"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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OnwardsAndUpwards

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Looking for a wing in Austin Texas (if possible, ideally someone into in tech/business/entrepreneurship).

PM me or comment below if you're interested (even if this thread is like years old by the time you find it).
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Guy69JackBlue

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Looking for a wing in Austin Texas (if possible, ideally someone into in tech/business/entrepreneurship).

PM me or comment below if you're interested (even if this thread is like years old by the time you find it).
Look no further! Head on down to Wicked Wings South Austin! 615 W Slaughter Lane.

All kinds of options. Boneless, bone-in, naked, breaded, buffalo, barbecue. Wash it down with an ice cold beer and watch the game!
 

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I think @OnwardsAndUpwards wants a wingman more than some chicken wings.

Austin is a tough market for dating. Huge SJW/feminist influences. Weird social scene. Those 2 things make it difficult to get relationships and get laid consistently in Austin. Austin and Dallas are the 2 toughest markets in Texas, albeit for different reasons. In Dallas, there is a less prevalent SJW/careerist/feminist thing, but it's still there. Dallas' biggest problems are the pretentiousness of the local culture, combined with the male surplus, and the minor careerist/feminist thing.

Daygame eliminates the need for a wingman.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Billtx49

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That's what I was trying to get him to explain.
Start by Googling ‘dining atmosphere’.
Places invitingly comfortable for intimate conversation, no harsh lighting, not noisy, cozy atmosphere. Always set a date in places like those…
Dining or drinking is where seduction starts, get the atmosphere conducive to it.
 

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How do you feel about the book of pook saying action dates are what raises desire?
Action dates are conducive to physical closeness between you and her and boosting her interactivity level, but that can be done anywhere if you’ve got your act together…
 

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I think @OnwardsAndUpwards wants a wingman more than some chicken wings.

Austin is a tough market for dating. Huge SJW/feminist influences. Weird social scene. Those 2 things make it difficult to get relationships and get laid consistently in Austin. Austin and Dallas are the 2 toughest markets in Texas, albeit for different reasons. In Dallas, there is a less prevalent SJW/careerist/feminist thing, but it's still there. Dallas' biggest problems are the pretentiousness of the local culture, combined with the male surplus, and the minor careerist/feminist thing.

Daygame eliminates the need for a wingman.
Limiting beliefs my friend. It's always easy to poke holes in why things don't work where - but the fact of the matter is - there are a ton of dudes who probably slay living in ATX or DFW.

Wish me luck
 
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