"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does it take more for a woman to cheat than a man to cheat?!

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I get what you guys are saying about women being more likely to cheat emotionally or with the prospect to get to a new guy. But this doesnt explain women cheating when they are on vacation or f*cking their fitness instructor or someone on a girls night out. Women also do this for pleasure. And believe me, they also often do this kind of cheating...
This happens because women get bored and left to their own devices with enough frequency and presented with EASY OPTIONS like the internet/smartphones/dating apps have done and this becomes a perfect recipe for disaster.

This happens to women that are bored in their relationships(boring sex) or felt like they have been wronged in any way by their guy, or are going through a type of mid-life crisis.

I've been on the other end many times unfortunately of having these women cheat on their husbands or bf's with me. Girl's night out, Girl's vacations, Business trips are a pretty common opportunity for girls to cheat.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This happens because women get bored and left to their own devices with enough frequency and presented with EASY OPTIONS like the internet/smartphones/dating apps have done and this becomes a perfect recipe for disaster.

This happens to women that are bored in their relationships(boring sex) or felt like they have been wronged in any way by their guy, or are going through a type of mid-life crisis.

I've been on the other end many times unfortunately of having these women cheat on their husbands or bf's with me. Girl's night out, Girl's vacations, Business trips are a pretty common opportunity for girls to cheat.
I've been saying for years now that most of singles sex is a single and someone in a relationship or a married...
 

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This happens because women get bored and left to their own devices with enough frequency and presented with EASY OPTIONS like the internet/smartphones/dating apps have done and this becomes a perfect recipe for disaster.

This happens to women that are bored in their relationships(boring sex) or felt like they have been wronged in any way by their guy, or are going through a type of mid-life crisis.

I've been on the other end many times unfortunately of having these women cheat on their husbands or bf's with me. Girl's night out, Girl's vacations, Business trips are a pretty common opportunity for girls to cheat.
I am not really sure about that. Its not always that the guy or the sex is boring. Just think about yourself. Even if you had the perfect woman and the perfect sex. After some time sex with other women at leas a phantasy you have from time to time. Why should be different for women?!
 

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I am not really sure about that. Its not always that the guy or the sex is boring. Just think about yourself. Even if you had the perfect woman and the perfect sex. After some time sex with other women at leas a phantasy you have from time to time. Why should be different for women?!
I'm not 100% clear I understand you are trying to say.

Sex is never really boring for guys as it is with girls. Generally men, as long as the girl is willing to put out will be ok. It's usually the girls that want the more refined sexual experience rather than just a quick orgasm. It is this experience they seek that makes them cheat with another guy IMO. Or like I said, the other two reasons as well.
 

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Not necessarily worse. I won't even say the biological difference is worthy of rationalizing male cheating. It is less honorable for this reason: female cheating is an abuse of their discretion as the choosing sex. They can cheat with anyone at any time, so their burden is to avoid cheating. Meanwhile for men, it is actually difficult to cheat and opportunities are rare. Our burden is to be attractive and skillful enough to even have the opportunity to cheat to begin with. I don't cheat, but I have turned down opportunities that in hindsight look pretty dumb considering my so called girlfriends at the time were entertaining lots of orbiters and ultimately did outright cheat on me. You can't tell me that taking my one opportunity per year to cheat while I'm working my ass off is comparable to these dilettante hot women...its like a beggar stealing an orange vs a billionaire committing securities fraud.
damn this was a good one
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you turned in to a low value male in the relationship so basically you got with her when you were a 7.5 and turned in to a 4.5 down the road then yes. If you are a 7.5 and the girl needs a 8.5 or higher to justify leaving you then that's more difficult. Like I said before, Jake Gyllenhaal has plenty of 9s and 10s competing for him so this magical scenario of him taking the little time out of his day to bang your 6/10 wife doesn't make any sense. Even if this does happen, she's not going to leave you until she knows he will commit which could take months or a year.
dont be so quick to think that just cause a woman isnt attractive a dude wouldnt bang her just to **** your life up.
that 6 aint safe, she gets more attention because ppl do more to avoid pain than to get pleasure. they go for easy chicks, with good sex and ******* skills.
 

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What do you think?
Are women cheating " worse" that men cheating?! And why?

Have a nice day
I don’t think a man having sex with another chick is cheating. Cheating is the emotional investment outside of an exclusive relationship. Humans are not a monogamous species. Nothing wrong with getting your dvck wet from another vagina from time to time.
 

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When a woman cheats, it means she has lost all respect for her man already.

When a man cheats, most of the times he just needs to ejaculate, then zip his pants, and go home with his wife or main plate.

I stop here because @MoMoses nailed it perfectly.
 

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Correct. I don’t think men comprehend the level of contempt women have for a man they once liked but no longer respect. They resent him and actually believe it’s his own fault.
Women need to emotionally love you first, and only then can they have sex with you. It's a from-A-to-B process. That's why the moment they cheat (have sex with another guy), they are no longer in love with you and have already lost all respect for you.

Men are not like that. We can literally fvck a woman that fits our eyes without even knowing her name, and then we get the fvck outta there.

But women don't understand this. They think men are like them. They think that, in order for men to fvck a woman, we have to LOVE her first. Which means, in a woman's perception when getting cheated on by her guy, she was NO LONGER RESPECTED AND LOVED by her guy.

That's why when it comes to physical cheating, women tend to cry a lot, make a mess of a drama sh!tshow, and stuff like that, because they feel betrayed - which is not true most of the times. LOL.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In short, a woman "projects" what she truly would think & do with her partner when & if she decides to cheat on him, by crying and making drama when being cheated on by her partner.
 

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