"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How Fat Pride became the new battleground in America's culture wars

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The reason Boulder is doing this is because since about 2000, it's been over fracking run with Californians that bring their politics where they go. Seriously, they're like a fracking virus. They leave their states that have become shyte-shows and then infect other areas; it's taken 20 years in the case of Boulder...but they've succeeded. So tired of land whales; they're god damned disgusting.

How Fat Pride became the new battleground in America's culture wars: One in six US deaths linked to obesity but liberal states are banning fatphobia with discrimination laws
By TOM LEONARD

PUBLISHED: 18:00 EST, 9 December 2023 | UPDATED: 02:59 EST, 10 December 2023

Sitting picturesquely in the foothills of the hiking and skiing mecca of the Rocky Mountains, Boulder isn't known as America's fittest city for nothing.

Intimidatingly hale and hearty, it's a place where bars and restaurants are dead by 9pm so locals can fit in an early morning ski or mountain-bike climb before work.

It sits at 5,430ft above sea level so endurance athletes from all over the world come to train here. Boulder's social calendar is packed with a daunting series of strenuous events including an annual 10km road race that attracts 50,000 runners, a plunge into an iced-over lake and a 'Tube To Work Day' in which commuters hurtle down the rapids of a river clinging to car tyre inner tubes.

And then there's the annual Halloween Dash, when residents run naked down the city's main street in front of cheering crowds wearing nothing but a hollowed-out pumpkin on their head. Anywhere else the locals might be just a little self-conscious but not Boulder, where many people are only too happy to show off their athletic physique.

Which makes it so extraordinary that Colorado, America's slimmest state, where Boulder is situated, is set to become the first state in the US for 50 years to ban 'fat phobia' by law. And it is not alone in its aims to legislate in this way. Across America, politicians have been planning laws to add a person's weight to the list of characteristics such as race, age, religion and sexual orientation that are protected from discrimination.

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Will ozempic be to fat culture what cochlear implants were to deaf culture?
 

BoomToTheMoonAlice

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In defense of fat people, without them we wouldn't have scenes like these!



 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Aside from very rare niche medical conditions, there is no good excuse for obesity. There will always be weird folks with a fat fetish and desperate simps that take what they think they can get; but collectively, as long as slender women exist, they will be the preference.
 
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