Ask a chick for her number, she tells her friends immediately after? WTF?

[Poody11]

So I've been feeling this chick for a min. Long story short, I asked the chick out. Literally a second after, she leaves unanswered, runs to her friends and tell them. I approached them to see what's up. One of her friends seemed excited that I asked.

Like wtf was the point of that? She never said no, but I'm considering charging this one to the game.

BTW she's Muslim and a coworker; but of course, AWALT...and I found a new job, so all bets are off.

 

[Barrister]

You didn't really provide any details about how you asked her out -- setting, what you said, etc.

Regardless, I think you NEXT this one and move on. Remember the mantra that "anything other than a yes is a no." She didn't respond here and didn't give you an immediate answer. She ran to her friends to tell them which seems to indicate she maybe an AW. Too much silliness up front already IMO.

 

[Mike32ct]

They always tell their friends details like that.

 

[derby1]

So I've been feeling this chick for a min. Long story short, I asked the chick out. Literally a second after, she leaves unanswered, runs to her friends and tell them. I approached them to see what's up. One of her friends seemed excited that I asked.

Like wtf was the point of that? She never said no, but I'm considering charging this one to the game.

BTW she's Muslim and a coworker; but of course, AWALT...and I found a new job, so all bets are off.

she rinsed you of group approval, and gave you nothing.

not your fault, they're lunatics. they will literally call you at 11.59am telling you the date was the best date, then ghost you at midday.

 

[Poody11]

You didn't really provide any details about how you asked her out -- setting, what you said, etc.

Regardless, I think you NEXT this one and move on. Remember the mantra that "anything other than a yes is a no." She didn't respond here and didn't give you an immediate answer. She ran to her friends to tell them which seems to indicate she maybe an AW. Too much silliness up front already IMO.

Setting: At work (off the clock)
What was said: Asked to meet up for lunch w/ my phone out for her #

Yeah, you have a point. Thought about giving her the benefit of the doubt, considering her religion plus she has bought me lunch or shared her lunch w/ me...but I feel like this is a waste of time.

 

[Barrister]

Setting: At work (off the clock)
What was said: Asked to meet up for lunch w/ my phone out for her #

Yeah, you have a point. Thought about giving her the benefit of the doubt, considering her religion plus she has bought me lunch or shared her lunch w/ me...but I feel like this is a waste of time.

Yeah - considering you point blank asked for the date and got nada out of her I think she is low interest. Regardless of religion.

I would focus on other women to ask out. Maybe this one eventually comes around, especially after you have left your current position. But don't sit around and wait for that to happen. Be proactive. Go out and cold approach. That will quickly take your mind off of her.

 

[Stuffnu]

Nothing to worry about.
Remember anytime you ask or date a girl, this includes her social circle of friends.
It’s like a court of law. Anything you do or say will be held against you. Good or bad.
Yes you witnessed this verbal transaction but maybe she was just happy and loss for words. If it was for other motives, who the F cares and ask her friend out.
Your 29 and should be filling your phone with numbers.

 

[bat soup]

So I've been feeling this chick for a min. Long story short, I asked the chick out. Literally a second after, she leaves unanswered, runs to her friends and tell them. I approached them to see what's up. One of her friends seemed excited that I asked.

Like wtf was the point of that? She never said no, but I'm considering charging this one to the game.

BTW she's Muslim and a coworker; but of course, AWALT...and I found a new job, so all bets are off.

Sounds like she's a huge attention whoare and/or an idiot. She's not cooperating, so forget her and move on.

 

[derby1]

Sounds like she's a huge attention whoare and/or an idiot. She's not cooperating, so forget her and move on.

they all seem to be poisoned by this, even the recent fathered ones Ive met.

 

[bat soup]

they all seem to be poisoned by this, even the recent fathered ones Ive met.

There are lots of them around. In the past I would be surprised by behaviour like this, but now I've come to expect it. It doesn't matter where you go in the world - South America, Istanbul, London, Taiwan. Women are doing the same stupid shiit everywhere.

If you ask a girl out by message, the most like reply is.....

99% of women are FOS. You have to filter them out quickly and efficiently and get to the (very few) ones that are actually worth dealing with.

 

[Zimbabwe]

BTW she's Muslim and a coworker; but of course, AWALT

Looks like you're going to have 4 wives

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

You validated her

 

[Tilex]

If you encounter strange or unusual behavior in the beginning, that definitely means AW.

One thing I learned about attention wh0res over the years is they are oblivious to social etiquette.
You could flirt with them 10,000 ways, and they would never even pick up on 1 of them.

 

[derby1]

You could flirt with them 10,000 ways, and they would never even pick up on 1 of them.

you mean their empty vessels?

 

[Grounded eagle]

So I've been feeling this chick for a min. Long story short, I asked the chick out. Literally a second after, she leaves unanswered, runs to her friends and tell them. I approached them to see what's up. One of her friends seemed excited that I asked.

Like wtf was the point of that? She never said no, but I'm considering charging this one to the game.

BTW she's Muslim and a coworker; but of course, AWALT...and I found a new job, so all bets are off.

Make peace with the fact that women probably discuss everything you do with their friends.

 

[nismo-4]

You validated her

We validate women just by talking with them! Of course none of us here could just ignore women all day for a week and then our dream girl comes approaching us wanting a night of hot sex a month later.

This is why you make moves and she will either comply or you say bye.

Case closed.

 

[Glassguy]

So I've been feeling this chick for a min. Long story short, I asked the chick out. Literally a second after, she leaves unanswered, runs to her friends and tell them. I approached them to see what's up. One of her friends seemed excited that I asked.

Like wtf was the point of that? She never said no, but I'm considering charging this one to the game.

BTW she's Muslim and a coworker; but of course, AWALT...and I found a new job, so all bets are off.

No answer is the answer bro. Ignore her and go find more chicks.

 

[DisposableBenchmark]

Women tell their friends everything. Assume everything you send her has been screenshotted and sent to a few chat groups.

 

[SW15]

They always tell their friends details like that.

Yes, they will. Does aging have any effect on this? Does a 40 year old woman tell her friends about stuff as much as a 20 year old? I'd guess most 40 year old single women don't have a lot of friends who would a give a shiit about this stuff as they would often be married women and likely married women with kids under 13 that need a lot of attention.

Women tell there friends everything. Assume everything you send her has been screenshotted and sent to a few chat groups.

That's a good reason to limit text based communication.

 

[Mike32ct]

Yes, they will. Does aging have any effect on this? Does a 40 year old woman tell her friends about stuff as much as a 20 year old? I'd guess most 40 year old single women don't have a lot of friends who would a give a shiit about this stuff as they would often be married women and likely married women with kids under 13 that need a lot of attention.

40 yo women still love to gossip. Even if they have fewer female friends at the time, they will still find someone to tell, even if it’s a coworker or male orbiter.