Do you get a better or worse reaction from women who look like you?

[Degenerate Haven]

I am trying to see if there is any link here between how women react to men who could pass for their family members versus those that cannot (so interracial in a way). Like say if you are a blond haired Chad, do you get a better reaction from blonde Stacies or find that women who look more exotic react better? Same if you are a Cristiano Ronaldo, are you finding that tanned girls with dark hair receive you better than a Stacy?

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Attraction is going to be there to some degree if there is physical fitness or status involved; if your wondering if a guy who is physically maxed and status maxed has any trouble with women, you must have autism or something, like Ronaldo could have any woman he wants, but the thing is if he commits to a hoe then he looks bad.

Anytime there is status involved, there is the added "look of things" clause and often men aren't witty enough to pick up on how things look until a narrative is set, especially when she is deploying a smoke screen in the form of banging you.

 

[Degenerate Haven]

Attraction is going to be there to some degree if there is physical fitness or status involved; if your wondering if a guy who is physically maxed and status maxed has any trouble with women, you must have autism or something, like Ronaldo could have any woman he wants, but the thing is if he commits to a hoe then he looks bad.

Anytime there is status involved, there is the added "look of things" clause and often men aren't witty enough to pick up on how things look until a narrative is set, especially when she is deploying a smoke screen in the form of banging you.

No that is not what I was wondering. I was wondering if you have a better chance with certain kinds of women based on your look compared to theirs. Like if women prefer men who look similar to their own appearance or those who look different.

 

[Billtx49]

No that is not what I was wondering. I was wondering if you have a better chance with certain kinds of women based on your look compared to theirs. Like if women prefer men who look similar to their own appearance or those who look different.

No, it’s not that simple. Attraction is individualized. Some women attracted to you, some to me. Do you only like women that look like you, or do you prefer a different variety.

 

[Degenerate Haven]

No, it’s not that simple. Attraction is individualized. Some women attracted to you, some to me. Do you only like women that look like you, or do you prefer a different variety.

If you ask me, I love women with dark hair and tanned skin. I am a guy with dark hair and tanned skin. Come to think of it though, could just be a blonde thing but I notice that blonde women are a lot nicer in general. My worst experiences come from women from more Mediterranean backgrounds like Portuguese, Italian, and Spanish but then again, the guys from those backgrounds say their women are mean. So culture > biology it seems.

 

[Degenerate Haven]

Worse

Are you Asian?

 

[Billtx49]

Are you Asian?

Attraction has nothing to do with race. It’s what a man or woman personally finds attractive …

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Are you Asian?

Are you? Jesus what kind of question is this Hahaha

 

[Degenerate Haven]

LOL I said that because I notice that Asian American women really hate men of their own race compared to women of other races so that is why I said it.

 

[Billtx49]

LOL I said that because I notice that Asian American women really hate men of their own race compared to women of other races so that is why I said it.

Fair enough, but be forewarned excessive race posting and members posting them are not allowed on this Forum.

 

[Degenerate Haven]

Fair enough, but be forewarned excessive race posting and members posting them are not allowed on this Forum.

Touche. I agree, most of the times it is guys whining about race. IMO, the more productive conversation about race is not whining but rather topics such as knowing your market and how women are bound to react to certain kinds of men based on their own culture. If you let it go out of hand with the conversations and have an anything goes approach to race, it turns into a dark incel forum.

Cool Avi btw.

 

[Barrister]

I am white Caucasian but I am very dark complected. 60% of the women I have been with in my life are light complected blondes. However, I am in a streak right now where my last four are dark complected, dark haired like I am.

It means nothing. Comes down to each individual's personal preference.

 

[Degenerate Haven]

I am white Caucasian but I am very dark complected. 60% of the women I have been with in my life are light complected blondes. However, I am in a streak right now where my last four are dark complected, dark haired like I am.

It means nothing. Comes down to each individual's personal preference.

Do you feel like you had to work harder to get the dark haired girls compared to blondes or what? I have a similar look as you do.

 

[Barrister]

Do you feel like you had to work harder to get the dark haired girls compared to blondes or what? I have a similar look as you do.

No more-so than any other woman. I think women act universally the same across the board. I am sure there are brunettes out there who are more attracted to the blonde haired, blue eyed guy. But I know for a fact there are brunettes out there who like my look better than that too. It is just a matter of personal preference for them -- the same as it is for us.

