“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Western Women are going down the drain.

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It's another summer, and I am continuously disappointed by the display of women around me. The canary in the mine for me is when you see tons of young single mother white girls with tattoos all over their arms. I currently live in Texas, and around all of our major cities, there is this big epidemic of trashy girls [of multiple races except indian and arab] that are ruining themselves in all matters of trashy behavior: tattoos that rival of tribal warrior, fat, don't even like to cook, have at least a single child, wants to stay independent, and spends irresponsibly [though this seems like a standard female trait regardless]. City women have no check on their behavior and are allowed to do whatever they want. As a result, whether it's out and about or online on some app like instagram, I see nothing but ruined women. Even the fine girls I see running the trails sometimes, at a glance look nice with their ponytail, and tight pants and snugged top, until you see that one little tattoo on her ankle or wrist. I was behind this fat chick the other day and saw her chatting with multiple men. Like wtf.

Sad time in America.
 

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I agree that the one thing which immediately puts me off a woman is is a tattoo.

it’s because they like men who look like prison rapists with tattoos and sleeves and they think it will attract these kind of guys. Which it won’t. Few men are into the crack ***** look
The startling issue is that tattoos aren't easily removed, and when they are make the skin look scarred, which is even more damaging to the woman's looks. So not only are the women self mutilating themselves, they are stuck with it for the rest of their lives with just leads to more angry women in the future.
 

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I agree that the one thing which immediately puts me off a woman is is a tattoo.

it’s because they like men who look like prison rapists with tattoos and sleeves and they think it will attract these kind of guys. Which it won’t. Few men are into the crack ***** look
this girl who I think is cute who lives near me is planning to get lots of tattoos this year :(
Hopefully she'll get so many that I stop wanting to bang her haha (not a fan of tonnes of tats on girls)

PS - Anyone here gotten lots of tats purely for gaming purposes? Tonnes of girls seem to be into them. (you often see 'no tats? Under 6'1''? - Don't even bother swiping' kind of thing on tinder) I've been thinking about getting inked up to see the effect

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I was playing around on Snapchat with this girl onetime and one of the filters was face tattoos, so I took a pic and sent it to her. She honestly got turned on and went on and on about “how hot I looked”. With face tattoos. I kinda knew what type of guys she dated right then and there and I wasn’t that type.lol
 

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this girl who I think is cute who lives near me is planning to get lots of tattoos this year :(
Hopefully she'll get so many that I stop wanting to bang her haha (not a fan of tonnes of tats on girls)

PS - Anyone here gotten lots of tats purely for gaming purposes? Tonnes of girls seem to be into them. (you often see 'no tats? Under 6'1''? - Don't even bother swiping' kind of thing on tinder) I've been thinking about getting inked up to see the effect

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Ive been thinking about whether presentation is one reason why OLD doesnt work for me. But just now i thought, here's a thought experiment: if you looked like one of those meme Chads, would you need to present yourself with tattoos, beard and a certain posey style of picture? i dont think so haha. But that's drawing it too far to an extreme, of course anything works if you are extremely hot by default. So maybe being that "type" does make a difference for more average/non-model guys. I dont know really, and i wont change my appearance like that just to find out.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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this girl who I think is cute who lives near me is planning to get lots of tattoos this year :(
Hopefully she'll get so many that I stop wanting to bang her haha (not a fan of tonnes of tats on girls)

PS - Anyone here gotten lots of tats purely for gaming purposes? Tonnes of girls seem to be into them. (you often see 'no tats? Under 6'1''? - Don't even bother swiping' kind of thing on tinder) I've been thinking about getting inked up to see the effect

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Don't ****ing do it. If you're getting a tat just to please women, you're doing yourself a big disservice.
 

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These chicks like guys with tats so they assume that tat-maxxing is looksmaxxing even for women.

Nice logic lol.
Women. Logic. Makes me laugh too.
 

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Ive been thinking about whether presentation is one reason why OLD doesnt work for me. But just now i thought, here's a thought experiment: if you looked like one of those meme Chads, would you need to present yourself with tattoos, beard and a certain posey style of picture? i dont think so haha. But that's drawing it too far to an extreme, of course anything works if you are extremely hot by default. So maybe being that "type" does make a difference for more average/non-model guys. I dont know really, and i wont change my appearance like that just to find out.
of course if you are just a really good looking guy, then you certainly don't need anything like that. You'll still crush it. You can even be full on weird (no game) and still do good
But think of tats as just another form of improving your looks/sex appeal. A bit like muscles. A tall guy with a really handsome face doesn't need muscles at all. But if you are average looking, getting ripped will make you a bit better looking (thus more attractive and likely to get better results)
But various things like muscles, style/clothing, (tats) etc can all add a little bit to your sexual market value.
 

