"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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To lie or not to lie about age on dating profile?

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I think this thread simply acknowledges that OLD is entirely appearance-driven and that men are also allowed to take few liberties to put their physical appearance in the best light. “Taking a few liberties” occupies a gray area, yes, but extending that to lying about your age, your occupation, marital status, parental status, or making false statements about yourself is clearly beyond that gray area.

Yes, I realize this forum has a huge problem with women wearing heavy makeup, using younger photos of themselves, filters, angled shots etc. (as the more outspoken on this forum tend to have a huge problem with women in general) but this is all standard operating procedure in a dating venue that ruthlessly judges individuals on a single criterion.

If men want to attract women with their personalities and character, it doesn’t require repeating that OLD is the wrong way to date.
some talking cr4p on rooshv forum by the sounds of it. was a few years back.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women lie about almost everything but that does not make it ok for us to lie too
Where’s the pride in that ? I wear my 5’9 like it’s a crown .
So what if I’m not 6 ft,which is still small

That is tru tho , basketball players even lie or throw a couple inches on their height idk why
For online dating I disagree. At 5’9 I would for sure put 6’0 on the profile. They search for any reason to weed you out. Wear some boots on your first 2 dates. Chicks that like you will rationalize your white lie.
Also, depends on the site too. Some sites let them weed out by height in the search parameters. A date I went on from OLD she said her last FWB listed 6-2 on his profile but was more like 5-10 she said which she thought it was ridiculous he'd lie about height. However I thought in my head "well yea b*tch, but it worked for him, right?"
 

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And memorize the years you were “born,” “graduated” high school and most important: “graduated” college. If you have to pause and do quick math in your head to answer her questions, you’re busted.

TLDR: What year you graduated college is the most common “age test.”
Well, Lucky for me I graduated a few years older than most do from college.
 

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Also, depends on the site too. Some sites let them weed out by height in the search parameters. A date I went on from OLD she said her last FWB listed 6-2 on his profile but was more like 5-10 she said which she thought it was ridiculous he'd lie about height. However I thought in my head "well yea b*tch, but it worked for him, right?"
She still fvcked him…
 

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She still fvcked him…
And she was more like a HB5.5 IRL. You see on her dating profile as well as her facebook photos many of them were kinda blurry like taken on an iPhone 5. She looked more like a 6.5.

That's another thing. Women use blurry, out of focus pics a lot too quite often.

I'm 38. I think it's silly for a woman if she hasn't gained any weight to use pics from 6 years ago. Like if she's 38 just be honest and use newer pics. I'm not going to turn an attractive woman my age down because she looks late 30s. Like if you're late 30s and look your age facial, not weight wise I see nothing wrong with it.

What's your opinion for us guys who're not at least 6 foot? How many inches do you recommend adding to your profile? I recall you're not tall as well but do okay in dating. How many inches do you pad?

Women lie about their height too usually as well. Many who list themselves as 5-7 are not really 5-7 when you meet them.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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And she was more like a HB5.5 IRL. You see on her dating profile as well as her facebook photos many of them were kinda blurry like taken on an iPhone 5. She looked more like a 6.5.

That's another thing. Women use blurry, out of focus pics a lot too quite often.

I'm 38. I think it's silly for a woman if she hasn't gained any weight to use pics from 6 years ago. Like if she's 38 just be honest and use newer pics. I'm not going to turn an attractive woman my age down because she looks late 30s. Like if you're late 30s and look your age facial, not weight wise I see nothing wrong with it.

What's your opinion for us guys who're not at least 6 foot? How many inches do you recommend adding to your profile? I recall you're not tall as well but do okay in dating. How many inches do you pad?

Women lie about their height too usually as well. Many who list themselves as 5-7 are not really 5-7 when you meet them.
Use your height in shoes or 1" taller than your height in shoes.
 

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Use your height in shoes or 1" taller than your height in shoes.
I add two inches to my profile. Many guys add more than that though but I figure 2 is a safe zone.

The NHL players I mentioned that are not over 6 foot their height and weight are both fudged big time. Many of them if you meet them in person not only are they quite a bit shorter, but also weight less than their listed weight.

Remember Tony Twist? one of the most feared enforcers in the game. I met him before right after he retired. Isn't nearly as heavy in person as his listed weight.

Martin St. Louis talks about this too. They pad his height up. His real height he said is 5-7 but he looks he might not even be that. Brad Marchand isn't 5-9. People who met him even said he's more like 5-5 or maybe 5-6. Both have hot wives for their age range. St. Lousi met his wife in college before he was even a pro.
 

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I add two inches to my profile. Many guys add more than that though but I figure 2 is a safe zone.

The NHL players I mentioned that are not over 6 foot their height and weight are both fudged big time. Many of them if you meet them in person not only are they quite a bit shorter, but also weight less than their listed weight.

Remember Tony Twist? one of the most feared enforcers in the game. I met him before right after he retired. Isn't nearly as heavy in person as his listed weight.

