Cognitive dissonance

[Foe]

So I went full red pill, in some ways it explained all of the mysteries of woman or at least the ones I was struggling with. I think in many ways its still relevant however my friend made an observation and over time I am starting to see his point.

All of the ****ty things I observe in the woman I lust for I literally do to the woman I dont. The ghosting, the non committal attitude, the bang and bye situations, the bang and keep them around for something better situations, the Im all in, no Im not, yes I am, now no Im not.

I've had woman completely submit to me and I honestly I have cared less. I didn't mean to be an ass hole but Im sure to them I was.

I do all of these things to woman I dont really like. I mean its a completely different story to the ones I do, but then isnt it for the woman as well? I dont think we are much different, the redpill has some merit but only if you remove the BS from both sides.

I blame modern dating more then anything else.

 

[Ricky]

So I went full red pill, in some ways it explained all of the mysteries of woman or at least the ones I was struggling with. I think in many ways its still relevant however my friend made an observation and over time I am starting to see his point.

All of the ****ty things I observe in the woman I lust for I literally do to the woman I dont. The ghosting, the non committal attitude, the bang and bye situations, the bang and keep them around for something better situations, the Im all in, no Im not, yes I am, now no Im not.

I've had woman completely submit to me and I honestly I have cared less. I didn't mean to be an ass hole but Im sure to them I was.

I do all of these things to woman I dont really like. I mean its a completely different story to the ones I do, but then isnt it for the woman as well? I dont think we are much different, the redpill has some merit but only if you remove the BS from both sides.

I blame modern dating more then anything else.

there has become a new standard for whats acceptable behavior in how we treat people nowadays

There is also an arc of relationships at times. So things can go great then can turn bad quickly

 

[Manure Spherian]

I do all of these things to woman I dont really like.

Why do you spend time with people you don’t like? This is odd.

 

[Foe]

Why do you spend time with people you don’t like? This is odd.

Sex mostly but sometimes you wonder if it's just to soon to make a judgement call and hand around to make sure your calling it for the right reasons

 

[Manure Spherian]

Sex mostly but sometimes you wonder if it's just to soon to make a judgement call and hand around to make sure your calling it for the right reasons

Why not go to a legal escort then? She won’t like you, and you won’t like her; it will be just sex between you two.

 

[LTG71]

So I went full red pill, in some ways it explained all of the mysteries of woman or at least the ones I was struggling with. I think in many ways its still relevant however my friend made an observation and over time I am starting to see his point.

All of the ****ty things I observe in the woman I lust for I literally do to the woman I dont. The ghosting, the non committal attitude, the bang and bye situations, the bang and keep them around for something better situations, the Im all in, no Im not, yes I am, now no Im not.

Women will do the same thing when they don’t have high interest.

I've had woman completely submit to me and I honestly I have cared less. I didn't mean to be an ass hole but Im sure to them I was.

If it is someone or something you truly don’t desire then it has no value, especially if it was easy to get. One of the reasons why women hate nice guys, they didn’t have to work for his attention. The scarcity component is removed by his simping.

I do all of these things to woman I dont really like. I mean its a completely different story to the ones I do, but then isnt it for the woman as well? I dont think we are much different, the redpill has some merit but only if you remove the BS from both sides.

Yes. This is where the friendzone comes in. Women will use the sh!t out of a guy, especially if she knows he likes her. I would venture to guess there is a larger proportion of women using men for non-sexual resources than there are men using women for sex.

I blame modern dating more then anything else.

This dynamic is nothing new, we just have more ways communicate and this dynamic gets amplified. Back in the the day we only had face to face conversations or phone calls. The sting of not being mutually desired is worse now since you can see everyone on multiple platforms.