"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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The bleu and black dudes I know are fully aware of all this, but refuse to entertain the idea behind it let alone apply it. A lifelong indoctrination of what women (should) mean won't magically disappear by watching a few 1 minute shorts. Good example is my muslim friend who keeps taking his once per year date to an expensive restaurant rather than a first time easygoing drink . And gets nowehere. Yet he is an intelligent man whose familiar with the big names. On top of that he hangs out with me ,someone whose activly following the manosphere.
Mainstream media picks up on the RP now. Even women becoming aware of the basic concepts, although you REALLY ran out of luck when you deal with a woman who knows names as Rollo, Fresh N fraud or Patrice "the king" o'neal.
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Very few women know about Rollo Tomassi, Rich Cooper, Fresh & Fit, Playing with Fire, Wheat Waffles, etc.
None of my male friends know much about the red or the black pill.
There is an ongoing thread about my general social circle on this forum.....
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.