 

[Degenerate Haven]

No more-so than any other woman. I think women act universally the same across the board. I am sure there are brunettes out there who are more attracted to the blonde haired, blue eyed guy. But I know for a fact there are brunettes out there who like my look better than that too. It is just a matter of personal preference for them -- the same as it is for us.

I guess its confirmation bias on my end. I seem to always get a good reception from hot blonde girls when I approach and they are nicer to me, maybe they are just nicer overall? Meanwhile, I get a bad reception from the good looking women with a Kendall Jenner or Gal Gadot look.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Most women i date are from a similar race/culture. Some women may like you because of the exotic factor but they are usually a small minority.

Most people date those that look like them. Look at Ronaldos wife, they are both Iberian. Ideally i would also want a Med,Light skin middle eastern or Latina woman.

Blonde women are way too liberal for my taste and i really don't personally prefer them for a LTR. If you want an exotic woman and vice versa it means you both don't have strong ties to your culture.

 

[Georgepithyou]

My worst experiences come from women from more Mediterranean backgrounds like Portuguese, Italian, and Spanish but then again, the guys from those backgrounds say their women are mean. So culture > biology it seems.

They are not mean, you need a strong social circle for Med women. These women have stronger family values and an actual culture. What do north European women have? Liberal white guilt and promiscuity?

LOL I said that because I notice that Asian American women really hate men of their own race compared to women of other races so that is why I said it.

They don't hate their own race, it's just that most Asian men take up really nerdy hobbies like gaming and Anime. They only have themselves to blame for that.

 

[Degenerate Haven]

I guess things are different in the US then. Med women who are local to the US prefer more paler guys, the most mix is Irish-Italian and most of the times, dude is Irish. TBH, I think it can differ more on culture than biology now that I think about it. I have had a great experience with white women from the Balkans as well as white women with that kind of raven-haired tanned look who were American or Irish or British.

But even between a similar race and culture there can be big differences right? Like whites Americans can range from dark haired whites with tanned to blondes.

It does seem like there is an opposites attract thing, like I see so many blondes with black, Asian, and brown dudes but its rare to see a Gal Gadot or Emily Ratajkowski lookalike with one.

 

[Georgepithyou]

I guess things are different in the US then. Med women who are local to the US prefer more paler guys, the most mix is Irish-Italian and most of the times, dude is Irish. TBH, I think it can differ more on culture than biology now that I think about it. I have had a great experience with white women from the Balkans as well as white women with that kind of raven-haired tanned look who were American or Irish or British.

But even between a similar race and culture there can be big differences right? Like whites Americans can range from dark haired whites with tanned to blondes.

It does seem like there is an opposites attract thing, like I see so many blondes with black, Asian, and brown dudes but its rare to see a Gal Gadot or Emily Ratajkowski lookalike with one.

If you look up actual statistics, mixed race marriages are in a very small minority. If you have strong ties to tour community chances are you will marry within it. As for Irish and Italian, that's because both are Catholic so it's more of a religious thing since they probably attended the same church.

According to the United States Census Bureau, the number of interracially married couples has increased from 310,000 in 1970 to 651,000 in 1980, to 964,000 in 1990, to 1,464,000 in 2000 and to 2,340,000 in 2008; accounting for 0.7%, 1.3%, 1.8%, 2.6% and 3.9% of the total number of married couples in those years, respectively.


Interestingly enough white men with black women are more common.

Interracial marriage in the United States - Wikipedia

en.m.wikipedia.org

 

[Degenerate Haven]

If you look up actual statistics, mixed race marriages are in a very small minority. If you have strong ties to tour community chances are you will marry within it. As for Irish and Italian, that's because both are Catholic so it's more of a religious thing since they probably attended the same church.

According to the United States Census Bureau, the number of interracially married couples has increased from 310,000 in 1970 to 651,000 in 1980, to 964,000 in 1990, to 1,464,000 in 2000 and to 2,340,000 in 2008; accounting for 0.7%, 1.3%, 1.8%, 2.6% and 3.9% of the total number of married couples in those years, respectively.


Interestingly enough white men with black women are more common.

Interracial marriage in the United States - Wikipedia

en.m.wikipedia.org

Well nothing interracial about two Euro mixed lol. I actually found that the most common marriage is white men with Asian women in the US by far, it is way more common than black men with white women.

IMO though, I do think women of any race that are against dating men of their own race are damaged and I feel the same about men too. Not that people aren't allowed to have a preference but anyone who is against going for their own race usually has serious issues with self-esteem and insecurity. I have noticed this in people of all backgrounds.