How to convince your scared homies that women aint that scary and they should get out of the house more?

[Gamisch]

Still doesn’t work. We’ve been out somewhere & I’ll leave the group and start talking to a girl. But they’ll not follow my lead.

I think one problem is they’ve been with me when women have approached me. So it’s likely they think that’s the norm Whereas for these guys, that ain’t gonna happen. There’re going to have to put in the work.

i’m not great at Game. But from what little I’ve seen of them. They’re atrocious. For guys like this. Being aggressive and having good game are what’s going to lead to success. And they should looksmax (but that’s a long term strategy).

Its a chicken egg dilemma.

When I visit a friend and his house is a mess I always joke that it shows there hasn't been a woman in here for a long time huh?

So no women =no incentive to be attractive. And not attractive =no women. A loop of negativity.

 

[Gamisch]

If you do not have a natural advantage girls are a pain in the ass. To get them is a lot of work and once one gets her it is even more work. If one thinks with the brain then women are overrated. If you think with your ding dong you will do what it takes. So leave people to their destiny. If you want to to good feed starving children or something like that.

A lot of people are motivated my FOMO or jealousy.

Saw this video about dating is hard. Creator vlogged about his shy homie and basically forced him to talk to a girl. It worked ofcourse. But the main reason I say this is because he said: "its my friend , I care about him so I wanna see him happy."
Makes sense..

Its true we all have our destiny. But women simply are important for us men. No way around it. No man should waste his prime without women.

 

[Gamisch]

I don't have any "housebound homies" I cut those off in my 20s.

However, my close friends always run situations/scenarios by me and get my help with text game. I only have 1 friend who can fvck as he pleases, the world has done a number on most of them.

For someone that does so well, I should have been married with kids by now if not for my damaged nature and upbringing. It's mainly my desire to never settle, I could have been married twice already.

To answer you directly OP, you distance yourself and advise these men from afar, lest it rub off on you. Misery loves company.

This is the current outcome anyway. I completely separated chasing women in any form and hanging out with them. Hanging out mostly happens at home or some quiet spot(because they rather avoid big crowds).

Like one guy said; lead by example.

Not only that but practice what you preach, in general.

Reminds me of when all of these warmongers talk about how we (United States) should lay out a preemptive strike against North Korea or Russia.

You know what I tell them?

Lead the charge.

Absolutely

 

[Epicenter]

Saw this video about dating is hard. Creator vlogged about his shy homie and basically forced him to talk to a girl. It worked ofcourse. But the main reason I say this is because he said: "its my friend , I care about him so I wanna see him happy."
Makes sense..

Its true we all have our destiny. But women simply are important for us men. No way around it. No man should waste his prime without women.

First you can not leave women alone. Now you can not leave the bros alone. Again there are starving children.

Sorry just joking. Take care of your homies.

 

[Gamisch]

First you can not leave women alone. Now you can not leave the bros alone. Again there are starving children.

Sorry just joking. Take care of your homies.

If I could I would definitely feed the starving kids, but unfortunately I also know that every penny I'll send will be taken by corrupted in between guys and people.

Having said that, imo a man can also be sexually starved.

I'll admit i can't leave women alone/live completely without women. Hell, I can't imagine a life completely deprived of women.

Funny anecdote; when I grew up mear the beach we had a local homeless guy/bum. One day he was crying. We asked why . He said: " I see all these beautiful women but I can't get none". I'd always imagine that that's what it feels like to be COMPLETELY deprived of women.

 

[Epicenter]

If I could I would definitely feed the starving kids, but unfortunately I also know that every penny I'll send will be taken by corrupted in between guys and people.

Having said that, imo a man can also be sexually starved.

I admit i can leave women alone/live completely without women. Hell, I can't imagine a life completely deprived of women.

Funny anecdote; when I grew up mear the beach we had a local homeless guy/bum. One day he was crying. We asked why . He said: " I see all these beautiful women but I can't get none". I'd always imagine that that's what it feels like to be COMPLETELY deprived of women.

