What do you want from women

[Robert28]

I know this viewpoint is common here, but I've never understood it. I've always enjoyed spending time around women, I enjoy their feminine energy, their yin to my yang, I get a charge out of it. They have tremendous nurturing and caretaking attributes, I'm always amazed by it. And contrary to many statements I've seen here, they can be very generous with their time and very helpful, like if you want help painting a room or taking a road trip or something. True, they can get in the way sometimes, but you can say that about anybody.

I enjoy spending time around women that are interested in me and are attracted to me. Women are no fun to hangout with when it’s just friends. At least not for me.

 

[Black Widow Void]

The more experienced we become, the more prone we are to having added check list boxes and X list boxes.

I miss the days of being in elementary/middle school, a pretty girl giving you a rapid heartbeat, and then she becomes your girlfriend and you are both happy. Neither party waiting for the "ah ha' moment or either being calculative.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

True DJs enjoy being around women that enrich their lives.

Most of you that act all hard and say sh!t like you do about women, have probably never had much success with women.

A number of the regular posters here were talking in another thread about where to find the best hookers in your area.

You guys especially, have no success with women. Your black pill, she-hating comments hold no weight here, except to fellow dorks.

We need an Incel SWAT team on SoSuave.

And we're supposed to listen to the drunk who brags about hanging out with old ladies? And who quotes PUAs from 20 years ago?

I never said anything about "black pill." I just think my time is too valuable to waste.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

I enjoy spending time around women that are interested in me and are attracted to me. Women are no fun to hangout with when it’s just friends. At least not for me.

In fact, it's kind of insulting if they think you're only good enough to be a "friend."

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

I want a 2nd-In-Command, I'm the muthaf/cking President and she's the Vice President..... while I'm abroad managing foreign policy, she's to be at home managing domestic policy....

I completely disagree that they make good "partners." If anything, it's more like having a parasite attached to you.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Motivation , i need my woman to push me to constantly improve myself

This could be anything from a pep talk , dragging my a$$ to the gym or unexpectedly putting on some nice lingerie and waiting in bed for me

Last GF was complete opposite i had to push both myself and her to constantly improve

i managed it for 2 years but nearly burnt myself out in the process in the end i just gave up

 

[manfrombelow]

An old college friend of mine....very smart, very successful, graduated a year before me, from SMU. Started a great career with a national company. He was making good money, and kind of fell in love with the party scene. Started drinking a lot, and found himself with 2 DUIs in the span of 6 months.

He was not in a good place, then as fate would have it, he met a girl one weekend. Overnight, his life changed for the better. He quit drinking, stopped hanging out with bad company, and their relationship got serious. They've been married now, for 11 years.

She was/is the best thing that could've happened to him.

I agree that if your woman can't at least be your cheerleader, then there's no reasons for you to stay together. Nice to hear your old friend's story.

 

[Epicenter]

 

[manfrombelow]

Welcome to SoSuave

Bro I deleted it for obvious reason.

 

[Epicenter]

Nothing. I go in with zero expectations by default and watch her behavior and vet her to see what value she "might" bring to my world.
I keep my expectations low for women and keep my feel good and joy in my work and music projects.
Thats how I even look at my marriage. If she is not being a tolerable person I give her no attention and I pretend she just died.
Great advice from Risn Stone. Pretend your girl dies daily. It is kinda in a way similar to the biblical teaching of dying daily and take up your cross.
Each day has its own challenges.

The comments are off on that video. I think I might know why.

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

Sex will always top a mans list, thats the only thing i NEED from a woman and as im getting older that need is waning anyways.
A good, fun companion to do stuff with and if she can cook those are both pluses but i don't need those. Im pretty content by myself and that has been the game changer for me.

 

[manfrombelow]

Sex will always top a mans list, thats the only thing i NEED from a woman and as im getting older that need is waning anyways.
A good, fun companion to do stuff with and if she can cook those are both pluses but i don't need those. Im pretty content by myself and that has been the game changer for me.

