"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Divorced poly-marriage cuck Destiny admits the Red Pill philosophy was right

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Better late than never that he is getting red pilled.
 

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It never ceases to amaze me how men rationalize clear red flags when they meet a woman, then play victim when those red flags haunt them later on. The same way he met this chick is the same way he lost her
 

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Better late than never that he is getting red pilled.
I'm convinced in many ways he is and Rollo has said this before as well despite Destiny's shortcomings.

The guy makes bank, has social status, is surprisingly masculine in the sense he is adamant in standing behind his beliefs (even when wrong), will call others out and is not afraid of resulting repercussions. He also went across the world (while leaving behind his son :confused:) and went after a hot swedish girl a decade younger than him.

Where he fails is his deference to women and engaging in emotionalism ad nauseum. He has no frame, no backbone, no understanding of boundaries and views women as holier than hoe. He is too bull headed to admit when he may be wrong on an idea and has too much ill founded pride. He doesn't not believe in hypergamy and thinks a woman's past irrelevant. To get this man to genuinely 'unplug' there needs to be a catalyst and like many guys who become rp aware it starts with a traumatic event.

I've heard his toxic fanbase say: "doesn't this prove RP wrong"?

Nope, it proves it right.

It shows a pretty clear picture of a man who epitomizes the beta bux concept and is a nice guy with covert contracts as result of not having firm boundaries in place. Destiny showcases how important frame is and leading in a relationship is and not getting trampled over.

"But she left for a lower value man"

She left for a guy who despite appearances apparently has game and is machiavellian/manipulative in Destiny's own words (aka dark triad). It seems people take RP ideas at face value and misconstrue that everything is based around income and status when it isn't. Just because Destiny may perceivably be a higher value guy in some ways, he lacks in other ways tremendously. What man shares his wife? What man goes to great lengths to defend sex work? What 'man' allows his wife to actively distance herself away from him and move in to the arms of another man?

Hopefully he wakes up a bit, but he reaped what he sowed. Personally, i'm still on the fence as to whether this is all some psyop bait
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm convinced in many ways he is and Rollo has said this before as well despite Destiny's shortcomings.

The guy makes bank, has social status, is surprisingly masculine in the sense he is adamant in standing behind his beliefs (even when wrong), will call others out and is not afraid of resulting repercussions. He also went across the world (while leaving behind his son :confused:) and went after a hot swedish girl a decade younger than him.

Where he fails is his deference to women and engaging in emotionalism ad nauseum. He has no frame, no backbone, no understanding of boundaries and views women as holier than hoe. He is too bull headed to admit when he may be wrong on an idea and has too much ill founded pride. He doesn't not believe in hypergamy and thinks a woman's past irrelevant. To get this man to genuinely 'unplug' there needs to be a catalyst and like many guys who become rp aware it starts with a traumatic event.

I've heard his toxic fanbase say: "doesn't this prove RP wrong"?

Nope, it proves it right.

It shows a pretty clear picture of a man who epitomizes the beta bux concept and is a nice guy with covert contracts as result of not having firm boundaries in place. Destiny showcases how important frame is and leading in a relationship is and not getting trampled over.

"But she left for a lower value man"

She left for a guy who despite appearances apparently has game and is machiavellian/manipulative in Destiny's own words (aka dark triad). It seems people take RP ideas at face value and misconstrue that everything is based around income and status when it isn't. Just because Destiny may perceivably be a higher value guy in some ways, he lacks in other ways tremendously. What man shares his wife? What man goes to great lengths to defend sex work? What 'man' allows his wife to actively distance herself away from him and move in to the arms of another man?

Hopefully he wakes up a bit, but he reaped what he sowed. Personally, i'm still on the fence as to whether this is all some psyop bait
What is Machiavellian / dark triad in practice? I am 4x more dark than the average, what does that mean in actual example?
 

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Who?
 

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What is Machiavellian / dark triad in practice? I am 4x more dark than the average, what does that mean in actual example?
In a general sense to be machiavellian is to manipulate things to meet your ends. Ethical considerations are often ignored alongside subsequent resulting repercussions. To achieve an aim by any means necessary which is oftentimes unscrupulous and exploitative in nature.

In the instance here, apparently this other guy was filling her head with lies and actively turning her against Destiny. I can think in many ways back to PUA and how often those men would use decepit to their advantage and put on airs, all in a concerted effort to get sex
(i'm more a mode one guy personally).

Generally speaking the application of these qualities is for personal gain and those that utilize them in this manner test highly for psychopathy. Some broad examples being:

-Taking info about someone/something then storing it as ammunition to hurt them at a later date.
-Using lies to control a scenario or create avoidance
-Using insincere flattery
-Instilling a false persona of sincerity and moral integrity
-Avoiding confrontation in the moment to later use someone


However, you can have dark triad traits and be a good person.

Knowing these traits is a power, using them correctly is another thing. People who are competent in manipulation could apply that skillset to influence people into better choices for example. Being dark triad in many ways is a good thing when used in a positive way, it means you are intuitive and arguably a realist.

From my reading I think Robert Greene is by far the best at dissecting and explaining machiavellianism in particular. People often cite 48 Laws of Power, but I'd argue his book Seduction spends far more time engaging in manipulation (for better or worse).

His book Laws of Human Nature is on spotify. Chapter 3 and chapter 9 would be well worth a listen.



I also have tested a fair bit 'darker'
 
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I have so many friends who have gone down this road such a shame but he could always bounce back many men have.
 

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It never ceases to amaze me how men rationalize clear red flags when they meet a woman, then play victim when those red flags haunt them later on. The same way he met this chick is the same way he lost her
Not every one can get a taste of the whole redpill philosophy ive seen worst cases.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It never ceases to amaze me how men rationalize clear red flags when they meet a woman, then play victim when those red flags haunt them later on. The same way he met this chick is the same way he lost her
And how did they meet?
 

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She was in another relationship that was open, watch the video till the end if you dare, Destiny bangs Melina while the boyfriend is live on twitch listening to her moans
Living proof why I always say millennials and generation z should wait till they're at least 40 to reproduce and get married
 

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I don't agree with Destiny's open relationship views, but I do know that he is extremely anti-red pill even still after the divorce, so this video title is completely misleading. The concept of the Red Pill is completely bull shvt because even the patrons of it do not practice it behind closed doors.
 
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