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I'm 50/50 on AMS. I like that he's direct and doesn't take sh&it. But, he comes across as really "hood rat-gangta" to me which isn't my game. I prefer the James Dean or James Bond approach, but just me.

I think what he is saying is that men have a tendency to largely telegraph their interest level on date one. This can be a huge turnoff for the woman--like you have nothing else going on or ever saw a pair of t*its before.

Being 100% platonic is a huge mistake, BUT, hiding the ball a bit and employing IDGAF is highly recommended. There are a number of ways to communicate that she's not just a "friend/buddy" to you without drooling all over yourself or gushing and over-complimenting her. Those who are interested in how you can do this can PM me.

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Turning the tables with a male perspective isn’t much different.

If we’re out with a hot looking girl and it doesn’t lead to something physical, we’ll likely give her another date. On the other hand, If we’re out with an average girl and it doesn’t lead to something... we’ll (if other options are available) be less likely to give her a second date.

While I still hold the cards at my age, I realize that (with the typical gal) I can’t get by with as much as I did while in my 20’s. This is partly due to newer female attitudes and also, not being as handsome as before.
 

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In this video he tells guys to be completely platonic during the first date and waiting a week to call her after the date. This is by far some of the worst "advice" I have ever seen him give.

Maybe this works for AMS personally since his 6'3 and jacked, but for the vast majority of men it won't do them any good.


Being platonic on the first date is a one way express ticket to the friendzone
A lot of AMS advice seems like it would only work for him as a rich 6 foot handsome dude.

This one in particular probably depends on the kind of girl you're with. If the girl is conservative (like you met her in church or something) then not escalating immediately makes sense.

If she's some super hot HB9 you saw on the cover of a magazine and every dude is always drooling over her, perhaps acting like you're not impressed and not that into her is a good play to set yourself apart from the usual thirsty beta.

But unless you're picking up Instagram models or southern belles who go to church instead of bars, this strategy seems like it would lead to bad results for anyone that isn't 6 feet and jacked (and thus the girls will throw themselves at you)
 

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Generally speaking, AMS is for entertainment value. His benchmark for gauging a woman's interest level in you is whether she'll lick yo a$$hole.

Seriously though, anyone who is not a large, physically imposing black man from the hood will have trouble running his style of game. This is generally why more "everyman" PUA's and dating gurus like Todd V etc. are more believable and accessible.

This advice would work, conceivably, with very hot women that you start chatting up at a bar. They would be intrigued by your confidence, but apparent lack of interest in her. This has worked for me before. I sit leaned back in my chair the whole time, smiling and just shooting the sh!t without flirting or making any innuendo. They start leaning in, touching me, etc. And at a certain point, however, I will need to reciprocate if I want the interaction to escalate. Just sitting their like her friend the whole time, not reciprocating, not being playful, will eventually just drive her away.

And this advice would definitely not work on an actual 1st date that was arranged online or in person. She is showing up to flirt, escalate, and have a good time. There is already sexual intent to a date. If you're just making small talk and not flirting or being playful, she'll either assume you're actually not interested in her, or you have zero game. Or you're gay.

A lot of guys here seem to think AMS is the bee's knees. I don't get it. He's funny, but I don't think any of his advice is good, except for its very foundational principles which are already red pill knowledge. Most of his spin on stuff is way too mind-gamey.
 

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A lot of AMS advice seems like it would only work for him as a rich 6 foot handsome dude
It would not work for anyone because it's BS. Even the posters here are giving him the benefit of the doubt, "hmm I can see this sort of thing working" without having tested it out themselves. The very definition of keyboard jockey.
 

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No, this advice is correct. AMS material is taken straight from Doc Love’s The System. This chapter is called “Challenge.”

It is human behavioral psychology to want what you can’t have. That is why women invest more emotionally into men that keep them unsure about where they stand.
AMS stuff works on the type of female who is ultra competitive and wants what she can't have.... They typical dater.
 

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This is classic. You see with your own eyes that waiting works yet refuse to do it.
please note I stated he is hung like a porn star, so he messes women around. Mortal guys cant pull the same stunts off so well she will just ghost
 

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this is more advanced advice, at this point you are the one playin with this b1tch and **** testing her, not the other way around .
if you try this with a young , healthy attractive woman this might not work if you dont know what you are doing.
i wouldnt try this as a beginner
 

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Part of this being online content is the fact that men and women will watch it and even if it isn't true, if people identify with it which they seem to do, then it will almost be willed into existence anyways
 

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It would not work for anyone because it's BS. Even the posters here are giving him the benefit of the doubt,
There is no need to give “the benefit of the doubt” to the truth. AMS’ material is not his own. It existed long before him.

AMS stuff works on the type of female who is ultra competitive and wants what she can't have.... They typical dater.
Naw. It works on women with high interest level.

i wouldnt try this as a beginner
It works regardless. Human nature doesn’t change.

And this advice would definitely not work on an actual 1st date that was arranged online or in person. She is showing up to flirt, escalate, and have a good time. There is already sexual intent to a date. If you're just making small talk and not flirting or being playful, she'll either assume you're actually not interested in her, or you have zero game. Or you're gay.
No this is just false. Women pre-select men, not vice versa. Not being an aggressive horn dog actually amplifies this. Guys are making the mistake of “gaming” women when that’s not actually how any of this works. She chooses you before the date, she’s just there hoping you don’t fvck it up.
 

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There is no need to give “the benefit of the doubt” to the truth. AMS’ material is not his own. It existed long before him.



Naw. It works on women with high interest level.
Just about anything works on a babe with high interest level.


It works regardless. Human nature doesn’t change.



No this is just false. Women pre-select men, not vice versa. Not being an aggressive horn dog actually amplifies this. Guys are making the mistake of “gaming” women when that’s not actually how any of this works. She chooses you before the date, she’s just there hoping you don’t fvck it up.
 

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Just sitting their like her friend the whole time, not reciprocating, not being playful, will eventually just drive her away.
That's exactly what i was thinking, you need the right anount of push and pull on a date.
And this advice would definitely not work on an actual 1st date that was arranged online or in person. She is showing up to flirt, escalate, and have a good time. There is already sexual intent to a date. If you're just making small talk and not flirting or being playful, she'll either assume you're actually not interested in her, or you have zero game. Or you're gay.
I would understand if its someone you have been dating a while, but yeah on the first date sounds sus.

This might be a personal anecdote, but with dates first dates i was way more successful if i was fun and flirty instead of platonic.

At the end of the day, it's a date not a casual lunch among friends.
 

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And no game or magic blueprints will be needed.
If no game is needed to bang women that actually like you, then there would be no need to tell guys to wait a week to text a girl back. That would imply texting her sooner would then a week would be less likely to get you a second date. Hence a "game tactic". Therefore contradicting the no need for game to bang women that like you
 
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