“Because I can”

[derby1]

Its like one of them generic questions you should never ask a woman very similar too "how's your day going"

I agree, I removed all this vocabulary as much as i could.

If its a woman i already know, I go straight into "im absolutely disgusted you havent shoot your shot yet"

if shes in the same isle as me in the supermarket "ahhh i see you have good taste in men"

 

[Don Dark Horse]

Are you new? I’ve tried the whole “approach and pua” thing years ago for a few years to no effect. I went my own way and went exclusively online and began getting laid on the regular. Countless times. Mostly 5-6’s but a few 7’s and even a few 8’s.
Therefore I will be continuing with online since it’s the only way I’ve ever gotten laid. Ever.

How often are you getting laid this way if you don't mind my asking? What amount of effort are you putting into your time texting these girls, if you can quantify it? How many girls that you text through OLD actually make it to the date?

 

[Don Dark Horse]

I agree, I removed all this vocabulary as much as i could.

If its a woman i already know, I go straight into "im absolutely disgusted you havent shoot your shot yet"

if shes in the same isle as me in the supermarket "ahhh i see you have good taste in men"

I love the one for girls you already know.
Can you explain the "good taste in men" one. I would use it but I don't get it.

 

[SargeMaximus]

How often are you getting laid this way if you don't mind my asking? What amount of effort are you putting into your time texting these girls, if you can quantify it? How many girls that you text through OLD actually make it to the date?

Before the Covid I was getting a new girl every few weeks. Say 2 a month. Got my ex this way. Messaged her, went over to her house that same night, fvcked her a few days later and had a 14 month relationship

 

[Don Dark Horse]

Before the Covid I was getting a new girl every few weeks. Say 2 a month. Got my ex this way. Messaged her, went over to her house that same night, fvcked her a few days later and had a 14 month relationship

OK cool.
How many girls did you text or match with and it didn't turn into a date or smash? I ask because I find with OLD the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

 

[SargeMaximus]

OK cool.
How many girls did you text or match with and it didn't turn into a date or smash? I ask because I find with OLD the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

What squeeze? 10 seconds of your time? I’m super direct and time wasters or girls not warm to my form reveal themselves very quick I waste no time on girls except on weird occasions like the girl in op.

I match with many but only get a few but again, less than a few minutes of texting

 

[Don Dark Horse]

What squeeze? 10 seconds of your time? I’m super direct and time wasters or girls not warm to my form reveal themselves very quick I waste no time on girls except on weird occasions like the girl in op.

I match with many but only get a few but again, less than a few minutes of texting

I found that my results converting to a match to date was dog****. Being direct and weeding out timewasters quickly. Juice wasn't worth the squeeze, sitting there finding matches takes time. Once it gets to the match, just a few mins of texting, low effort but still, the mins add up. After matching around 10 girls over a couple of days and nothing converts to an actual date I just delete the app.

You said with your ex you went to her the same night you matched. Do you try to see all your matches that same day or the following day? Do you ever schedule dates a few days in advance and it works out?

 

[MatureDJ]

You made the mistake of taking a chick's words - that you're too old - over her actions - that she was conversing with you.

You should have neg-hit her with, "I have the hunch that you look old for your age", and she takes offense to it, you way that the only way you could tell for sure would be to meet up, etc.

 

[Scars]

Like many others have already stated, I don't know why you asked her that. It comes off as weak and validation seeking.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Like many others have already stated, I don't know why you asked her that. It comes off as weak and validation seeking.

Asked her what?

 

[SargeMaximus]

I found that my results converting to a match to date was dog****. Being direct and weeding out timewasters quickly. Juice wasn't worth the squeeze, sitting there finding matches takes time. Once it gets to the match, just a few mins of texting, low effort but still, the mins add up. After matching around 10 girls over a couple of days and nothing converts to an actual date I just delete the app.

You said with your ex you went to her the same night you matched. Do you try to see all your matches that same day or the following day? Do you ever schedule dates a few days in advance and it works out?

i find the longer I converse with a girl before meeting the less likely sex is. Women like me fast and direct I guess

 

[Don Dark Horse]

i find the longer I converse with a girl before meeting the less likely sex is. Women like me fast and direct I guess

I'll try this next time I go on OLD. Aim to schedule a date or meetup that day.

 

[bat soup]

Hey guys so I was talking to this girl online and we went to Snapchat and I asked what she’s looking for then she mentioned her ideal age range which isn’t my age so I’m like “why are you talking to me then?” And she goes “because I can” so I ended it there but wtf?

She means because she enjoys wasting other people's time.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I'll try this next time I go on OLD. Aim to schedule a date or meetup that day.

I gave this advice to Don Juan Jr and he got a fwb. Conveniently he never mentioned it or gave me a shoutout on the forum. Also keep in mind you have to be authentic with your sexuality and intents. This isn’t a “trick” or technique. It’s just going after what you want, being honest, and not wasting time

 

[Don Dark Horse]

I gave this advice to Don Juan Jr and he got a fwb. Conveniently he never mentioned it or gave me a shoutout on the forum. Also keep in mind you have to be authentic with your sexuality and intents. This isn’t a “trick” or technique. It’s just going after what you want, being honest, and not wasting time

Haha, if it works out in my fav I'll try remember to tag you Sarge. And yes it is simply about showing your interest in her and wasting 0 time which I like a lot about it.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Haha, if it works out in my fav I'll try remember to tag you Sarge. And yes it is simply about showing your interest in her and wasting 0 time which I like a lot about it.

Hope it works for you. One final thing to keep in mind is that there is some game that works. Things like not supplicating, flipping questions to her if she asks questions too. But if you keep at it and read pua stuff and test it out you will find what works for YOU.
I believe the biggest misconception is that there is a “one size fits all” style of game. Ime what works for me may not work for others and vice versa. It’s very personal so you gotta find your style.

 

[SargeMaximus]

@SargeMaximus is the reason I had setup the date with my fwb when I did. I has asked him for his advice/experience on the matter, and he suggested right away. Which I followed, and it worked out... More importantly, I asked him how soon I should kiss her. He stated, "usually right away". So I did, and it helped disarm her, and make her more comfortable.


There's your shoutout

Thanks for the testimonial

 

[Scars]

Asked her what?

" why are you talking to me then? "

 

[SargeMaximus]

" why are you talking to me then? "

How is that weak and validation seeking?

 

[Billtx49]

How is that weak and validation seeking?

I think it tells her two things. That you think you’re lower value than her and that she’s already on a pedestal …
A man that knows his own value doesn’t ask why a woman gives him attention.