"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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espanish

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Friend, she's doing that if she's attractive, whether or not shes online. However, chances are that she is, even if she doesn't admit it.
not if she has standards, causing her to show some resistance to your advances (I will give you my instagram, I don't like giving my number)
but ya if she is easy and gives me her number without asking any questions about me chances are she is giving her number to 10 other guys
a girl needs to qualify me as much as I qualify her
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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So every once in a while we come across someone who just makes us ridiculously attracted. We cannot even explain it - it happens to men and women. This may have been the case with that girl.

And yes even a "good girl" will, when faced with that type of attraction, put aside every rule and shibboleth for the right guy. She may have just gotten a jolt from you. Women are more suceptible to this type of behavior than men are on the whole, but have you never met a woman that just charmed you to death? That you looked at her and said "i'd put a f'ing ring on that".

Anyway, enjoy the prey my friend.

not if she has standards, causing her to show some resistance to your advances (I will give you my instagram, I don't like giving my number)
but ya if she is easy and gives me her number without asking any questions about me chances are she is giving her number to 10 other guys
a girl needs to qualify me as much as I qualify her
 
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