"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I want to date 19 years old Arab girl

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I met this arab girl who is 19 ,receptionist at clinic i frequent ,she is an anime watcher we talked about some words used in those shows which I gave translation to. I am an university student doing bachelor. I personally do not watch cartoon and told her that. I showed her middle east music recoding i had on my phone and got help finding name of tune. 1st time I saw her she covered her body fully with abaya but 2nd time she wore medical outfit, shirt and trousers so i could see shape of her tits and ass. For i got aroused by her pretty appearance (hb8-9) and went on to ask about whether she had any children,said she'd nevergivenbirth( i knew already before asking, but I used the question to find out whether she still is virgin) other questions include her family structure, number of siblings, if she wants to be 1st wife or 4th wife,she said any position beyond 2nd wife is undesirable. How many kids she would have in future, said doesn't wish to ' start an army ' ( her dad works for the military ) maybe 3 or 4 kids.
After some time i went back to sofa in waiting area sat there for a few minutes. Again thought popped into my head, went over to her and asked if it's acceptable in her religion ( Islam ) to shave eyebrows .
Told me it's disallowed to shave eyebrows . I ask further about armpits. For hygiene reasons she removes hair. What about the crotch? Asked i. She asked again, probably not knowing the word as she isn't a native English speaker. I make shaving motion at my own crotch area. Girl says yeah. I replied do you ? She does what appears to be a nod,while looking at pc display away from me ,uttered 'what are all these questions ' i continue like nothings wrong and said well i also shave pubic hair
I had enough time to make a long conversation with her because I was waiting for my turn at the place and there were no other patients there in hallway.

Finally got called for my procedure and during the session doctor received notification on his apple watch. Normally this doesn't happen. He's also immigrant , exchanged few words with his assistant in his native tongue( different person from the receptionist)
In end receptionist girl told me to stop asking questions ' especially to arab women ' did i completely blow my interaction? I have been wanting to ask her out for coffee next time i see her. But haven't even shook hands yet. But when we do, i want to give her a twirl to tease her sexually and create sparks in her snatch. Which of following is best suited for the purpose,?

A https://yewtu.be/watch?v=-CL4-Wiea5c
B https://yewtu.be/watch?v=LgBJnGAVfEY
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My eyes are bleeding.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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And went on to ask about whether she had any children,said she'd nevergivenbirth( i knew already before asking, but I used the question to find out whether she still is virgin)
I know its a troll account but for the sake of discussion, If he already knew she doesnt have kids and for whatever reason he wanted to estimate her body count, he should have asked her if she ever had a pregnancy scare.
 

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You'd have to be on the spectrum to say something so socially uncalibrated.

Unless you sell cordless laser hair removal devices... :cool:
She did not understand him so he had to motion to his own to explain to her. Totally cringe.
 

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Gather around kids, its story time.

Maybe I already told you this story and I know most posters here dont agree with me on this but whatever.

Many years ago I went on a date with this girl HB6-8. First date. During the conversation, she was telling me about a female friend of hers that recently had a pregnancy scare.

Since she brought up the topic, I figured it was fair game and I asked her if she ever had one.

Not the exact words but the convo was something like:

Her: Yeah, 3 boyfriends ago. Poor guy, I worried him for nothing.

Me: Im glad you didnt put the following boyfriends through that

Her: Nah, I never had sex with them. I have only ever had sex with the guy I gave the pregnnancy scare.

I dont know about you guys but my alarm went off.

So she had this boyfriend she had sex with. Next boyfriend, no sex. Next boyfriend after that, again, no sex.

I figured she was an "Alpha Widow" even though I wasnt familiar with the term at the time, and I nexted her. To this day, I have never regretted it. I probabbly saved myself a bunch of time and headaches.
 

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I love a challenge and certainly would've gotten a sport-fack out of it. Recalibrate her. Not like it has not been done before.

Ahhh...The dulcet tones of a hot chick lying there shaking uncontrollably, convered and basted with sexual fluids saying "Jesus, I feel like I'd never actually been f*cked before..."

You could have fvcked the alpha out of her system.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I guess most posters here would have given her "X" number of dates and if she didnt put out by then, pull the usual

"I cant be with someone who doesnt desires me sexually so I guess this is goodbye. I wish you well but I have to go now"

and its fair to admit it probably would have worked and she probably would have opened her legs right then and there.
 

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I will meet the Muslim again this week.what do i tell her
Ask her to coffee right off the bat or ignore her? I want my d sucked at least, her teen body tempts me so much
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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