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[newdon1]

This is the gym girl whom today i have added on ig... She talks to me for like 3 or message but then she didn't reply to my last message , even ignored my one text about her sister

I don't want to look chaser or desperate so i didn't followed up

But what should I do in gym when I will se her face to face?

Ignore her completely or talk to her normally?

 

[In2theGame]

This is the gym girl whom today i have added on ig... She talks to me for like 3 or message but then she didn't reply to my last message , even ignored my one text about her sister

I don't want to look chaser or desperate so i didn't followed up

But what should I do in gym when I will se her face to face?

Ignore her completely or talk to her normally?

Can't give you proper advice unless you break down how the conversation went via. text/DM.

 

[newdon1]

Can't give you proper advice unless you break down how the conversation went via. text/DM.

I have attached conversation ss

 

[member160292]

Be gentle, fellas

 

[In2theGame]

Was that your first message?

"Hey Rocognise me?"

 

[newdon1]

Be gentle, fellas

Means?

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Ignore her completely or talk to her normally?

Ignore her completely.
If she is really interested in you, she will make herself available to you and as girls do "stalk" you in the gym by always being in proximity to you and give IOI's - or best option; she comes up by herself and talk talking to you.

 

[In2theGame]

Means?

He means the forum was going to tell you how bad that was lol but don't take it personally. We're here to help you.

 

[newdon1]

Yeah

Was that your first message?

"Hey Rocognise me?"

 

[newdon1]

Ignore her completely.
If she is really interested in you, she will make herself available to you and as girls do "stalk" you in the gym by always being proximity to you and give IOI's - or best option; she comes up by herself and talk talking to you.

Ok i will ignore her

 

[Cerwin Vega]

Move on and stop giving these bitches any form of validation before they've earned it

 

[CoandaEffect]

You are chasing too hard and she is not really interested.

Never double text, you did it twice. She should always be texting more than you.

You should not ignore her when you see her, be polite but stop chasing her.

 

[In2theGame]

Yeah

Why were you asking her "You guys didn't come to the gym? & is your sister ghost?"

What does this mean? maybe it's an inside joke we don't know about but by you asking what happened and why she wasn't at the gym, kind of shows that you're in that "needy" state.

Even if you think it shouldn't come off that way, it may to her.

Don't text her back. When you see her at the gym, just smile and nod "Hey" and keep doing what you're doing (working out).

Let her be the one to reach out next.

 

[newdon1]

Why were you asking her "You guys didn't come to the gym? & is your sister ghost?"

What does this mean? maybe it's an inside joke we don't know about but by you asking what happened and why she wasn't at the gym, kind of shows that you're in that "needy" state.

Even if you think it shouldn't come off that way, it may to her.

Don't text her back. When you see her at the gym, just smile and nod "Hey" and keep doing what you're doing (working out).

Let her be the one to reach out next.

Actually i didn't find her profile... That's why I asked as a joke

I hoped that she will answer what do you mean by ghost?.. but she didn't

Ok so i won't enquire next time..
If it makes me needy

 

[newdon1]

You are chasing too hard and she is not really interested.

Never double text, you did it twice. She should always be texting more than you.

You should not ignore her when you see her, be polite but stop chasing her.

Yeah i made a mistake..
I will never double text from now on

 

[In2theGame]

Actually i didn't find her profile... That's why I asked as a joke

I hoped that she will answer what do you mean by ghost?.. but she didn't

Ok so i won't enquire next time..
If it makes me needy

I don't know. You're the one who mentioned "Ghost" in your text to her.

What you really need to do is first, be honest with yourself and then to her.

Stop wasting time trying to chit chat, that's only suitable if you want her to become a platonic friend.

If you want more than that, you need to start communicating that as soon as possible or else SHE may start looking at YOU in a platonic way. Also known as the friend zone.

 

[Cerwin Vega]

No offense, but you're new here. You've obviously done zero reading, and you're expecting a quick solution from us...you've got a lot of work ahead of you.

Even if we tell you do A,B,C and you do these things exactly, the next time something happens beyond the scope of our advice, you'll revert back to your normal needy behavior = your house of cards will crash even harder.

 

[newdon1]

No offense, but you're new here. You've obviously done zero reading, and you're expecting a quick solution from us...you've got a lot of work ahead of you.

Even if we tell you do A,B,C and you do these things exactly, the next time something happens beyond the scope of our advice, you'll revert back to your normal needy behavior = your house of cards will crash even harder.

agree

Till now I read

book of pook
rational male
how to be jerk women love (started reading)

any other recommendations? especially for approaching & creating attraction into girls

the stuff I read mostly focuses about date with a girl or afterwards
the problem is where i live, girls are not that open to date with a stranger

 

[newdon1]

I don't know. You're the one who mentioned "Ghost" in your text to her.

What you really need to do is first, be honest with yourself and then to her.

Stop wasting time trying to chit chat, that's only suitable if you want her to become a platonic friend.

If you want more than that, you need to start communicating that as soon as possible or else SHE may start looking at YOU in a platonic way. Also known as the friend zone.

actually, the girl I was chatting with is a sister of a girl with whom I want to create attraction, she is already engaged so I wasn't trying with her & was just being friendly, these both sisters come to the gym together.

 

[Cerwin Vega]

Where are you from?

I think the most important thing is to hammer into your head the idea that you're worth way more than any b*tch out there, and act based on that fact.

Do you think that a famous movie star would feel nervous talking to this basic b*tch, or tolerate any sort of disrespect? He'd laugh and move on, because she is absolutely nothing compared to him.