"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I dont understand the swinger/ cuckold thing

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I hear stories of married couples doing cuckoldry and/or swinger stuff. Recently a prominent member of the "manosphere" got exposed for promoting cuckoldry with his wife. Is this fetish based in a secret resentment of their wife? Is it based in homosexuality? Or is the sex life of a married person so boring that this is the ultimate way to spice it up?

Coach Greg Adams recently did a live stream talking about his experiences with married couples at swingers parties. He said the husbands were okay with the sex as long as it just happened that one time. No emotions involved. Maybe being swingers is the only way that a marriage can work. Maybe it serves as a safe release valve for the boredom of monogamy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I hear stories of married couples doing cuckoldry and/or swinger stuff. Recently a prominent member of the "manosphere" got exposed for promoting cuckoldry with his wife. Is this fetish based in a secret resentment of their wife? Is it based in homosexuality? Or is the sex life of a married person so boring that this is the ultimate way to spice it up?

Coach Greg Adams recently did a live stream talking about his experiences with married couples at swingers parties. He said the husbands were okay with the sex as long as it just happened that one time. No emotions involved. Maybe being swingers is the only way that a marriage can work. Maybe it serves as a safe release valve for the boredom of monogamy.
+1

I blame low testosterone.

A lot of dorks all piled on. Losers! No time to hear multi hour boomers doing gossip on cuckokdry. Some look like they were turned on talking about it. Creepy as ****kk.

It's a weird world. I am busy Making moves. Outside of Troy who actually approaches or Clarey who isn't shilling e books or digital rubbish on game are 2 I can stand listening too.

I don't get it. I cannot comprehend it but nor can I understand marriage. White dress for a skank who got ran through in trains. Attention ***** ceremony once the milk goes bad. I don't get it?

There's far better use of our time then a lot of the ****ery on YouTube. I enjoy comedy. I enjoy learning a language or something useful. Currently I am researching the response by world governments for better alternatives alternative well as lower taxes. Freedom and individual sovereignty taking precedence of course.
 

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I hear stories of married couples doing cuckoldry and/or swinger stuff. Recently a prominent member of the "manosphere" got exposed for promoting cuckoldry with his wife. Is this fetish based in a secret resentment of their wife? Is it based in homosexuality? Or is the sex life of a married person so boring that this is the ultimate way to spice it up?

Coach Greg Adams recently did a live stream talking about his experiences with married couples at swingers parties. He said the husbands were okay with the sex as long as it just happened that one time. No emotions involved. Maybe being swingers is the only way that a marriage can work. Maybe it serves as a safe release valve for the boredom of monogamy.
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It's a weird world. I am busy Making moves. Outside of Troy who actually approaches or Clarey who isn't shilling e books or digital rubbish on game are 2 I can stand listening too.

I don't get it. I cannot comprehend it but nor can I understand marriage. White dress for a skank who got ran through in trains. Attention ***** ceremony once the milk goes bad. I don't get it?
The world is a very fcked up place ! I don’t do the bar scene much anymore. Most of the time I go to the bar... I am not looking for a hook up at all.... I just want an epic cheat meal and some beers to relax. In the last 3-4 years I’ve probably had close to ten different chicks start talking to me... and let me know their husband/bF likes to watch.... I recall two of them actually said that while their husband or whoever he was... was sitting right next to her. That usually creates a weird moment where I feel like the guy is now hitting on me. Like hey... I’m bob... my wife is really into you.... so... what’s your sign?? I have done an Irish exit 100 percent of those times !
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The world is a very fcked up place ! I don’t do the bar scene much anymore. Most of the time I go to the bar... I am not looking for a hook up at all.... I just want an epic cheat meal and some beers to relax. In the last 3-4 years I’ve probably had close to ten different chicks start talking to me... and let me know their husband/bF likes to watch.... I recall two of them actually said that while their husband or whoever he was... was sitting right next to her. That usually creates a weird moment where I feel like the guy is now hitting on me. Like hey... I’m bob... my wife is really into you.... so... what’s your sign?? I have done an Irish exit 100 percent of those times !
I don't understand it.

@SW15 pointed out Mating Mind Geoffrey miller is a cuckold. These guys know that data as Rollo points out but they champ their wife's bull blowing out her back. It's ****ed. I don't get it.

