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For people who go for young girls in general: Can we simply ignore OLD?

Eddie3232

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The question will be straight and forward: Is it necessary to use apps for increasing possible closes to their maximum potential numbers when we talk about girls under 20? Or is social engagement, in day or nightlife, enough?

I absolutely disgust online dating, it is extremely limited and i feel hindered on it but i can hustle girls in person who let dozens of men hanging in IG or whatever app we talk about, i'm even very good looking and stuff and get results but i don't feel alright in apps and anxiety is a thing while personally it's not really an issue, there are girls in 30k IG land and beyond that try to follow me and let me engage them and interact back, i do get meetings in tinder or whatever, but it's subpar and i can't even nearly match my game in real life, no idea if because i'm likely in the spectrum or whatever

The only exceptions is when i do have a compatibility with the girl or if she is sexually invested/nice/fragile, outside that its draining as hell
 
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Put yourself in situations where you regularly come into contact with young attractive women. Try going to venues that they frequent or change careers.

Without university your options are incredibly limited.
 

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For men targeting women under 30, it's not necessary to use the swipe apps. Women under 30 who are single are reasonably easy to find in real life. @Eddie3232 is 25, so it is assumed that all his targets would be 25 and under. It's much easier to find a woman close to 25 who is single and unattached than it would be to find a 30 year old woman single and unattached or a 35 year old woman single and unattached.

Older men are actually challenged with this. I would say this becomes problematic for men once they turn 35. If you're a man 35-44, you're likely going to be most successful with women 30+. Women 30+ is a thinner market in the real world and IN THEORY online dating/swipe apps are supposed to increase efficiencies in thinner markets. It doesn't world that way either. Sure, a man would encounter more single 30 somethings on a swipe app than in real life in most cases. Most men don't like a life that enables them to meet a high volume of women, a problem that often gets worse as a man ages. The man who meets 30 something women in the real world has an advantage. There is no substitute for starting interactions in person.

@Eddie3232 -- Enjoy the full market you have right now in life.
 

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The question will be straight and forward: Is it necessary to use apps for increasing possible closes to their maximum potential numbers when we talk about girls under 20? Or is social engagement, in day or nightlife, enough?

I absolutely disgust online dating, it is extremely limited and i feel hindered on it but i can hustle girls in person who let dozens of men hanging in IG or whatever app we talk about, i'm even very good looking and stuff and get results but i don't feel alright in apps and anxiety is a thing while personally it's not really an issue, there are girls in 30k IG land and beyond that try to follow me and let me engage them and interact back, i do get meetings in tinder or whatever, but it's subpar and i can't even nearly match my game in real life, no idea if because i'm likely in the spectrum or whatever

The only exceptions is when i do have a compatibility with the girl or if she is sexually invested/nice/fragile, outside that its draining as hell
No. You need to max out all avenues but you have to approach.

Why?

Off rip, women might max out her mare selection at 29 so, you at 30 + are weeded out of the mate selection process. Follow PWF. Solid.

Cause real life = better

Irl > OLD

Yes, utilize it and whatever resources you have. Take IG. I prefer digits. Not IG or social media.

I run a tight ship. Comply or bye. Work volume.

Psychologically, there's 100x more investment from a woman Irl vs matching on an app. Furthermore, the caliber are rubbish modern women. Ran through. Kill for days. Inability to pair bond. Incomprehensible for women to add value. There's nothing to work with a woman who cannot comprehend dhv. Smash &&&& next material.

Run your funnel online and Irl. Allocate more time to whatever yields better outcomes. For me, Irl pickup over OLD.

The algorithm is already blocking you from girls you would have matched with 1 years ago.
 

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The algorithm is already blocking you from girls you would have matched with 1 years ago.
I have been hearing the algorithm is shiit lately. Men who used to get enough matches to set up low quality "one date, no sex, no second date" type dates in decent quantity have seen way fewer matches in the last 2-3 years or so. It's not even worth doing anymore unless you're a Top 10% man who is just looking to up the notch count and not looking for a relationship.

I've always preferred more extended relationships than casual sex/one nighters, so the swipe apps (and even dating website before them) were never a good fit for me.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Something is better than nothing but I see a lot of women like the marks on tinder swindler. I never liked the apps. Prefer putting in work. I just got a rise from it. I've had good experience from the app. Usually the girl had OK pics. Cute but wasn't a hard core profile. I found this great in contrast to girls linking ig and whatever else.

I have to agree with Aaron Clarey. Modern women don't like men except that miniscule percentile that's at the top of the dominance hierarchy and only from a utility perspective.

I mirror the girls right back. Sold strategy. I cone with a invisible warning. Will not commit. Icy as ****kkk.
 

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The question will be straight and forward: Is it necessary to use apps for increasing possible closes to their maximum potential numbers when we talk about girls under 20? Or is social engagement, in day or nightlife, enough?

I absolutely disgust online dating, it is extremely limited and i feel hindered on it but i can hustle girls in person who let dozens of men hanging in IG or whatever app we talk about, i'm even very good looking and stuff and get results but i don't feel alright in apps and anxiety is a thing while personally it's not really an issue, there are girls in 30k IG land and beyond that try to follow me and let me engage them and interact back, i do get meetings in tinder or whatever, but it's subpar and i can't even nearly match my game in real life, no idea if because i'm likely in the spectrum or whatever

The only exceptions is when i do have a compatibility with the girl or if she is sexually invested/nice/fragile, outside that its draining as hell
Don't go for young girls on apps. It's far easier to get them face to face. Their entire defense system goes down in front of a guy that attacks it thoroughly. On apps, girls are in their ideal head no matter the age.

I got my <20 from Tinder.
Most <20 girls I saw were single mothers or something was off about them. I avoided them entirely.
 
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