Technically speaking, a man needs virtually NOTHING from a woman, even sex.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

In fact, it's kind of insulting if they think you're only good enough to be a "friend."

It's disrepectful. If she knows you play the sex game and that's a game she really enjoys, for her to put you in that friend position is "using" you for your energy and attention. It's like playing pickup football, and they know thats your game, you try to be modest about your skills and they choose to NOT choose you to play in the game...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

And we're supposed to listen to the drunk who brags about hanging out with old ladies? And who quotes PUAs from 20 years ago?

I never said anything about "black pill." I just think my time is too valuable to waste.

"Black pill" is a bunch of excuses for a man to feel sorry for himself and take himself out of the game. Much of "red pill" is the same, man needs to understand the nature and possiblities but continue to enjoy life.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I agree that if your woman can't at least be your cheerleader, then there's no reasons for you to stay together. Nice to hear your old friend's story.

Many of them think it's "disrespectful" to be your cheerleader, so they will work harder against you than most.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I was out of shape for most of the pandemic and self-sabotaged the whole time because of it. not black pill per-se, but relying too much on looks. I am going to Vegas very overweight and am going to rely on my other traits and self-confidence.

Focusing on our looks for most men is an error and not attractive. We can have the looks but it shouldn't be our focus. The focus is fun and people. Be in situations that you are valued and desired.

 

[Robert28]

It's disrepectful. If she knows you play the sex game and that's a game she really enjoys, for her to put you in that friend position is "using" you for your energy and attention. It's like playing pickup football, and they know thats your game, you try to be modest about your skills and they choose to NOT choose you to play in the game...

Here’s what’s disrespectful. Not that she doesn’t want to date me. Not even that she isn’t attracted to me because I’m “too nice”, not enough tattoos, not the most ripped, whatever the case may be. It’s the fact that she doesn’t believe I deserve happiness, happiness she can’t provide or refuses to provide. Then when I go find that happiness from someone else it’s “we never hangout anymore. Why don’t you have time for friends and a girlfriend? Why just throw away our friendship over a girl”. They think you don’t deserve ***** simply because they don’t want to give you any and they can’t fathom you being attractive to another woman simply because they don’t find you attractive. I will not put a woman I’m fvcking on the back burner for one that won’t fvck me. That’s simply retarted. But that’s what women friends expect you to do:

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

I was out of shape for most of the pandemic and self-sabotaged the whole time because of it. not black pill per-se, but relying too much on looks. I am going to Vegas very overweight and am going to rely on my other traits and self-confidence.

What are you expecting to find in Vegas?

 

[Robert28]

The lack of respect female friends often have for you deep down can be shocking. Occasionally they can no longer hide the disgust and will verbalize it.

Yep. If you’re self aware you can pick up on it just by their actions around you. They don’t respect you, find you undateable yet they want to keep you around.lol

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Here’s what’s disrespectful. Not that she doesn’t want to date me. Not even that she isn’t attracted to me because I’m “too nice”, not enough tattoos, not the most ripped, whatever the case may be. It’s the fact that she doesn’t believe I deserve happiness, happiness she can’t provide or refuses to provide. Then when I go find that happiness from someone else it’s “we never hangout anymore. Why don’t you have time for friends and a girlfriend? Why just throw away our friendship over a girl”. They think you don’t deserve ***** simply because they don’t want to give you any and they can’t fathom you being attractive to another woman simply because they don’t find you attractive. I will not put a woman I’m fvcking on the back burner for one that won’t fvck me. That’s simply retarted. But that’s what women friends expect you to do:

You fit a role in her ecosystem. She will maintain a degraded image of you. She will actively maintain this image, even manipulation of parts of your life. She will c0ck block you to keep you in position. Let you get a woman who values you and treats you good she will get offended and think you think your "hot stuff".