It's not my first rodeo. I know how ran through the girls are. I just plow. I find most women's behavior repulsive at best. There's a lot of soy boys these days who cannot tie down the girl so she exercises hypergamy with 0 consequences. Obviously she has no respect for a cuckold.

I read alpha god by Hector Garcia? Guy is knowledgeable but a cuck and male feminist soy boy. There's a creepy nature that coincides with pedaling this nonsense around children in government education. Heads would be on a stick in the middle east.
 

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Cuckoldry is pretty tame when it comes to sexual fetishes. Some guys like to dress up as a latex dog and get led around on a leash, have their balls stomped on with stilettos, or get fisted in the a$$. Most of the people who do this get off on watching it, and it's probably a lot more prevalent than you think.

Jack Murphy, who I assume you're talking about, said he did it to prove that he didn't give a fvck after being screwed in divorce, and apparently because he needed money at the time. And honestly, it's up to everyone what their business and kinks are. As long as they engage in it consensually with other adults then there is no harm. The only reason he got dragged across the internet as a cuck is because, instead of owning his actions, his "alpha male" ego got butthurt and told the interviewer to go fvck herself. And that's all it took to torpedo his reputation and his brand.

I don't understand it either, but it's not my place to judge people based on it.
 

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Cuckoldry is pretty tame when it comes to sexual fetishes. Some guys like to dress up as a latex dog and get led around on a leash, have their balls stomped on with stilettos, or get fisted in the a$$. Most of the people who do this get off on watching it, and it's probably a lot more prevalent than you think.

Jack Murphy, who I assume you're talking about, said he did it to prove that he didn't give a fvck after being screwed in divorce, and apparently because he needed money at the time. And honestly, it's up to everyone what their business and kinks are. As long as they engage in it consensually with other adults then there is no harm. The only reason he got dragged across the internet as a cuck is because, instead of owning his actions, his "alpha male" ego got butthurt and told the interviewer to go fvck herself. And that's all it took to torpedo his reputation and his brand.

I don't understand it either, but it's not my place to judge people based on it.
Great response...and yes I was referring to Jack Murphy.

Speaking of fetishes I once had a convo this 5.5/10 black chick. An associate of mine was dating her and we were at his house. She told me that she used to prostitute and strip. She said a normal businessman white dude paid her to take a crap on his chest. She also echoed what you said. That this stuff is more prevalent than we think. I was shocked.

A co worker of mine ( 7/10) chick does Seeking Arrangements on the side. She told me she has done bondage on guy and whipped them and put a leash on them etc..wild world man.
 

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The world is a very fcked up place ! I don’t do the bar scene much anymore. Most of the time I go to the bar... I am not looking for a hook up at all.... I just want an epic cheat meal and some beers to relax. In the last 3-4 years I’ve probably had close to ten different chicks start talking to me... and let me know their husband/bF likes to watch.... I recall two of them actually said that while their husband or whoever he was... was sitting right next to her. That usually creates a weird moment where I feel like the guy is now hitting on me. Like hey... I’m bob... my wife is really into you.... so... what’s your sign?? I have done an Irish exit 100 percent of those times !
Yeh bro I feel ya. It's like it's getting more prevalent. I've even had close friends of mine kinda seem like they were hinting at letting me smash their girl. I've only had 1 experience with a strange couple that could have been a cuckold situation. Oh and porn sites are full of cuckold and incest porn now. What is going on? Lol
 

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I blame low testosterone.

A lot of dorks all piled on. Losers! No time to hear multi hour boomers doing gossip on cuckokdry. Some look like they were turned on talking about it. Creepy as ****kk.

It's a weird world. I am busy Making moves. Outside of Troy who actually approaches or Clarey who isn't shilling e books or digital rubbish on game are 2 I can stand listening too.

I don't get it. I cannot comprehend it but nor can I understand marriage. White dress for a skank who got ran through in trains. Attention ***** ceremony once the milk goes bad. I don't get it?

There's far better use of our time then a lot of the ****ery on YouTube. I enjoy comedy. I enjoy learning a language or something useful. Currently I am researching the response by world governments for better alternatives alternative well as lower taxes. Freedom and individual sovereignty taking precedence of course.
Clarey is really cool. I bought his book Enjoy the Decline waaaayyy back in the day. I don't know who Troy is. You don't like Coach Greg Adams??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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One may be able to classify women who enjoy emotional/ physical abuse as a fetish. If we classify businessmen who like their balls stomped as a fetish then we should do that same with women. Very little difference except one has to pay for the abuse.
 

