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Asian Dude Killed In Colombia on a Date

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First off, rip to this dude and I hope the best for his family.

But this just goes to show how risky going to Colombia to get laid can be. You can't just hop on a plane, rock up and expect to get you d1ck sucked.

Honestly, from the sounds of it, the best way to get laid over there is to get a hotel, go on escort review sites, vet the escort and have the escort come to your room like Uber eats.

I honestly fee like I would be pretty helpless in a place like Colombia. I live in a fairly urban US area, but I don't think I'm equipped to handle the sh1t that goes down in Colombia.

Although, I do hear from gringo's that go and succeed. But they probably did their due-dligence before hopping on a plane.

I've heard the whole gamut regarding Colombia from "It's *****-paradise" to "Eh, it's not that great, the rules of the SMV still apply" to "It's a death trap, don't go". Not sure what to think of it, tbh.
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The South American country is spelled Colombia.

There is a Columbia in South Carolina and one in Missouri.

The capital of the USA is Washington DC, and the DC stands for District of Columbia.

The differences between Colombia and Columbia can be confusing.

Colombia has a reputation for being a dangerous country but also a country with some of the most attractive Latinas.

I would not travel to Colombia to bang Colombian women. There are safer countries in Latin America to look for Latina vagina.
 

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Colombia has a reputation for being a dangerous country but also a country with some of the most attractive Latinas.

I would not travel to Colombia to bang Colombian women. There are safer countries in Latin America to look for Latina vagina.
Yeah, maybe Lima, Buenos Aires, or sao Paolo (not Rio) based on what I've heard.
 

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Colombia has a reputation for being a dangerous country but also a country with some of the most attractive Latinas.

I would not travel to Colombia to bang Colombian women. There are safer countries in Latin America to look for Latina vagina.
Which countries?

Asians are usually smart. How could he fall for this?

I was China 10 years ago and came out of a bank on the Bund in Shanghai, The hottest 22 year old Chinese approahced me and started talking to me in English. I’m thinking “yeah, this is real.” We started walking towards my hotel and talking and she invited me to go have “tea” with her. I said ‘I would but I’m going with my gf to Hong Kong in a few hours” and went to my hotel,

But man, she was hot I should have left my gf and went with her. She could have taken a kidney for one night of love.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Which countries?
Chile and Uruguay are probably the safest options in South America.

Argentina was once a great civilization with a GDP on par with the United States. That was true between 1900-1930. There were once Europeans emigrating to Argentina, like there were Europeans emigrating to the United States in the late 1800s/early 1900s.

Argentina has been trending downwards for a long time. Argentines like to think of themselves as cosmopolitan and civilized. I'd rather be in Argentina than Colombia for safety purposes, but Argentine women are known to be difficult.
 

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I've heard the whole gamut regarding Colombia from "It's *****-paradise" to "Eh, it's not that great, the rules of the SMV still apply" to "It's a death trap, don't go". Not sure what to think of it, tbh.

It always depends on the individual man that travels. Let's say:
- prime Arnold physique
-fluent spanish
- financially independent

Vs
-thirsty looking for vagina.
-unable to communicate
-just enough money to travel , expecting to " fck for cheap".

The latter obviously will have a bigger chance to struggle over there, and come home with a different story than the dude in the first example
 

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Wow! If people put as much effort into planning a trip to a foreign country to get laid as they did leaving the house and exploring their own neighborhood and city, they would probably get laid and save some $$$. I suppose some people just can’t or don’t want to put in the work, or maybe their current location offers a low ROI?
 

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Wow! If people put as much effort into planning a trip to a foreign country to get laid as they did leaving the house and exploring their own neighborhood and city, they would probably get laid and save some $$$. I suppose some people just can’t or don’t want to put in the work, or maybe their current location offers a low ROI?
My location in the States offers a 0 ROI. :mad:
 

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I dated a Colombian woman for a few months. She was a US citizen. Very nice girl. But I'm partly glad that it didn't work out. If things got serious between us, the thought of traveling to her home country to meet/visit her family scared the hell out of me.
 

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I dated a Colombian woman for a few months. She was a US citizen. Very nice girl. But I'm partly glad that it didn't work out. If things got serious between us, the thought of traveling to her home country to meet/visit her family scared the hell out of me.
I did not have such a good experience. She was driving after the date and we were going back to my place. She had the Latin music going on full volume in the car, and was a super ***** about it. We came to the last intersection before my apartment complex, and I tell her “go straight”. She proceeds to take a right turn right onto the highway. So it takes us five minutes to get back to the apartment. And she talked about clothing and nails without my prompting. Insufferable.
 

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lol Asian guy in Colombia like everyone knows what you're there for, then you get killed lol. And to top off the humiliation his family makes a go fund me smh.
 

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I am thinking all the warning signs were there and he ignored them.
girl called him "papi" or "baby"
girl asked him to come to her apartment
if you get killed in these countries good luck getting the police to help you. they are in on it (not that the police in the us are not corrupt)
 

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Where did you get that from? I know a lot of asians and they're are nerds, bad dressed, awkward, creepy and very poor social skills. Its not surprising that happened to him.
Didn't mean "smart" with girls. I meant book smart.

But I guess you answered the question.
 

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This guy sounds incredibly naive, I wonder if he did any real research before travelling?

Colombia is not that unsafe
 

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I visited an escort from Colombia 8 years ago and we danced to Latin music together from her tape deck. Was a nice time that I still remember up to this day. Some nice ladies from that place, and affordable too.
 
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Why did you feel the need to put Asian in the subject line?
 

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Colombia is way safer than it used to be when the cartels were around, but all of Latin America is dangerous when it comes to this type of thing. And there are no countries that are 100% safe.

If you look/act/sound like a foreigner in these countries, you paint a huge target on your back and you have to remain vigilant at all times, if not even paranoid.

Never ever do what this guy did, especially if you're asian.
 
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