That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I noticed something that might even be thread worthy.Nofap is not the problem. Not ejaculating might be the problem. If a man practices nofap and no porn, he needs to be getting laid regularly. Sex droughts can happen to anyone, but finding a way to get laid regularly is crucial. A man must either manage LTRs well over time (serial monogamy or traditional marital monogamy) or manage casual sex, "plating" type arrangements well. A lot of nofap guys aren't getting laid enough.
Below is an article about lack of sex in Gen Z (1997-2012 births). The older part of Gen Z (1997-2006 births) has reached sexual maturity now. This is part of a long term trend as many Millennials (1981-1996 births) were having less sex in the 2000s-2010s as well.
Gen Z Isn’t Having Sex – How This Affects You - Alpha Male 2.0
Reading Time – 8 minutes Most people have no idea how infrequent young people are having sex these days as compared to prior generations. My generation, Gen X, was having more sex than the Millennials when we were young, and I’ve commented on that fact...
While nofap/no porn is a recommended attraction/seduction practice, it doesn't create superpowers with getting laid regularly. In addition to no fap/no porn, these are some other attraction/seduction practices men will need in their lives. These elements are as important as nofap/no porn and some might even be more important.
-Looks: While there are elements of looks that can't be controlled, many can be. Diet and exercise are #1, especially for men under 45-50. Having a physique with some muscle definition and low body fat helps a lot. That's the #1 elements of looks. This is achieved through some combination of weight lifting and participation in a sport. Some blue collar manual laborers won't have as much of a need to lift weights in a gym because their work duties serve as enough of a replacement for the gym. White collar office workers need to lift weights. Participation in a sport depends on one's individual preferences.
-Height: White women in the USA tend to expect White men in the USA to be 6'0"+. USA Millennial and Gen Z White women have been conditioned to think men below 6'0" are absolute trash. It's very difficult to change height and even more average 5'9"-5'10" type men have a more difficult battle if they're White.
@Mike32ct has been well known for promoting height and hair as important elements of looks. Balding will hurt a man's prospects too, especially 30s/40s age balding. There are many elements of looks and I'm not going to mention all in this post.
Money: Money matters. While looks are more important than money for attraction in conventional dating under ages 30-35, it's still important. Women also tend to consider money more with mature men (35+). Most white collar guys will get judged on their money/career achievements. Watch what happens when a white collar man becomes unemployed. A typical white collar man's SMV is more tied to his job than the SMV of a blue collar or McJob worker man. A blue collar worker or McJob worker might be able to withstand a period of unemployment better in terms of keeping women attracted to him than a white collar worker.
There are also status and personality factors too.
Nofap/no porn is a good seduction practice but it needs to be combined with a lot of other things to actually be meaningful.
Working out/body isn’t ‘Looks’. Face is ‘looks’.Nofap is not the problem. Not ejaculating might be the problem. If a man practices nofap and no porn, he needs to be getting laid regularly. Sex droughts can happen to anyone, but finding a way to get laid regularly is crucial. A man must either manage LTRs well over time (serial monogamy or traditional marital monogamy) or manage casual sex, "plating" type arrangements well. A lot of nofap guys aren't getting laid enough.
Below is an article about lack of sex in Gen Z (1997-2012 births). The older part of Gen Z (1997-2006 births) has reached sexual maturity now. This is part of a long term trend as many Millennials (1981-1996 births) were having less sex in the 2000s-2010s as well.
Gen Z Isn’t Having Sex – How This Affects You - Alpha Male 2.0
Reading Time – 8 minutes Most people have no idea how infrequent young people are having sex these days as compared to prior generations. My generation, Gen X, was having more sex than the Millennials when we were young, and I’ve commented on that fact...
-Looks: While there are elements of looks that can't be controlled, many can be. Diet and exercise are #1, especially for men under 45-50. Having a physique with some muscle definition and low body fat helps a lot. That's the #1 elements of looks. This is achieved through some combination of weight lifting and participation in a sport. Some blue collar manual laborers won't have as much of a need to lift weights in a gym because their work duties serve as enough of a replacement for the gym. White collar office workers need to lift weights. Participation in a sport depends on one's individual preferences.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Monks and priests practice gay sex.
How would you know?
You don't believe there's a few Sincere ones out there fighting for the common good?
so true.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
