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Since @Jake_Gyllenhaal69 decides to post about dog owners, I've decided to post about women who own their own homes.
Many years ago, when I had more interest in eventually moving in with a woman or possibly even getting married, I did not like interacting with never married, childless women who had already bought their own homes. To me, when I saw that, it seemed like the woman was giving off a feminist vibe about being Strong & Independent ™ .
In previous eras (prior to 1990 or so), women didn't buy homes when they single and childless. They went from their parents' house to their husband's place. Often times, the husband was a renter and then bought a house when he got married. In the 1970s-1990s, people were renters and then bought houses together as a married couple.
As people have postponed marriage later in life, a more common scenario is a single, childless woman who is a homeowner. Single women are more likely to be homeowners than single men. In the past, I didn't like the possibility of moving into a woman's owned home that she picked out before we met. In that way, I'd be a "housing cuck". Now, since I am less interested in moving into a woman's place or marriage, I'm less bothered by women who own homes despite never being married and childless but I still see it as a sign of being a less feminine, pro-feminist woman, You Go Girl™ type woman.
I don't typically interact with the @BeExcellent type of homeowner, a divorced woman with kids. I do once recall being on a date with a divorced woman with no kids who was a homeowner.
I have observed some other later in life couples where both parties were homeowners and got married. One of them had to sell a home. That's a pain to do.
Many years ago, when I had more interest in eventually moving in with a woman or possibly even getting married, I did not like interacting with never married, childless women who had already bought their own homes. To me, when I saw that, it seemed like the woman was giving off a feminist vibe about being Strong & Independent ™ .
In previous eras (prior to 1990 or so), women didn't buy homes when they single and childless. They went from their parents' house to their husband's place. Often times, the husband was a renter and then bought a house when he got married. In the 1970s-1990s, people were renters and then bought houses together as a married couple.
As people have postponed marriage later in life, a more common scenario is a single, childless woman who is a homeowner. Single women are more likely to be homeowners than single men. In the past, I didn't like the possibility of moving into a woman's owned home that she picked out before we met. In that way, I'd be a "housing cuck". Now, since I am less interested in moving into a woman's place or marriage, I'm less bothered by women who own homes despite never being married and childless but I still see it as a sign of being a less feminine, pro-feminist woman, You Go Girl™ type woman.
I don't typically interact with the @BeExcellent type of homeowner, a divorced woman with kids. I do once recall being on a date with a divorced woman with no kids who was a homeowner.
I have observed some other later in life couples where both parties were homeowners and got married. One of them had to sell a home. That's a pain to do.
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