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It's not just women, young men in the USA are by and large steaming piles of poo as well. Many of them are shiftless emotional basket cases, covered in tats as well. Either that or they are pvssy worshiping jack@sses. Only a small amount of young men today really have the sh1t together.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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you will be a manual worker forever. No professional industry will want you if you’re covered in ink - unless it’s very hidden in clothes.
not that I have any (yet lol. Very tempted to get some for pickup reasons as described) so it doesn't matter to me, but i'm not sure if that's the case anymore?
My best friend is a VERY well paid marketing executive, and he's covered in tats
UK. Not sure where you are or if it even matters, but probably worth mentioning
 

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I am an executive and I’ve never known anyone with visible tats in any position of authority.
Maybe in trendy IT creative companies. No serious institution is giving a high end role to someone with visible tats.

find me a CEO, CFO or anyone relatively high anywhere who has visible tats.

he’s not the norm. If he can cover them properly then fine but if they’re visible in work clothes, then it will very much limit them.

I wouldn’t like to give a high profile role to someone who looked like that. If you were running a company, would you?

UK too.

dude, so many people have them now perhaps I’m a bit old school. I’m nearly 40. Tats were only for poor/prisoners/hookers/guys who want to be in MMA.

bear in mind when you’re 50 they will probably be highly unfashionable and you can’t go back easily.
i'll take your word for it. You certainly know more than me about the corporate world. I'm a low wage slave lol

Maybe my friend is a one-off. I don't know. But yeah, he has 2 full sleeves and a few other ones scattered about.

So i'm not personally bothered about the professional aspect as i'm never gonna be some super high paid guy or whatever (with or without tats haha).
I was just noting that it's fairly undeniable in my area that hot young girls seem to have a clear thing for guys with tats. Obviously it's not gonna make an ugly guy suddenly super desirable, but I think of it more like how muscles and dare I say 'game' can help flip a girl from a strong 'maybe' too a 'yes' or just add half a point
 
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this girl who I think is cute who lives near me is planning to get lots of tattoos this year :(
Hopefully she'll get so many that I stop wanting to bang her haha (not a fan of tonnes of tats on girls)

PS - Anyone here gotten lots of tats purely for gaming purposes? Tonnes of girls seem to be into them. (you often see 'no tats? Under 6'1''? - Don't even bother swiping' kind of thing on tinder) I've been thinking about getting inked up to see the effect

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or men who say “hmm. Women like feminism. I’ll be a feminist and then they’ll love me”

the Sad fact is, your example is absurd but mine is actually real!
doing tattoos in the hopes of getting laid is quite sad , but I do agree that with certain girls will see them interesting

if I would have no other way , then I would do this semi permanent tattoos they will disappear after a couple of years
 

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doing tattoos in the hopes of getting laid is quite sad , but I do agree that with certain girls will see them interesting

if I would have no other way , then I would do this semi permanent tattoos they will disappear after a couple of years
A real man uses the temporary tattoos or paints their own that easily washes off. If he is doing it to get laid anyway.
 

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Don't put your focus on women you don't like .. If that's mostly what you see, think about moving around or exploring diff avenues to find women. That might help you a bit

For myself, it's not what type of women I like or not.. It's what type of woman I'd like to smash. i don't believe you can find quality girls if you're out looking for them. The women that are most accessible are usually not the most quality, unless you're in a setting where that's possible. What I noticed is quality women are often super busy wtih their lives and have a good balance of things to keep them busy such as family life, career, spending time with friends, traveling, spending time on their hobbies, etc.

Churches used to be a great place to meet girls for many people. Still are in many places. My friends who are Romanian, nearly 90% of them get hooked up with or married to girls that go to their church and have great marriages/relationships.
 
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Don't put your focus on women you don't like .. If that's mostly what you see, think about moving around or exploring diff avenues to find women. That might help you a bit

For myself, it's not what type of women I like or not.. It's what type of woman I'd like to smash. i don't believe you can find quality girls if you're out looking for them. The women that are most accessible are usually not the most quality, unless you're in a setting where that's possible. What I noticed is quality women are often super busy wtih their lives and have a good balance of things to keep them busy such as family life, career, spending time with friends, traveling, spending time on their hobbies, etc.

Churches used to be a great place to meet girls for many people. Still are in many places. My friends who are Romanian, nearly 90% of them get hooked up with or married to girls that go to their church and have great marriages/relationships.
One thing stopping me from living large is that I don't own a house or paid off car yet. Currently, most of my month budget goes into paying rent, my car loan, and my student loans. I'm saving money, yeah, but I'm putting a lot into my loans to get them paid off faster for long term. So that is what is keeping me from living large at the moment. Not to mention, investing into my business, too. Don't have "fvck and play money" right now. Not that I want to waste it on women.
 
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