"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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China bans girly men from tv

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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China is promoting masculinity and education, while we lower our educational standards and promote the LGBTQ agenda.
There's a word for this: stupid.
 

Who Dares Win

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I dont have anything against effeminated men, lgbtqzerts+ or else.

I just dont like when they want that life style to exists in economical matters like taxation...

If someone is weak or useless well bad for them but dont expect me to deprive myself of my gains to provide for them too.
 

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I dont have anything against effeminated men, lgbtqzerts+ or else.
I have no problem with them either, if someone is gay or whatever I will treat them like everyone else. But I do have a problem when they try to promote and encourage that lifestyle, especially to young children. Kids haven't even reached puberty yet, why should people be confusing them about their sexual identities, which don't even really exist yet? I also see no reason why our government should be flying Pride flags at our embassies and elsewhere.

The West wants to get rid of all gender roles, and encourage the feminization of boys. China sees the folly of this, and I do think men should be and need to be taught to act like men.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think this is something that will always be around no matter wht.
marilyn manson had a very feminine way of dress. so did prince and rick james
snoop dogg wore beads in his hair which back then was considered a real no no especially if you were A black , gang-related male in the US. ufc fighters painted their toenails, 69 broke the internet with his rainbow hair and now mgk has pink hair.
these weirdos will never go away, might as well let them carry on
 

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I have no problem with them either, if someone is gay or whatever I will treat them like everyone else. But I do have a problem when they try to promote and encourage that lifestyle, especially to young children. Kids haven't even reached puberty yet, why should people be confusing them about their sexual identities, which don't even really exist yet? I also see no reason why our government should be flying Pride flags at our embassies and elsewhere.

The West wants to get rid of all gender roles, and encourage the feminization of boys. China sees the folly of this, and I do think men should be and need to be taught to act like men.
Most of all is that the feminization of men has nothing to do with sexual orientation cause there are hyper masculine gay guys as much as emo straight guys.

In that case its more like about confusing people rather than recognizing their sexual needs.
 

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There's nothing girlier to me than a Communist party member.
They just had their birth rate decline and removed the restrictions on the number of children a couple may have. I think that is related. Now it is like the ccp is having gay panic. "Oh no! We are all gay! That is why we have no babies." LOL
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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China is a dictatorship where anyone that doesn't tow the party line gets crushed. Today it's these wierdos turn to get Winnie's foot up their ass.
 

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Broadcasters must “resolutely put an end to sissy men and other abnormal esthetics,” the National Radio and TV Administration said, using an insulting slang term for effeminate men — “niang pao,” or literally, “girlie guns.”

Broadcasters should avoid promoting “vulgar internet celebrities” and admiration of wealth and celebrity, the regulator said. Instead, programs should “vigorously promote excellent Chinese traditional culture, revolutionary culture and advanced socialist culture.”

Broadcasters should avoid performers who “violate public order” or have “lost morality,” the regulator said. Programs about the children of celebrities also are banned.
 

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Note that I am not homophobic or against LGTB, etc, but there is a fine line between being accepting vs promoting it. If you constantly and forcibly normalize effeminate men and masculine women, you are effectively blurring lines and confusing upcoming generations.

If they are LGTB, great, but let them make that decision once they are fully developed. Don't influence/confuse them by constantly throwing it down their throats on TV, media, games, etc, etc.

Modern Man Advice
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Good for them
 

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I don't at all like the authoritarian way China is ruled, no matter which group is affected.

About gay influences on TV, I don't consider it a problem as long as it doesn't bring shame upon straight people. Most people are straight, a few are born gay. Watching some abnormal men on TV isn't going to make a straight man gay. Some men grow up in families with extremely strict gender roles and been influenced in this direction their entire lives, they still turn out to be gay in the end. (Also severely psychologically damaged due to condemnation of their nature by those closest to them).

It's only as big of a deal as people make of it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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