Striker_93
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You're just now finding this out ?
You're 36 year old, the hell have you been
You're 36 year old, the hell have you been
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
They do not need a emotional connection to cheat lol just need to be turned on by said guy.While that may be, we must not forget that women are emotional creatures and to cheat they do need to feel an emotional connection to a guy; (which is why its way worse in my opinion if a woman cheats), while we men can do exactly what the video suggest. We can have sex with multiple women the same day and still love our girl at home because we men are born to smash; I.E. we do not need any emotional attachment with a chick to have sex with them. Women on the other side need it.
You sound very inexperiencedWomen when they cheat generally do it because she doesn’t feel she is getting everything she needs. It signals a problem with the man in her life. So no - I don’t buy this.
You keep believing what you believe in...They do not need a emotional connection to cheat lol just need to be turned on by said guy.
Right, so when girl at the bar gets fvcked on the first night who had a bf back home had a emotional connection with the random guy ? LolYou keep believing what you believe in...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Nice shaming tactics. It doesn't work here.Right, so when girl at the bar gets fvcked on the first night who had a bf back home had a emotional connection with the random guy ? Lol
How old are you like 21 ?
You didn't answer the question ?Nice shaming tactics. It doesn't work here.
You got a lot to learn, so keep on dreaming your pipe dream and drink the Disney cool aid until you wake up to the real world.
You missed the mark here. I didn’t say anything about “blaming the man” or “taking the responsibility off of women.” I could have been more clear that the “problem with the man” I referenced is seen as through her eyes. But I think that was fairly obvious without me needing to spell it out. If you think I am a feminist I am literally speechless. That’s some funny sh1t.You sound very inexperienced
Blaming a man for a women cheating is about as stupid and weak anyone can get.
Taking all responsibility off a women and putting it on a man, are you a feminist ?
Nothing wrong with a little debating and sh!t talking here n there lolYou missed the mark here. I didn’t say anything about “blaming the man” or “taking the responsibility off of women.” I could have been more clear that the “problem with the man” I referenced is seen as through her eyes. But I think that was fairly obvious without me needing to spell it out. If you think I am a feminist I am literally speechless. That’s some funny sh1t.
Given your posting habits thus far on this site you seem to just like trying to start arguments for the sake of arguing. Not enough to do with yourself in everyday life?
"lol, lol".sh!t talking here n there lol
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Only sometimes lol"lol, lol".
Acting like an immature tw@t that just want to argue
This is true from what i've experienced recently.Almost impossible. If she cheats regularly her psychology in an attempt to validate itself will go into a fault finding mode on you. She will be nit picking and tearing you down. The respect is gone. Her psychology also knows she is treating you badly, and it knows that you realize it. Further respect is lost from this.
It's funny how a chick is never to blame for anything, even for the sh*t she does.Almost impossible. If she cheats regularly her psychology in an attempt to validate itself will go into a fault finding mode on you. She will be nit picking and tearing you down. The respect is gone. Her psychology also knows she is treating you badly, and it knows that you realize it. Further respect is lost from this.
They have an emotional connection with money. No need to say more.Do prostitutes need an emotional connection to sleep with their clients?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
My Tyrone friend told me he used to work at a place. One of the men allowed a co worker to spend the week days at his house. He did not want the co worker to have to commute many hours away.
The co worker ends up having an affair with the generous man's wife. He then ends up marrying her and starting a new family with her. Oh and he also takes the house. Wow...just wow.
Again, I think we have to accept that they are not monogamous and that they will cheat. I struggle with this a lot. I used to not care but now I am trying to be monogamous with this one female and I suddenly care. When I was cheater I didn't care if my girl cheated. I may have to get back to that lol.
I believe men can cheat and still care deeply about their woman. Men just want the sexy new woman to have sex with.
Women when they cheat generally do it because she doesn’t feel she is getting everything she needs. It signals a problem with the man in her life. So no - I don’t buy this.
Mate not sure what you are smoking.
Coach EO is one of the few PUA guys I even occasionally watch. The other is RSD stuff. He has an interesting video here. I was talking to my co worker who is a certified Tyrone. He was telling me stories about how wifes would sleep with him and then go back to the husband like it's nothing. He showed me text messages of fiance's asking him for sex but still supposedly in the "honey moon" phase of their relationship.
I also had experiences where a woman would be cheating with me then talk complimentary things about her boyfriend. I used to think that if a woman cheats then that means that she is checked out of the relationship. Now, I am not so sure.
This is so depressing. Its literally over over. No matter what you do they will still cuck you behind you back. I don't blame the black pill guys. I am starting to give up on the idea of children because I dont want to ever go through this lol.
Basically she can cheat on you purely our of lust but still LOVE you smdh.
That's called female logic.It's funny how a chick is never to blame for anything, even for the sh*t she does.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.