Anyone try speed dating versus online dating in their local city how did it go?

[eli77]

Always been curious seems like a big time saver.

 

[corrector]

Always been curious seems like a big time saver.

They ask what you do for a living.

 

[eli77]

They ask what you do for a living.

And?

 

[corrector]

And?

Personally, I did not feel compatible with near 99.9% of the women there however I was not in a good place when I attended. This was like in early 2015 just not long after seperating with my ex wife or visiting that escort that gave me nasty panic attacks afterwards. I went more for a social diversion however my ego still got a hit from going there. I would not go there again.

I mentioned this as this is first question women on the other side ask. If you develop a solid canned routine around that question then it would be a game strategy.

 

[eli77]

Personally, I did not feel compatible with near 99.9% of the women there however I was not in a good place when I attended. This was like in early 2015 just not long after seperating with my ex wife or visiting that escort that gave me nasty panic attacks afterwards. I went more for a social diversion however my ego still got a hit from going there. I would not go there again.

I mentioned this as this is first question women on the other side ask. If you develop a solid canned routine around that question then it would be a game strategy.

Where did you find that escort

 

[corrector]

Where did you find that escort

There were two escorts, one seen on Dec 4th at 9pm, and the other seen on Dec 5th at 11pm and one where I visited an incall but left and went across town inbetween.

All escorts were found using the backpage website, calling the number.

The first one I hang out infront of the place and the door opened, a Madam asked what I was doing, and I said "I want experience" and proceeded to walk upstairs to the first lady named Suzy. Was a softcore session, but had an ego-boost from it and felt 100 times better than I came in. However, this fueled me to go and try some other escorts knowing I just had a one or two day window to do so.

The last one named Bianca was where the sesion was more hardcore (although no vag pen happened, but almost did) and where all of the panic attack issues occurred.

Total cost was $ 120 for both women, but didn't care about money at the time. Freedom is more important than money, even the freedom to make mistakes sometimes.

 

[jimwho]

Yesterday you asked for legal advice for Felony elderly abuse on your Mother. (And she passed) you went to jail for three days and have to go see the Judge. You needed $15.000 for a lawyer, and today you're just curious about speed dating?
And Hookers. Don't you think your priorities should be clearing your good name first?

 

[eli77]

There were two escorts, one seen on Dec 4th at 9pm, and the other seen on Dec 5th at 11pm and one where I visited an incall but left and went across town inbetween.

All escorts were found using the backpage website, calling the number.

The first one I hang out infront of the place and the door opened, a Madam asked what I was doing, and I said "I want experience" and proceeded to walk upstairs to the first lady named Suzy. Was a softcore session, but had an ego-boost from it and felt 100 times better than I came in. However, this fueled me to go and try some other escorts knowing I just had a one or two day window to do so.

The last one named Bianca was where the sesion was more hardcore (although no vag pen happened, but almost did) and where all of the panic attack issues occurred.

Total cost was $ 120 for both women, but didn't care about money at the time. Freedom is more important than money, even the freedom to make mistakes sometimes.

What city!

 

[corrector]

What city!

Toronto, Ontario, Canada. However they made buying sexual service illegal effective midnight on Dec 6, 2014.

 

[eli77]

Toronto, Ontario, Canada. However they made buying sexual service illegal effective midnight on Dec 6, 2014.

U heard about that

 

[corrector]

U heard about that

I studied the law before I visited the hookers. I had to visit them (or shall we say, I tricked myself into visiting them) before the law became effective. I tracked that law the whole time since it got passed in 2014. Its call Bill C-36.

However, as other places, there is a culture of non-enforcement of these type of things unless the women are minors, kidnapped, or there against their will and rat on the police. This is to encourage other would be clients from reporting any abuse to law enforcement but without worrying about getting charged themselves. We have smart policing of this type of stuff that's not over the top like USA.

 

[sangheilios]

I did it a few years ago and it was a very awkward experience that I completely regretted brining into my life.

There is nothing wrong with these events but the type of people that attend, both men and women, is what completely sets the tone for the event. If you can go purely with the intent of wanting to try out a new experience, I say go for it. However, if you go in with certain expectations to be met than I'd avoid, as there is a high chance of being incredibly disappointed or even angry from the experience.

When I went the other men were kind of what I imagined, literally this odd misfit group. The women were average(ish), some overweight ones but none of them were horrendous looking either. I found a few of the women to be quite honestly rude and only 2 women there were enjoyable to talk with. It was disappointing to say the least.

 

[eli77]

Yesterday you asked for legal advice for Felony elderly abuse on your Mother. (And she passed) you went to jail for three days and have to go see the Judge. You needed $15.000 for a lawyer, and today you're just curious about speed dating?
And Hookers. Don't you think your priorities should be clearing your good name first?

Maybe your right no one is perfect

 

[eli77]

Yesterday you asked for legal advice for Felony elderly abuse on your Mother. (And she passed) you went to jail for three days and have to go see the Judge. You needed $15.000 for a lawyer, and today you're just curious about speed dating?
And Hookers. Don't you think your priorities should be clearing your good name first?

Maybe you're right no one's perfect would you rather be playing video games watching p*** and trying to hook up with your mother or sister?

 

[jimwho]

^^^^^ Holy Moly, that's so stupid and classless I kinda feel bad for you. This board does have it's up's & downs.

 

[eli77]

I did it a few years ago and it was a very awkward experience that I completely regretted brining into my life.

There is nothing wrong with these events but the type of people that attend, both men and women, is what completely sets the tone for the event. If you can go purely with the intent of wanting to try out a new experience, I say go for it. However, if you go in with certain expectations to be met than I'd avoid, as there is a high chance of being incredibly disappointed or even angry from the experience.

When I went the other men were kind of what I imagined, literally this odd misfit group. The women were average(ish), some overweight ones but none of them were horrendous looking either. I found a few of the women to be quite honestly rude and only 2 women there were enjoyable to talk with. It was disappointing to say the least.

Where was it?

 

[bat soup]

I did it a few years ago and it was a very awkward experience that I completely regretted brining into my life.

There is nothing wrong with these events but the type of people that attend, both men and women, is what completely sets the tone for the event. If you can go purely with the intent of wanting to try out a new experience, I say go for it. However, if you go in with certain expectations to be met than I'd avoid, as there is a high chance of being incredibly disappointed or even angry from the experience.

When I went the other men were kind of what I imagined, literally this odd misfit group. The women were average(ish), some overweight ones but none of them were horrendous looking either. I found a few of the women to be quite honestly rude and only 2 women there were enjoyable to talk with. It was disappointing to say the least.

Maybe you didn't take enough speed.

 

[SW15]

Speed dating is generally a waste of time. The kind of woman most men want to date is not going to show up to a speed dating. She has many other options in terms of arranging dates. Speed dating was also a waste of time in its 1990s-2000s heyday too and probably even worse.

There was a thread about all types of structured singles events about 5 months ago. Speed dating and singles mixers are generally considered a waste of time, effort, and sometimes money.

Are Structured Singles Events a Waste of Time?

Mostly every unattached person has dealt with this. The potential invitation to a "singles event" or "singles mixer". It is a chance for unattached people to meet. It's not a general night out at a bar, which has unattached people interspersed with attached people. Everyone here is unattached by...

www.sosuave.net

 

[bat soup]

Speed dating is where the desperate meet the losers.

 

[The Duke]

Why not just walk into a bar and approach girls? If there are no hot girls, then you walk out and onto the next bar. Sounds more efficient than speed dating to me.