A Woman Can't Flake On You; If You Do This...MODE ONE!!! Part 3

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

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Yeah man, back at it.

Check this out...

I stated before that we have to change our mentalities if we are to proceed with Mode One.

Before I became Mode One, my plan was usually to..

1. Cold approach (or warm approach) an attractive woman and getting her contact information (a step which I also modified, more on that on another thread).

2. Communicating with her via call/text and wooing her with my charm and personality.

3. During a success 1&2, set up a date.

4. During the date at some point, GET PHYSICAL.

Usually, the date would take place during the upcoming weekend.

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Now, since I am officially Mode One, my mentality has changed and so has my 4 step method.

Now, my 4 step method has been modified to..

1. Cold approach an attractive woman and getting her contact information.

2. Go Mode One with her within 5 text messages.

No longer trying to woo her with my charm and personality (not at this stage, anyway).

3. If I am unsuccessful in exchanging physical contact with her after the events of #2, then guess what??

4. There IS NO DATE.

Now that being said, I just need to point out a few things..

A. I recall Alan Roger Currie stating that he NEVER took any of his f#ck buddies (or friends with benefits) out on dates.

He stated that "dates" were only reserved for his LTR partners or women whom were wifey material.

I tend to take a different route than him.

I have no problem taking women out on dates.

In fact, I like going out and sharing the company of an attractive woman in public.

However, I will NOT take a woman out on a date, UNLESS we are physically intimate FIRST.

You see, most men take women out on dates as a down payment to get the puzzy.

But for me, getting physical with me is a woman's down payment for a date.

Why?

Because I am a man of high value, and the woman needs to earn my money and attention beyond physicality.

After all, women set prerequisites, don't they?

"I have to get to know you first".

Well, they have their standards, and I have mines.

And who will cave in to the others standards?

Time will tell.

The point; Im STILL not in any position to get flaked on or my time/money wasted.

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B. Not to toot my own horn, but I was already kinda/sorta headed towards Mode One before I even knew about the theory.

And when I found out about it, it was like "wowwww, a method which fits who I am as a person."

I said that to say this: I decided to be more direct with women, after having a "close call" with a woman.

This "close call" wasn't a potential flake, but nevertheless the woman put me in a position to whereas I did not get what I truly wanted, and I went home that night feeling VERY DISAPPOINTED..and I vowed to never put myself in that position again.

That experience (which I will share in part 4) is why I decided to put Mode One into practice and since I had just (coincidentally) found about the theory, it all came together like a puzzle.

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C. Mode One is indeed direct VERBAL game...however, I am of the belief that you can definitely pull off Mode One just as effectively via text.

D. Seducing a woman sexually with words is/was never my thing. However, there are other ways of "seduction", which IS my thing.

But more on that in another thread.

Now...in part 4, I will share my personal, modified version of Mode One and the premises behind it.

 

[user252009]

Dude I can't even read these posts, you write like a teenager. Write with some cohesion and not like a chicken whose head's just been cut off.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Dude I can't even read these posts, you write like a teenager. Write with some cohesion and not like a chicken whose head's just been cut off.

Aww what's the matter?

You having difficulty sounding out the words?

Listen, whenever you get stuck on a word, use your vowels.

 

[user252009]

Aww what's the matter?

You having difficulty sounding out the words?

Listen, whenever you get stuck on a word, use your vowels.

Taking the number of responses should be one indicator of how engaging your writing is.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Taking the number of responses should be one indicator of how engaging your writing is.

Just like cold approaching.

You win some, you lose some.

But its all good either way, baby .

 

[Barrister]

From what I can gather from posts on "Mode One" (which I admit until the past 7 days I didn't even know what it was), I don't see there being anything groundbreaking here - maybe it was back in 2007 or whenever the phrase was coined. Generally speaking, boldness is rewarded with women (and life in general). We preach that quite a bit here. You can also certainly bang a woman in a short duration of time without taking her out on a date. Do I think that is going to happen with great frequency? No.

Directness is generally a good thing, but you can overdo it. Tempering it with charm and nuance can serve you very well and increase sexual tension.