"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This is all great advice man!! And she is 27
27, childless, and single is less common for Latinas than White women.

Brazilian women are incredibly annoying
Hahaha I know dude, right?! My friends say I need to stop chasing after latinas. I tell them they're crazy lol. I think I will give this one more shot on Sunday.
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I find Latinas attractive but @TheNewStyle123 is definitely having Latina issues.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mexican Latinas are a dime a dozen in my area. Usually by the time they are 25 they are obese. 95% anyway. I don't find many of them who present themselves in a classy manner. Two (real people not celebrities)come to mind who did meet my standard in the last 30 years. both already in LTR's.

Central and South American Latina's are pretty much absent from my social circles. One of my handsome vendor sales reps did find a Brazilian pastry chef/IG bikini model/single mother he wifed up and knocked up right away. According to IG he is certainly living a cool life. For now anyway...

Portuguese Latinas seem to follow the Mexican Latina trends. Lot of short plump, loud women with dark hair and fake eyelashes. This is a very fun crowd to hang out with though. I do love their cultural events. I bring tall attractive blondes to them and they get a lot of attention...

Spanish Basque girls captured my attention in college. I never fully pursued them but that is one Latina Group I would investigate further.

For the most part though , I have been drawn to tall, athletic women regardless of heritage. That leaves out most Hispanic cultures.
 

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If she comes to your place, and if it's the fourth date already, but still for whatever reasons that sex still won't happen - stop all communication with her and start hitting on other women.

At 27, the amount of d!cks she had might be equavalent to the amount of sandwiches you have ever had from the day your teeth were hard enough to have one until today. OP, do you like sandwiches btw?
 

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If she comes to your place, and if it's the fourth date already, but still for whatever reasons that sex still won't happen - stop all communication with her and start hitting on other women.

At 27, the amount of d!cks she had might be equavalent to the amount of sandwiches you have ever had from the day your teeth were hard enough to have one until today. OP, do you like sandwiches btw?
Great advice man, and love 'em hahahaha
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don’t see anything here that is weird.

I don’t see the reason for nexting her though. Do you like having beautiful women around you or not?

It’s seems that so far you are not out any money. Time kissing women isn’t wasted. I call it “kissing practice”. I even suggested to a woman who owned a laundromat that we might enjoy kissing time together. She jumped on it like a dog on a bone.
I would go to pick up my shirts and we would go to the mechanical room like I was going to inspect or look at something. Once or maybe twice a week.

We had a lot of fun. Same responses to advances as you had. Finally she texted me to come over after a couple of months. Obviously there was more than kissing and touching.

I have no problems being a woman’s kissing partner. I like kissing. Smelling them. Having them up against my body.

It begs the question. What is a man really looking for? He is wanting the submissive feminine energy. That feeling of having feminine energy close.

Become that dominant masculine feeling that she looks for. That reassurance feeling. The very thing that women really look for.
Have other women or another woman for sex.

Trust me, she will suck and fuk you eventually. Chances are she has a boyfriend or something like that. Don’t probe for an answer. Be her masculine energy. She will come for more. I see no reason to withdrawal to a point that you only reinforce in her mind the wrong thing. You want her to mold to your energy.

Sex being the goal is usually short lived. Unless that’s what you want. Knock yourself out. It’s kind of an unfulfilling goal though. Let her bring that feminine energy to you.

The goal is a supply of feminine energy. Does a man have to own a woman (sexually) to feel validated? Is that really validation? It’s the wrong flow. You validate her when she needs that sex at the next level. That’s masculine.
Interesting take man - I like it. Appreciate the post. I would be lying if I said I didn't enjoy making out with her and spending time with her. Especially when she is all over me and reaching out during the day because she "misses me". Just makes me wonder where it's going. I don't want to continue and get in too over my head with relationship-esque things if we haven't even fuucked. Plus, I am not really looking for a relationship now.
 

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Drinks - - - - >Coffee this is a visible de-escalation, this woman wants you to bang the **** out of her and was ready from date 1.
 
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