Are there any pros/cons about discussing the topic of sex on a dinner date?

[Sebastian0001]

I've heard some schools of thought that by talking about sex, it's kind of a technique where the woman will start to link me and sex which will subconsciously make her start thinking about sex with me? If true, how to talk about it with a woman who is not as sexually open or more on the shy side? I've had a dinner conversation in previous dates with different women where they are so sexually open that we would talk about favorite positions. This one particualarwoman I am giong out with this weekend is far more shy on the topic. What if I asked her things like "what are your views on sex" or "how many times do you think about sex in a given day" or "I bet you look all nice and proper on the outside, but you have a wild fantasy side deep down inside, don't you?"

Any thoughts?

 

[2Rocky]

Little less talk and a lot more action....
Kino before sex talk...

 

[Billtx49]

Discussing sex during dinner would actually rate as being crude from a gentleman’s point of view.
A proper place and time for everything…

Plus, you really don’t wanna be talking about bj’s and anal when she has food in her mouth and a steak knife in her hand….

 

[Mike32ct]

Discussing sex during dinner would actually rate as being crude from a gentleman’s point of view.
A proper place and time for everything…

Plus, you really don’t wanna be talking about bj’s and anal when she has food in her mouth and a steak knife in her hand….

Reminds me of that old tv show Blind Date. On the first date, for some reason, the guy would always ask the girl what her favorite (sex) position was lol.

 

[RickTheToad]

Discussing sex during dinner would actually rate as being crude from a gentleman’s point of view.
A proper place and time for everything…

Plus, you really don’t wanna be talking about bj’s and anal when she has food in her mouth and a steak knife in her hand….

On the contrary, asking which orifice is her favorite port of entry is actually very kind and considerate. For example, if you didn't know she doesn't like anal, and you just stuck it right in her butt with lube; of course, that would be unkind and not very considerate. Knowing this information before hand is incredibly kind and thoughtful.

 

[Billtx49]

On the contrary, asking which orifice is her favorite port of entry is actually very kind and considerate. For example, if you didn't know she doesn't like anal, and you just stuck it right in her butt with lube; of course, that would be unkind and not very considerate. Knowing this information before hand is incredibly kind and thoughtful.

I agree completely, but it’s not usually a dinner time subject.
I could never decide if the Let’s bang later statement was meant to be said during appetizer or entree…

 

[zinc4]

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I've heard some schools of thought that by talking about sex, it's kind of a technique where the woman will start to link me and sex which will subconsciously make her start thinking about sex with me? If true, how to talk about it with a woman who is not as sexually open or more on the shy side? I've had a dinner conversation in previous dates with different women where they are so sexually open that we would talk about favorite positions. This one particualarwoman I am giong out with this weekend is far more shy on the topic. What if I asked her things like "what are your views on sex" or "how many times do you think about sex in a given day" or "I bet you look all nice and proper on the outside, but you have a wild fantasy side deep down inside, don't you?"

Any thoughts?

Get her to talk not you

 

[Bokanovsky]

I've heard some schools of thought that by talking about sex, it's kind of a technique where the woman will start to link me and sex which will subconsciously make her start thinking about sex with me? If true, how to talk about it with a woman who is not as sexually open or more on the shy side? I've had a dinner conversation in previous dates with different women where they are so sexually open that we would talk about favorite positions. This one particualarwoman I am giong out with this weekend is far more shy on the topic. What if I asked her things like "what are your views on sex" or "how many times do you think about sex in a given day" or "I bet you look all nice and proper on the outside, but you have a wild fantasy side deep down inside, don't you?"

Any thoughts?

You should not be going on "dinner dates" with women you have not yet fvcked. Bad idea for all sorts of reasons.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

You should not be going on "dinner dates" with women you have not yet fvcked. Bad idea for all sorts of reasons.

In theory, but not always realistic.