“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She said "I love you"

taiyuu_otoko

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It could have been worse.

Once a girl who had a huge crush on me, asked me, after a marathon session:

"Was that love or lust?"

Me:

Um, I, uh....
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Rather than going though her medicine cabinet you should just ask her outright which STDs and mental disorders she has.
Says the Brit? Have you looked around yourself recently? :)
 

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OP, this is Star Wars 101

When she says I love you, just reply "I know". Girls eat that up, especially in the unlikely chance that she actually is a Star wars fan.
Ok Han Solo. Harrison is that you????

Lol
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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No it’s not that I disagree at all. The reference cracked me right up…..

I use “These are not the droids you’re looking for” from time to time.

Obtuse & somewhat geeky, and I’m Ok with that, :)
 

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Check for:

- any recording devices on her person or in the room.
- any witnesses around

If there are neither, you can say it back.
 

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Check for:

- any recording devices on her person or in the room.
- any witnesses around

If there are neither, you can say it back.
The best reply is: "Ya know, they say never to believe anything said in the throes of passion..." and check for her response, usually a giggle.
 

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she said i love you for the first time in bed.

She said it twice (the second time was when we did it again later)

Does it mean anything?
Yeah it means she felt like that in the moment.

Don't take it as a message that she will marry you next month.

Women say stuff like that at the moment. If she says it daily and constantly then she is attached. Well done.
 
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