"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Best friend becomes extremely jealous

nightwalker75

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Hey there, I'm quite certain this situation has come up before, but I'm curious to know your thoughts. I recently became aware of certain social dynamics (often referred to as being "red pill aware"). Here's the scenario:

I had a childhood best friend, let's call her Emily for this discussion. Due to her large frame, I never really considered her as a potential girlfriend, but the idea always lingered in the background. Looking back, I realize I would have probably given any girl a chance. Fast forward, Emily introduced me to her more attractive friend, even speaking highly of me to her. Little did Emily know, her friend became very interested in me, and we even dated for a while.

During our relationship, I noticed that Emily became extremely critical of her friend (who was my girlfriend at the time), making disparaging comments and displaying jealousy towards her in subtle ways whenever we were together.

This behavior surprised me because I had never noticed any romantic interest from Emily before. It was only after I started dating her friend that these behaviors emerged. I'm curious to hear your thoughts on this.

Ultimately, our relationship ended, partly due to the influence of my friend, Emily.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Michael Chief

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A lot of PUA gurus have said that there is always an inherent level of attraction, even if very small, between you and practically any woman you meet. It's simply because you are a man and she is a woman.

Even if there isn't enough attraction between you and Emily for either of you to consciously recognize it, looks like there was at least enough for her to react that way.
 

Desdinova

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Female vs female competition is vicious. I would say it's more vicious than male vs male competition. I've dated and fvcked girls who were friends with ex's, other female friends, etc. I would say they've come close to clawing each other's eyes out like rabid cats. Just listen, don't comment on the jealous party, and stick your d1ck in her.
 

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A lot of PUA gurus have said that there is always an inherent level of attraction, even if very small, between you and practically any woman you meet. It's simply because you are a man and she is a woman.

Even if there isn't enough attraction between you and Emily for either of you to consciously recognize it, looks like there was at least enough for her to react that way.
PUA gurus are good at one thing and one thing only: separating incels from their parents’ hard earned cash. I wouldn’t seriously entertain their opinions on any subject.

As to the premise that there is always some inherent degree of attraction to any humanoid without a Y chrome, totally not true. There are women that I find absolutely repulsive and would not fvck even if they were the last women on Earth. I mean, can you imagine yourself fvcking Rosie O’Donnell??
 

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PUA gurus are good at one thing and one thing only: separating incels from their parents’ hard earned cash. I wouldn’t seriously entertain their opinions on any subject.

As to the premise that there is always some inherent degree of attraction to any humanoid without a Y chrome, totally not true. There are women that I find absolutely repulsive and would not fvck even if they were the last women on Earth. I mean, can you imagine yourself fvcking Rosie O’Donnell??
LOL or Whoopi Goldberg
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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zekko

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This is why they say men and women can't be friends. Now don't get me wrong, I have a few female friends, but more often than not feelings develop on one side or the other. Which is okay if they can control their feelings, but can be a problem if not.
 

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A lot of PUA gurus have said that there is always an inherent level of attraction, even if very small, between you and practically any woman you meet. It's simply because you are a man and she is a woman.

Even if there isn't enough attraction between you and Emily for either of you to consciously recognize it, looks like there was at least enough for her to react that way.
LMFAO cope
Women only have attraction for the men they want to sleep with
 

LTG71

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Maybe Emily had some level of attraction but knew her defensive lineman body shape garnered her no chance. She was too jealous to see her two friends connect while she is left out of having the same possibility. Women are chaotic and selfish. They will reject a guy and then get jealous if another woman wants him.
 
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