Martin St. Louis talks about this too. They pad his height up. His real height he said is 5-7 but he looks he might not even be that. Brad Marchand isn't 5-9. People who met him even said he's more like 5-5 or maybe 5-6. Both have hot wives for their age range. St. Lousi met his wife in college before he was even a pro.
I play hockey as well. Played with a bunch of kids who went D1, D3 and even pro. The heights are ridiculous. 5'8" barefoot players listed at 6", 5'5" listed at 5'8", etc. If you're over 6" they become reasonable. For example one guy I played with who's in the AHL is listed at 6'1", and he's every inch of that.
 

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I play hockey as well. Played with a bunch of kids who went D1, D3 and even pro. The heights are ridiculous. 5'8" barefoot players listed at 6", 5'5" listed at 5'8", etc. If you're over 6" they become reasonable. For example one guy I played with who's in the AHL is listed at 6'1", and he's every inch of that.
Even players just over 6 foot ad well. Carey Price is listed a couple inches taller as well. Even Ovechkin. Official height is 6 foot 3 but Malkin is listed at 6 foot 3 and is taller than him.

Weight is also inflated too.
 

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Even players just over 6 foot ad well. Carey Price is listed a couple inches taller as well. Even Ovechkin. Official height is 6 foot 3 but Malkin is listed at 6 foot 3 and is taller than him.

Weight is also inflated too.
Oh for sure. Just saying it becomes closer to reality at that point.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how old are you 27? if so, can't imagine you need to lie really.
32. I hypothesize that putting 28 would optimize results in my case. I'm not looking for a relationship. I want to get the plate spinning/player lifestyle going. In real life, I typically avoid the topic until it's clear she's attracted and comfortable with me, and then it doesn't matter. Her eyes typically go wide for a second, but she gets over it quickly. The sooner they ask, the more likely they're just looking for any excuse to disqualify me. And having it as the first thing they see on a profile could be an instant DQ.

Please do not lie about your height , It will be exposed when it’s time to clap those cheeks
I'm over six foot. It's rare to see other men as tall as me in public. Yet everyone ONLINE is somehow as tall as me. Maybe I should start claiming 6'4". Regardless, this thread is just about age.
 
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I'm over six foot. It's rare to see other men as tall as me in public. Yet everyone ONLINE is somehow as tall as me. Maybe I should start claiming 6'4". Regardless, this thread is just about age
Everybody’s 5’11 these days

, as far as age goes .idk about that one
I matched with a hot 18 yr old recently.
28 seems a bit old for her
 

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I dated a hot, fit 18 year old when I was 28. And she was a virgin (before she met me, anyway)
How was the sex ?
I dated a 18 yr old bbw once , I think she had low interest simply because My sex drive was higher most of the time
 

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I haven't used O.L.D. much. When I was 26 I met a girl that was 23 and spent a summer hooking up with her. I used my real age on the app.
Within the past year or so, I've made a few profiles and tried using different ages. However, my photos were bad, and I received no decent matches, regardless of what age I made it. (also, 99% of White girls had BLM listed as an interest on their profile, to show that they are not interested in White men) I'm working on some good photos now, and may hire a professional for a couple shots too.

Most people in real life don't believe I'm over 24, so I'm somewhat concerned most women will think my current photos are many years old, and skip me.

I'm interested in women a maximum age of 22. Where I live: any woman over 23 is either obese, or someone with money put a ring on it because thin girls are so rare.

Also, why the heck are 99.9% of the female profiles on dating apps White? My rate of success is astronomically higher with every other race. I think these app companies are purposely not showing other races to White men.
White girls are typically ran through, feminist and got a master's in lesbian dance therapy.

BRB guys, charging up my troll cannon
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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White girls are typically ran through, feminist and got a master's in lesbian dance therapy.

BRB guys, charging up my troll cannon
Lots of females with PhD and masters now. Most are not in business or stem, but in fluff stuff.
 

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How was the sex ?
I dated a 18 yr old bbw once , I think she had low interest simply because My sex drive was higher most of the time
She was an athlete all through high school. Horny 24/7, and energetic.

I wouldn't touch a fat btch, or waste a minute talking to one. That's gross. If she doesn't have a line down the center of her stomach, then she's too fat for me. That's probably why about 80% of women I've been with have been Asian, since they have much higher standards than any other women.
 
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She was an athlete all through high school. Horny 24/7, and energetic.

I wouldn't touch a fat btch, or waste a minute talking to one. That's gross. If she doesn't have a line down the center of her stomach, then she's too fat for me. That's probably why about 80% of women I've been with have been Asian, since they have much higher standards than any other women.
Horny 24/7 ?
that sounds nice
 

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These days I wouldn't be surprised if lying on your dating profile amounts to sexual assault
 

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These days I wouldn't be surprised if lying on your dating profile amounts to sexual assault
I see OLD profiles as resumes on steroids. Everyone fudges their resume up to an extent. Lets be real here. No one on their dating profile here is being 100 percent honest.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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