Yes that is true. Even the Dalai lama said that is what he missed the most. My minimalistic recommandation for homies is save money and go once in a while to the Philippines. Problem solved. If you are still crying then you are greedy.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Yes that is true. Even the Dalai lama said that is what he missed the most. My minimalistic recommandation for homies is save money and go once in a while to the Philippines. Problem solved. If you are still crying then you are greedy.

Most of my )White) friends who did manage to get a girl. Settled with a plan looking Asian (Chinese, Korean or Japanese).

 

[corrector]

Most of my )White) friends who did manage to get a girl. Settled with a plan looking Asian (Chinese, Korean or Japanese).

You said most instead of all. The rest were not willing to date outside of their race? Your ethnic friends are all incel?

 

[corrector]

If I could I would definitely feed the starving kids, but unfortunately I also know that every penny I'll send will be taken by corrupted in between guys and people.

Having said that, imo a man can also be sexually starved.

I'll admit i can't leave women alone/live completely without women. Hell, I can't imagine a life completely deprived of women.

Funny anecdote; when I grew up mear the beach we had a local homeless guy/bum. One day he was crying. We asked why . He said: " I see all these beautiful women but I can't get none". I'd always imagine that that's what it feels like to be COMPLETELY deprived of women.

Ths homeless guy was in his 20s? This particular age stings if you have no money and no woman. You feel everything 100 times worst then the late 40s when things like that numb out (due to lower libido).

Howwver, never experienced meeting someone like that to bring that concept to life. Usually you see signs asking for money. Not once I see panhandler begging women to get laid or money to use prostitute.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

You said most instead of all. The rest were not willing to date outside of their race? Your ethnic friends are all incel?

Not all my non-White friends are incel. As for my White incel friends. I don’t get the impression they’re ‘White woman only’.

 

[corrector]

Not all my non-White friends are incel. As for my White incel friends. I don’t get the impression they’re ‘White woman only’.

What did your non White friends settle with? Are they graduated incels or were normies?

 

[Gamisch]

Ths homeless guy was in his 20s? This particular age stings if you have no money and no woman. You feel everything 100 times worst then the late 40s when things like that numb out (due to lower libido).

Howwver, never experienced meeting someone like that to bring that concept to life. Usually you see signs asking for money. Not once I see panhandler begging women to get laid or money to use prostitute.

Nope old man. In his 40s perhaps even 50s.

Its indeed an interesting way of looking at it. A homeless man is also human. He must be reminiscing about better times.

Your first paragraph. Thats actually the problem. Men in their 20's think they have all the time in the world .

 

[Barrister]

Men have to desire women in order to go after them. Your friends that have turned into video gaming couch potatoes clearly don't have that drive. No amount of imploring or cajoling is going to get them to suddenly decide they want some pvssy. In fact, if anything, it likely will just make them dig in their heels even more and shutter themselves longer.

Some guys like this are actually truly happy with their existence though. It is alien to guys like us who want a beautiful woman at their side and in their bed, but some guys have such low libido from years of no sex that they just kind of exist without it and don't seem to really care. I think it is absolutely true that if you don't use it you lose it.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Still doesn’t work. We’ve been out somewhere & I’ll leave the group and start talking to a girl. But they’ll not follow my lead.

So what?

That shouldn't stop you from doing what you do.

Let them sit back on their pansy asses and watch you do yo thang.

I think one problem is they’ve been with me when women have approached me. So it’s likely they think that’s the norm Whereas for these guys, that ain’t gonna happen. There’re going to have to put in the work.

Oh, you got it like that, eh?

i’m not great at Game. But from what little I’ve seen of them. They’re atrocious. For guys like this. Being aggressive and having good game are what’s going to lead to success. And they should looksmax (but that’s a long term strategy).

?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

So what?

That shouldn't stop you from doing what you do.

Let them sit back on their pansy asses and watch you do yo that

So what?

That shouldn't stop you from doing what you do.

Let them sit back on their pansy asses and watch you do yo thang.

It doesn’t.
It’s their problem.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

It doesn’t.
It’s their problem.

Damn right.