Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Best friend becomes extremely jealous

nightwalker75

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Hey there, I'm quite certain this situation has come up before, but I'm curious to know your thoughts. I recently became aware of certain social dynamics (often referred to as being "red pill aware"). Here's the scenario:

I had a childhood best friend, let's call her Emily for this discussion. Due to her large frame, I never really considered her as a potential girlfriend, but the idea always lingered in the background. Looking back, I realize I would have probably given any girl a chance. Fast forward, Emily introduced me to her more attractive friend, even speaking highly of me to her. Little did Emily know, her friend became very interested in me, and we even dated for a while.

During our relationship, I noticed that Emily became extremely critical of her friend (who was my girlfriend at the time), making disparaging comments and displaying jealousy towards her in subtle ways whenever we were together.

This behavior surprised me because I had never noticed any romantic interest from Emily before. It was only after I started dating her friend that these behaviors emerged. I'm curious to hear your thoughts on this.

Ultimately, our relationship ended, partly due to the influence of my friend, Emily.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Michael Chief

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A lot of PUA gurus have said that there is always an inherent level of attraction, even if very small, between you and practically any woman you meet. It's simply because you are a man and she is a woman.

Even if there isn't enough attraction between you and Emily for either of you to consciously recognize it, looks like there was at least enough for her to react that way.
 

Desdinova

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Female vs female competition is vicious. I would say it's more vicious than male vs male competition. I've dated and fvcked girls who were friends with ex's, other female friends, etc. I would say they've come close to clawing each other's eyes out like rabid cats. Just listen, don't comment on the jealous party, and stick your d1ck in her.
 

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A lot of PUA gurus have said that there is always an inherent level of attraction, even if very small, between you and practically any woman you meet. It's simply because you are a man and she is a woman.

Even if there isn't enough attraction between you and Emily for either of you to consciously recognize it, looks like there was at least enough for her to react that way.
PUA gurus are good at one thing and one thing only: separating incels from their parents’ hard earned cash. I wouldn’t seriously entertain their opinions on any subject.

As to the premise that there is always some inherent degree of attraction to any humanoid without a Y chrome, totally not true. There are women that I find absolutely repulsive and would not fvck even if they were the last women on Earth. I mean, can you imagine yourself fvcking Rosie O’Donnell??
 

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PUA gurus are good at one thing and one thing only: separating incels from their parents’ hard earned cash. I wouldn’t seriously entertain their opinions on any subject.

As to the premise that there is always some inherent degree of attraction to any humanoid without a Y chrome, totally not true. There are women that I find absolutely repulsive and would not fvck even if they were the last women on Earth. I mean, can you imagine yourself fvcking Rosie O’Donnell??
LOL or Whoopi Goldberg
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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This is why they say men and women can't be friends. Now don't get me wrong, I have a few female friends, but more often than not feelings develop on one side or the other. Which is okay if they can control their feelings, but can be a problem if not.
 

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A lot of PUA gurus have said that there is always an inherent level of attraction, even if very small, between you and practically any woman you meet. It's simply because you are a man and she is a woman.

Even if there isn't enough attraction between you and Emily for either of you to consciously recognize it, looks like there was at least enough for her to react that way.
LMFAO cope
Women only have attraction for the men they want to sleep with
 

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Maybe Emily had some level of attraction but knew her defensive lineman body shape garnered her no chance. She was too jealous to see her two friends connect while she is left out of having the same possibility. Women are chaotic and selfish. They will reject a guy and then get jealous if another woman wants him.
 
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