"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You posted that not me. Never ever call it something like that. You still haven't answered my question and posted some conspiracy BS instead to prove your point of nothing.
It's a conspiracy now that the China Virus came from a wuhan lab? Interesting that you think that.

Please tell me where you think the virus came from? Let me guess the Jews?
 

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It's a conspiracy now that the China Virus came from a wuhan lab? Interesting that you think that.

Please tell me where you think the virus came from? Let me guess the Jews?
Let's not have another COVID conspiracy debate. Yeah, I posted one story, but let's not go on and on about this.

Neither of you is going to change your mind about anything - so what's the point in debating?
 

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It's a conspiracy now that the China Virus came from a wuhan lab? Interesting that you think that.

Please tell me where you think the virus came from? Let me guess the Jews?
Sigh.... You're using those conspiracy memes as a way to attempt invalidate what I am saying. Fricking disgusting that you are attempting to use the Jew card also. That is just disgraceful.

Good work, it just shows more about you than about me.
 
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Let's not have another COVID conspiracy debate. Yeah, I posted one story, but let's not go on and on about this.

Neither of you is going to change your mind about anything - so what's the point in debating?
I strongly agree. I'm tired of it too.
For me its over long time ago and the proof is out there publicly if you want to find the data.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I strongly agree. I'm tired of it too.
For me its over long time ago and the proof is out there publicly if you want to find the data.
Great, because I’m getting tired of it still appearing on this Forum also. Long after everyone here has already been vaxed or not vaxed. We can’t beat a dead horse forever, and continuing to do so only defines futility…
 

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Great, because I’m getting tired of it still appearing on this Forum also. Long after everyone here has already been vaxed or not vaxed. We can’t beat a dead horse forever, and continuing to do so only defines futility…
People will never come to terms with this anyway no matter what "agenda" they support.
 

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People will never come to terms with this anyway no matter what "agenda" they support.
When men have facts and enough time to resolve and personally come to terms with any historical event, it’s over for them, becomes history, and time for them to move on. Any mindset beyond that would usually be classified as a mentally unhealthy obsession …
 
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