You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If you want to be a lab rat, go for it. If you can think critically, then your answer will become very clear.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
We all here in SS know you are a sheep in a sea of sheeple. You are literally making a fool of yourself by insulting another member for posting something as clever as that quote from a genius man who has poured his wisdom and art to the world. What have you done? You see, respect and credibility is earned. Mark Twain has earned his right to call people fools. You haven't grasshoper.
This standard should be more upheld by the moderators more than anything. Especially the very vocal one that has no problem throwing insults and such. I'm assuming that he is being spoken to by the team to keep civil and not go into dribbels of attacking other members for not holding an opinion that he [or she] has.
Lol.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm a "fool" cause I'm not stupid enough to buy into nonsense conspiracy theories.
Yea pretend you're walking away on a high note. That's typical female behavior actually.