How did you get over your high school crush?

[eli77]

Chased her for a while then found this site and the rest is history.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I can't even remember what it is like to have a crush let alone high school. To answer your query, time. With time, a man levels up up if he's doing it right. Women fall off. The get fat. Ton of single mom's. Ran through. Life is rubbish. It puts into perspective how ridiculous the pursuit was and more accurately how foolish the slog is. In retrospect, you can recognize how far you came. How much better off I am now. The ultimate W is pulling jail (nearly) bait just turned 18 and running into skanks from the past who are now land whales single mom's.

Pro tip:

Spoiler

life trolls skanks harder than you or I ever could.

Enjoy the decline. Pillage what you can. Watch the world burn.

 

[metalwater]

 

[9-3enthusiast]

How did you get over your high school crush?

Chased her for a while then found this site and the rest is history.

Same as most I suppose - by getting on top of other girls.
Forget the ones who aren't interested, and move on - Concentrate on yourself, and much better options will come along sooner or later.

I actually bumped into my school-days crush in town a few yrs ago - Time has not been kind to her.
Back in the day I was a massive geek, she knew I had a huge crush on her. I asked her out and she turned me down flat.
When I bumped into her I was with the woman I was seeing at the time - a very cute-looking redhead, about 40-ish - And since I got my act together 7-8 yrs ago, I look much younger than my age. Myself and the school-days crush woulda been around 54 at the time.
Not gonna lie... It was a very satisfying feeling.

 

[darksprezzatura]

I'm still smashing girls from my batch when we were in high school. Like 2-3, maybe once or twice in a few months.

Chicks got fat, ugly, let themselves go.

Like @DEEZEDBRAH says life trolls girls harder than any of us would.

Disregard the looks, they're temporary. Women age like bread, men age like wine. There are always younger hotter and more fun versions of the "crushes" you had.

 

[SW15]

To answer your query, time.

life trolls skanks harder than you or I ever could.

The answer is time. I'm 38 years old and it has been 20 years since high school graduation.

When I look at the social media pages of the 37-39 year old women from my high school graduating class and the graduating class the year after mine and see what they are up to these women are up to, I'm not impressed. @DEEZEDBRAH is correct when he says life trolls women harder than we could. I could go on and on illustrating the cases, but it all comes down to the same thing.

Keep in mind that the high school I graduated from was not impressive in terms of female looks. Yes, there were attractive women. However, when I went to college, the best looking women from my high school would not have ranked too well at my college in a much bigger pond.

I have seen a few examples of women from my college who have aged well despite having children. Their social media profiles look like they have perfect families. Keep in mind I went to a large public university known for attractive women. In a large sample set, there are going to be some women that escape the trolling of life. I have also seen hotties from my college reach the 2nd half of their 30s and see their looks go downhill.

 

[bat soup]

You have to add them to Facebook after they've hit the wall.

 

[eli77]

How did you get over your high school crush?

Same as most I suppose - by getting on top of other girls.
Forget the ones who aren't interested, and move on - Concentrate on yourself, and much better options will come along sooner or later.

I actually bumped into my school-days crush in town a few yrs ago - Time has not been kind to her.
Back in the day I was a massive geek, she knew I had a huge crush on her. I asked her out and she turned me down flat.
When I bumped into her I was with the woman I was seeing at the time - a very cute-looking redhead, about 40-ish - And since I got my act together 7-8 yrs ago, I look much younger than my age. Myself and the school-days crush woulda been around 54 at the time.
Not gonna lie... It was a very satisfying feeling.

I've been there where are you

 

[eli77]

I've been there where are you located at

 

[9-3enthusiast]

I've been there where are you located at

North-East England.
County Durham, though not in Durham itself.

 

[joesbigship]

The women I've met post h.s. have been so much better looking and so much nicer and more interesting it's not even a question.

 

[eli77]

North-East England.
County Durham, though not in Durham itself.

dm me

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I'm still smashing girls from my batch when we were in high school. Like 2-3, maybe once or twice in a few months.

Chicks got fat, ugly, let themselves go.

Like @DEEZEDBRAH says life trolls girls harder than any of us would.

Disregard the looks, they're temporary. Women age like bread, men age like wine. There are always younger hotter and more fun versions of the "crushes" you had.

Looks and aesthetics are a **** test. Most fellas are smitten and let her go nuts. I like the old rsd Ty breakdown about the frog on the burner. These girls are not doing it right. The culture cheers women off a cliff. In the past, men used to protect women from themselves. In 2021, GOOD RIDDANCE!

@darksprezzatura nailed it. The culture encourages female lunacy. It feeds their victimhood and encourages consumerism. Fellas need to train off captain save a hoe.

New girls are turning 18 everyday.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

The answer is time. I'm 38 years old and it has been 20 years since high school graduation.

When I look at the social media pages of the 37-39 year old women from my high school graduating class and the graduating class the year after mine and see what they are up to these women are up to, I'm not impressed.

Women have a far shorter shelf life than the boys.

@DEEZEDBRAH is correct when he says life trolls women harder than we could. I could go on and on illustrating the cases, but it all comes down to the same thing.

Keep in mind that the high school I graduated from was not impressive in terms of female looks. Yes, there were attractive women. However, when I went to college, the best looking women from my high school would not have ranked too well at my college in a much bigger pond.

I have seen a few examples of women from my college who have aged well despite having children. Their social media profiles look like they have perfect families. Keep in mind I went to a large public university known for attractive women. In a large sample set, there are going to be some women that escape the trolling of life. I have also seen hotties from my college reach the 2nd half of their 30s and see their looks go downhill.

It's a bit of a crap shoot. In all probability, you can guess who went full retard and got fat. Who initiated divorce 80% of the time. Who got ran through in her best years then roped in some dumb ass. The outlier being the happily ever after white picket fence. The outlier is the religious girl that never went slumming or went all in young. Clareys book shows how slim the chances are. A silver lining is sourcing MORE. STILL, it's not good.

 

[Grounded eagle]

The answer is time. I'm 38 years old and it has been 20 years since high school graduation.

When I look at the social media pages of the 37-39 year old women from my high school graduating class and the graduating class the year after mine and see what they are up to these women are up to, I'm not impressed. @DEEZEDBRAH is correct when he says life trolls women harder than we could. I could go on and on illustrating the cases, but it all comes down to the same thing.

Keep in mind that the high school I graduated from was not impressive in terms of female looks. Yes, there were attractive women. However, when I went to college, the best looking women from my high school would not have ranked too well at my college in a much bigger pond.

I have seen a few examples of women from my college who have aged well despite having children. Their social media profiles look like they have perfect families. Keep in mind I went to a large public university known for attractive women. In a large sample set, there are going to be some women that escape the trolling of life. I have also seen hotties from my college reach the 2nd half of their 30s and see their looks go downhill.

Arizona State?

 

[2Rocky]

Mark Manson has it right: