We_ArE_VeNOM
Master Don Juan
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Yeah, and its about the only thing I've been wrong about on here.Credit is always deserved to a man that acknowledge being wrong.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeah, and its about the only thing I've been wrong about on here.Credit is always deserved to a man that acknowledge being wrong.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Women are prone to fantasizing.I know a woman that I have come to the conclusion that she is a covert narcissist. She can’t get along with anyone for too long and usually blows up relationships, doesn’t matter male or female. Not being able to maintain relationships leaves her in a constant state of turmoil. Fighting with older acquaintances on a regular basis, leaves her having to constantly find new friends that are unaware of her bs. They all think she is a great person until she takes her mask off and they see she is a toxic b!tch. She went to therapy for 10+ years, used alcohol and weed as coping strategies and now has added antidepressants. She was all happy when California legalized marijuana, she went to her doctor and “got a card”. Yay! Now you can medicate without having to get supply in some back alley.
She still acts like a crazy b!tch, just the pace is a little slower. The side effects from the antidepressants is now she gained 20-40 lbs. So before she was hot and crazy, now she is fat and crazy. Therapist left the country so she went back to weed, alcohol and antidepressants instead of finding another therapist.
Whatever demons they are dealing with are most likely deeply rooted and they are permanently scared. I equate these types of ppl to a car with a salvaged title. On the outside it looks presentable, but under the hood there is hidden damage that will cause you trouble until you dump it.
Women are probably more prone to this problem because of their hormones and menstrual cycle fluctuating every month along with society putting them on a pedestal once their boobs develop. Society treats them differently than it treats men.
Current society also loves to promote the victim mentality. So advertising your “depression” is a sign of strength. Everyone seems to have a “disorder” these days. Maybe you’re just a little b!tch that actually has to do something with your life and stop whining and drop the entitlement. This of course is not really that accepted in the male demographic so most men are not going to advertise their struggles.
Good if someone is self aware and actively doing something to help themselves get better.
There is absolutely no use in trying to find out what the cause is.. It could be multiple of reasons, including childhood trauma, in some cases it's because she been ran through by lots of different men.Anti-depressants are there to help numb the conscience for women who have treated other guys too horribly. Believe it or not, women are not as amoral as you think and they suffer consequences emotionally on how they treat other guys. You need to find out what she is covering up that she has to take it.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.