"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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They are trying to walk the tightrope of being respectable enough so that the banks aren't shamed by doing business with them, and being raunchy enough so they continue to have revenue. The bottom line is that nothing motivates men to spend money like T&A poon.

I think that, believe it or not, our femynist friends decrying how important these income streams are to women have very quickly turned the cultural tide; it's them vs. the goody-too-shoes columnists like the NYT's Nicholas Kristof, who wrote the seminal editorial about how all these porn sites had revenge/oppressed porn with the blessings of the banks.

Here is that seminal editorial:
If people want to sell their bodies for money, I'm all for it. It really doesn't effect me at all. I've never been to onlyfans, so it's a mute point in my book. I think sex work and drugs should be legal and taxed. However, it will eventually come back and hurt the worker in the end.. It always does. Imagine, 10 years down the line.. Their children's friends or friend's family see her getting filled up by strangers, or facials from 10 different dudes at once. This is the problem... Females live in the moment generally, and do not think of the long term consequences of their actions...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If people want to sell their bodies for money, I'm all for it. It really doesn't effect me at all. I've never been to onlyfans, so it's a mute point in my book. I think sex work and drugs should be legal and taxed. However, it will eventually come back and hurt the worker in the end.. It always does. Imagine, 10 years down the line.. Their children's friends or friend's family see her getting filled up by strangers, or facials from 10 different dudes at once. This is the problem... Females live in the moment generally, and do not think of the long term consequences of their actions...
OnlyFans is taxed, as the "content creators" get reported on a 1099.
 

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If people want to sell their bodies for money, I'm all for it. It really doesn't effect me at all. I've never been to onlyfans, so it's a mute point in my book. I think sex work and drugs should be legal and taxed. However, it will eventually come back and hurt the worker in the end.. It always does. Imagine, 10 years down the line.. Their children's friends or friend's family see her getting filled up by strangers, or facials from 10 different dudes at once. This is the problem... Females live in the moment generally, and do not think of the long term consequences of their actions...
I forsee school administrators having to deal with the situation where one kid's THOT mother is found out by the other kids, with all the teasing we KNOW will result. It will be like the sexting scandals of yore. Also, look for Congressional action to try and stamp out THOTs' old content on amateur sites.
 
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