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anonymous12345

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And insecurity issues run pretty deep in buff/ripped guys.
People say I have a "nice body" etc due to my regular workout, but I confirm this dilemma. However, think of this progression:

1. An insecure dude in a crappy body
2. An insecure dude in a great body
3. ...and later on a confident dude in a great body

That's the theory at least. You mention the guys that aren't born naturals but have to construct themselves into great men. Some have a longer path.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Those are still fat in my eyes. And insecurity issues run pretty deep in buff/ripped guys.
Hey I'm not mad at your opinon I'm just stating what i'm observing lot of these women are out here with men that are far above their own looksmatch I'm not mad at it, it is what it is, Heck you see a lot of these psudo "Redpill" podcasts now interviewing women of this aesthetic or fatter.

Never understood the point of men interveiwing landwhales 20 years ago no one gave a **** about their opinon a landwhale was happy to land a guy now even landwhales have standards of a woman who is a10. This is how effed up the game has become and in some sense it is men's fault for dropping the bar
 

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Hey I'm not mad at your opinon I'm just stating what i'm observing lot of these women are out here with men that are far above their own looksmatch I'm not mad at it, it is what it is, Heck you see a lot of these psudo "Redpill" podcasts now interviewing women of this aesthetic or fatter.

Never understood the point of men interveiwing landwhales 20 years ago no one gave a **** about their opinon a landwhale was happy to land a guy now even landwhales have standards of a woman who is a10. This is how effed up the game has become and in some sense it is men's fault for dropping the bar
It's a catch 22. A lot of men dropped the bar in order to get laid.

Yet as a result of many men dropping the bar, it's become hard to bag a fattie.
 
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