said that after he altered people's faces, their personality didn't change.

Meaning, he made them pretty on the outside, but they couldn't overcome their negative view of themself

He was mostly right imo

Psycho-cybernetics I think it was. Highly recommended
The book was mainly about daily affirmations and meditation, in hindsight.

Imagining yourself as the person you want to become

Not so difficult, I reckon
 

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He has money and status. I don't think his looks are that amazing. He's not fit/muscular.

Other than money and possibly status as a business owner, he does not have much going for him. He might have enough money to carry him. He got reasonably far with Brittany based on money alone. She's into his money but wasn't into him in any way.
He's not bad-looking and he's tall (I would say slightly above average, but that's not for me to decide but for women)

He has no personality, no game, even the money with Brittany wasn't enough once she saw him, you can see her recoil many times
Money can't make up for a lame personality and no game you still need it, heck I would say you need it more because women have higher expectations for a guy with money
 
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Money can't make up for a lame personality and no game you still need it, heck I would say you need it more because women have higher expectations for a guy with money
I agree that money can't make up for a lame personality. You have found an example of someone with a below average personality. While he has money, he doesn't have nearly enough money (he might need Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, or Warren Buffett money) to compensate for his below average personality.

I disagree that you would need more personality with money. Money can take a guy with an average or slightly above average personality (nothing special, would easily get overlooked) and help him stand out.

Attraction and seduction come down to looks, money, status, and personality. That guy's personality was so bad and his looks were so mediocre that good scores in the other areas couldn't help too much.

I think he had a better chance of getting away with a weak personality if he were 6'2", muscular, and had low body fat.

He's not bad-looking and he's tall
I couldn't figure out how tall he is. Being 6'0"+ helps.

I perceived him as middle of the bell curve in looks and that doesn't mean much with women. Remember that there's data out there that says women rate 80% of men below average looking. He would be one of the 80% likely rated below average.

the money with Brittany wasn't enough once she saw him, you can see her recoil many times
She did recoil many times. Money and possibly status wasn't enough for her. She was the female most into him as another female wasn't into him at all in that video.
 

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I disagree that you would need more personality with money. Money can take a guy with an average or slightly above average personality (nothing special, would easily get overlooked) and help him stand out.

Attraction and seduction come down to looks, money, status, and personality. That guy's personality was so bad and his looks were so mediocre that good scores in the other areas couldn't help too much.
It depends but in general, I disagree. If you have money and want to date the Brittney types you will have to have a big or interesting personality if you date a nerdy or average girl then yeah what you're saying is true. When dealing with above-average women especially if you have money the dynamics are different. Your Game has to be on point cause if it's not another guy will take her

Another rich guy not that good looking but he's got a personality and you can see that his girlfriend actually has fun with him and likes him
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Disclaimer: Yes I know it's a TV show take it with a grain of salt, however, guys like "Leo" do exist

Starts at 3:43

The guy is very awkward and has no game, his whole gimmick is "I'm Rich, I'm RICH" Guys like this exist believe it(typically Trustfund guys who have been rich all their lives) or not a perfect example of a guy who grew up with money but no self-awareness, no charisma, no game. Just look at the girl's reaction in the 14:20 mark you can tell she is not digging it. That still shot in 14:27 If you can't recognize that she's not into you. The 14:30 minute mark with the weird hand behind her head

Once again money, status, and even looks won't help you if you don't have a personality, self-awareness and can read the room and act accordingly!
So it's OVER for WealthyCels? :rolleyes:
 

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He has money and status. I don't think his looks are that amazing. He's not fit/muscular.

Other than money and possibly status as a business owner, he does not have much going for him. He might have enough money to carry him. He got reasonably far with Brittany based on money alone. She's into his money but wasn't into him in any way.
He's Normie-tier, but evidently within the range of being "tall", so he could do decently even if he were a financial-Normie.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Disclaimer: Yes I know it's a TV show take it with a grain of salt, however, guys like "Leo" do exist

Starts at 3:43

The guy is very awkward and has no game, his whole gimmick is "I'm Rich, I'm RICH" Guys like this exist believe it(typically Trustfund guys who have been rich all their lives) or not a perfect example of a guy who grew up with money but no self-awareness, no charisma, no game. Just look at the girl's reaction in the 14:20 mark you can tell she is not digging it. That still shot in 14:27 If you can't recognize that she's not into you. The 14:30 minute mark with the weird hand behind her head

Once again money, status, and even looks won't help you if you don't have a personality, self-awareness and can read the room and act accordingly!
Terrible show, but that's a matter of taste I guess..

I agree that just LMS isn't enough ( anymore). It will definitely increase the chance of landing a woman who just wanna be taken care off, but obviously rich dude still gotta weed through the gold diggers. And those gold diggers are PRO at selling you the image you wanna see at first.

Imo LMS should give a man that " ****y edge" that she can't explain. You dgaf because she is way way more disposable than you are. Only problem about the LMS is the L part..nowadays every dude, rich poor, gotta look maxxx. Gotta hit the gym and make sure your haircut ,clothes and accessories are on point.

In this case dude made it to the big screen so he might get some dm's left right from money hungry gold diggers tho..
 

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It depends but in general, I disagree. If you have money and want to date the Brittney types you will have to have a big or interesting personality if you date a nerdy or average girl then yeah what you're saying is true. When dealing with above-average women especially if you have money the dynamics are different. Your Game has to be on point cause if it's not another guy will take her

Another rich guy not that good looking but he's got a personality and you can see that his girlfriend actually has fun with him and likes him
This looks like a "nice guy" or "afc" or am I wrong?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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