Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
In the Will and Jada situation, August Alsina was on the pedastal, Will is kept around as an azz kisser. Who knows how many other visitors to that situation get to be on Jada pedastal....In reality ALL women have ONE man they place on a pedastal, and usually a couple more. If your less than that, then your kissing her ass.
I don’t consider this a time waster. TBH, your wife or partner are going to be the worst time wasters in your life.The bottom line is they will make the escalation process difficult. You won't be able to ger her out alone or if she agrees initially she will flake with all kinds of excuses. At the same time she will be in your inbox stringing you along wanting your attention.
The validation for her is having your attention and you showing her interest.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Tell me about it. Eight kids is okay, but nine....?During the “date,” she tells you about her new boyfriend that has nine kids.
During my last date with my time waster, she was buying heart necklaces for her and future boyfriend (my replacement).She stays over your house a dozen times and nothing happens. She invites you out for dinner and dancing on your birthday. During the “date,” she tells you about her new boyfriend that has nine kids.
Time waster? Potentially lol.
Exactly. You can’t make this stuff up.Tell me about it. Eight kids is okay, but nine....?
That doesn't even make sense. If a woman is in a actual relationship with you and submitting to you, she's not wasting your time.I don’t consider this a time waster. TBH, your wife or partner are going to be the worst time wasters in your life.