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It's funny how with all their options for careers, they revert back to selling pusssy.
I think its hilarious, that they literally do nothing different to what men "boxed" them into 120 years ago :rofl:

I dont have 1 woman under 40, I know locally who has any passions or pursuits, probably 1 who was an ex addict, she climbs mountains tbf.
 

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I don't understand being a cuckold either. I am not ok with my girlfriend or my wife (if I were to ever marry) getting banged out by another man. While monogamy has real issues, polyamory, open relationships, swinging, and cuckoldry are not the answers.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think it's simple boredom. I've used the adult friend finder site in the past and the place is full of couples who would appear to be relatively normal and well-adjusted. The men in the couple didn't seem particularly low-t and some were obviously the "macho" type
 

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I hear stories of married couples doing cuckoldry and/or swinger stuff. Recently a prominent member of the "manosphere" got exposed for promoting cuckoldry with his wife. Is this fetish based in a secret resentment of their wife? Is it based in homosexuality? Or is the sex life of a married person so boring that this is the ultimate way to spice it up?

Coach Greg Adams recently did a live stream talking about his experiences with married couples at swingers parties. He said the husbands were okay with the sex as long as it just happened that one time. No emotions involved. Maybe being swingers is the only way that a marriage can work. Maybe it serves as a safe release valve for the boredom of monogamy.
I think it's simple boredom. I've used the adultfriendfinder site in the past and the place is full of couples who would appear to be relatively normal and well-adjusted. The men in the couples didn't seem particularly low-t and some were obviously the "macho" type. For what it's worth, the women in the couples were generally more attractive than the single women on the site.
 

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In the Manosphere, Caleb Jones (Blackdragon) has been an advocate for open relationships/non-mongamous relationships. The first link below is a Caleb Jones (Blackdragon) link. Open relationships/non-monogamous relationships could be considered a form a cuckoldry. Some would argue that cuckoldry does not exist in open relationships because adultery does not exist. The dictionary definition of a cuckold is the husband of an unfaithful wife. The concept of faithfulness and fidelity only exists in monogamous relationships. Open relationships/non-monogamy might not technically be cuckoldry but in effect it feels a lot like cuckoldry. Most men do their primary open/poly relationship poorly, and the woman is getting more non-primary partner penis than the man is getting non-primary vagina.

Swinging, another non-monogamy option, feels a lot like cuckoldry.


PUA Nick Krauser has called Caleb Jones a giant cuck.

 

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In the Manosphere, Caleb Jones (Blackdragon) has been an advocate for open relationships/non-mongamous relationships. The first link below is a Caleb Jones (Blackdragon) link. Open relationships/non-monogamous relationships could be considered a form a cuckoldry. Some would argue that cuckoldry does not exist in open relationships because adultery does not exist. The dictionary definition of a cuckold is the husband of an unfaithful wife. The concept of faithfulness and fidelity only exists in monogamous relationships. Open relationships/non-monogamy might not technically be cuckoldry but in effect it feels a lot like cuckoldry. Most men do their primary open/poly relationship poorly, and the woman is getting more non-primary partner penis than the man is getting non-primary vagina.

Swinging, another non-monogamy option, feels a lot like cuckoldry.


PUA Nick Krauser has called Caleb Jones a giant cuck.

Dude I used to love Caleb Jones stuff. I even bought his book Alpha Male 2.0 years and years ago.

The book was basically the free agent lifestyle. It was decent. It gave good advice on starting your own business and how to deal with women etc.
 

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I think it's simple boredom. I've used the adultfriendfinder site in the past and the place is full of couples who would appear to be relatively normal and well-adjusted. The men in the couples didn't seem particularly low-t and some were obviously the "macho" type. For what it's worth, the women in the couples were generally more attractive than the single women on the site.
Yeh man I suspect it is boredom too. So I guess marital sex is so boring that they have to resort to watching their life partner get railed by some stranger. This is reason 1000 that I will never get married. Married guys do not have fulfilling sex lives lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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