"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Embarrassing huge adds plastered over the forum.

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The adds are embarrassing. And way too big and too much. I get that the chimney needs to smoke, but I'm hiding my phone when using sosauve in public.

" want a sex buddy "?
" get your ex back"?
How to get her wet"?

Yeah, we are women addicted. And I assume the adds are " perfectly " targeting the audience that will actually be most likely to click on them.

Yet I can't stop wondering who's actually going to click in these stupid adds. If you want any of the above things you're better off making a thread with your specific case

Rant over.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I still haven’t received royalties for my selfie in the “I could have been somebody” ad
 

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The adds are embarrassing. And way too big and too much. I get that the chimney needs to smoke, but I'm hiding my phone when using sosauve in public.

" want a sex buddy "?
" get your ex back"?
How to get her wet"?

Yeah, we are women addicted. And I assume the adds are " perfectly " targeting the audience that will actually be most likely to click on them.

Yet I can't stop wondering who's actually going to click in these stupid adds. If you want any of the above things you're better off making a thread with your specific case

Rant over.
Ad revenue keeps the lights on, I suspect anyway. The days of cyberspace being relatively non-commercialized are at least two decades in the past
 

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Ad revenue keeps the lights on, I suspect anyway. The days of cyberspace being relatively non-commercialized are at least two decades in the past
I know.

Just a little rant. Was quite embarrassed to sit in the train hiding my phone like I'm watching pron.

Here I got: sexy text to make her horny for you
.. cmon now..( in huge fonts with different colors)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Was quite embarrassed to sit in the train hiding my phone like I'm watching pron
Had a similar experience the other night, when I had my phone out while sitting at a restaurant, awaiting both my beer and my date. Then I realized:

-"I'm not looking at porn, therefore no one has any grounds to accuse me of doing so"

-"If anyone does happen to see an ad featuring a girl wearing a thong on a website I'm visiting, and they react by thinking to themselves in a knee-jerk fashion:
"This restaurant is no longer a Safe Space"... Well, that's their responsibility to treat such knee-jerk thoughts like hypotheseses to be tested for falsifiability, instead of acting like animals who are ruled by their visceral reactions to external events. It ain't mine to shield them from the realities of sex and us humans being an incorrigibly randy crowd"
 

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I just clicked on the "Banned Presentation" ad, and got this text:

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WARNING... the video on this page reveals a controversial "chase trigger" that makes women chase you, gets her turned on, and makes her beg to be your girlfriend. When you use it on a girl, you'll have the power to make her pursue you every step of the way. She'll approach you, make the first move on you, and ask you to go home with her.

These shocking secrets take advantage of the science of "addiction" to make a woman crave you more than life itself. Because they practically force a woman to make the first move on you, they are totally rejection proof.

When you learn this technique, you'll be shocked out how deceptively simple and easy it sounds. Don't let this discourage you from using it tonight. Simply use this chase trigger one to three times in your next conversation or text message with a girl, then do nothing. Sit back, relax, and watch as she desperately tries to win you over.

You've been chosen as small test group of men who will get access to this controversial "chase trigger". Do NOT share this presentation. It is private, and we don't want it become "mainstream" or get picked up by the media. For that reason, I am planning on deleting this page at the end of the day. So if you want to learn this shocking new method for making a woman chase you, then stop whatever you are doing, make sure you won't be distracted, and watch this ENTIRE PRESENTATION right now.

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I think everybody understands that, but do the ads have to be so big and feature such obvious bimbos?
If their creators want folks to actually click on them, AND purchase whatever it is their selling... Absolutely!!!
 

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Had a similar experience the other night, when I had my phone out while sitting at a restaurant, awaiting both my beer and my date. Then I realized:

-"I'm not looking at porn, therefore no one has any grounds to accuse me of doing so"

-"If anyone does happen to see an ad featuring a girl wearing a thong on a website I'm visiting, and they react by thinking to themselves in a knee-jerk fashion:
"This restaurant is no longer a Safe Space"... Well, that's their responsibility to treat such knee-jerk thoughts like hypotheseses to be tested for falsifiability, instead of acting like animals who are ruled by their visceral reactions to external events. It ain't mine to shield them from the realities of sex and us humans being an incorrigibly randy crowd"
LOL

The purpose of sosauve is to give you more game. But when your date catches you "studying " ; sexy text to make her horny for you it's game OVER.
 

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LOL

The purpose of sosauve is to give you more game. But when your date catches you "studying " ; sexy text to make her horny for you it's game OVER.
Thus it's prudent to select women who appreciate men who go out of their way to learn what it takes to succeed, with both them and life more generally*, and whom you don't have to hide this from. Not even kidding here, gents...

Play the following words 14:10-14:40


for any woman you're contemplating bringing into your bed and your life, then ask: "What are you're thoughts on this? Not your FEELINGS, but your thoughts?" Gals who simply reply "I couldn't agree more", "It's true", or the like are worthy investments. Those who duck and dive, lapse into yapping about their feelings anyway, or give an answer similar to the disjointed rambling heard between 28:36-30:15 of the above interview, are ones to cease all contact with immediately



*If one skims over of the discussions here at SS, this is REALLY what we're discussing most of the time, and I mean that as a compliment. We're serving a function similar to what Connor Beaton describes here

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think everybody understands that, but do the ads have to be so big and feature such obvious bimbos?
Many moons ago, I used to visit a website call Softcore Reviews Forum, which tried to first

-Not advertise altogether
-Run ads the way you're suggesting... Pint size, and not especially noticeable

Despite having a loyal and steady fanbase, who didn't confine themselves to discussing flicks from the genre's 80s-2000s heyday, the site generated very little revenue, and had to close down eventually. If large ads are the price we must pay for SS to survive and thrive, it's a relatively small one
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is why you should never check this site on your work computer, heck didn't some guys wife found out he was posting here?
If you never see me post again now you know why
 

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...heck didn't some guys wife found out he was posting here?
If you never see me post again now you know why
Any woman who throws a hissy over her man making a conscious effort to learn how the opposite sex/life more generally operates, isn't one worthy of said man's TLC. Especially when women themselves provide each other with such counsel


All the time
 

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These new video banner ads across the bottom are fvcking ridiculous. Showing an ad is reasonable, but they never stop. It's nearly impossible to look at a static screen to type while a video plays constantly. This is horrible web design. Everyone's got bills to pay, but other sites aren't nearly this sh1tty. If all you care about is money, driving people away with incessant ads is counter productive.
 

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Concur with @Bible_Belt . The "x" to close the incessant ads are so close to the Clickbait arrow that my finger hits the wrong thing sometimes. I'm sure I'm not alone in this.

I get that the site isn't free. There's got to be a less intrusive way.
 

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Do they really think that the type of people to click these ads need reminding of what a woman looks like?
In this day and age https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...ng-the-truth-about-glenn-powell.281280/page-2 (Read the fourth post here)... Absolutely!!!


We live in an era where the majority of our taste makers persist in trying to con the rest of us plebs into believing KStew's Rolling Stone photooshoot
was sensual and sexy, rather unforgivably garrish and tawdry
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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