How to Talk to an 18 YO

[jaymbrs]

My buddy lined me up with this cute 18 year old who is friends with the girl he's banging because she thinks I'm cute. What topics are even discussed with these super young girls? I know they're about having fun but she's underage so talking about bars is out. Any ideas?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Buy her a Hello Kitty book

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Depends on the girl...but the main difference I notice is that older women talk more about their job/career or social causes, whereas younger women typically don't give a **** about those sort of things (as they shouldn't). If they're in college they'll have a lot to say about their experiences with that, especially if they live in a dorm. Don't talk to them about their major unless its actually interesting. Also stay away from political talk.

Otherwise they'll typically talk a lot about their friends/family/coworkers/ as with any other woman. I honestly find it significantly easier to talk with younger women than ones over 25ish because their minds aren't ruined yet.

 

[jaymbrs]

Depends on the girl...but the main difference I notice is that older women talk more about their job/career or social causes, whereas younger women typically don't give a **** about those sort of things (as they shouldn't). If they're in college they'll have a lot to say about their experiences with that, especially if they live in a dorm. Don't talk to them about their major unless its actually interesting. Also stay away from political talk.

Otherwise they'll typically talk a lot about their friends/family/coworkers/ as with any other woman. I honestly find it significantly easier to talk with younger women than ones over 25ish because their minds aren't ruined yet.

Exactly what I was thinking. Can't really discuss anything "adultish" since she more than likely doesnt care. It's been a LONG time since I was her age so will just try and let her do all the talking.

 

[Lookatu]

Tik Tok videos, celebrity gossip according to her age, Justin Bieber's new hit, current music in the top charts, Favorite foods, different places to hang out, etc. LOL

BTW, lucky you if you get to bang her.

 

[deBrito]

I'm 19 and i don't know. Every young chick i met and chatted with was incapable of maintaing a high quality conversation.

Usually i speak about superficial personal information, let her talk, when that runs out, college stuff, let her talk, when that runs out i start making my moves.

I prefer to speak with woman 23+ because around this age they can say something worth paying attention to.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I'm 19 and i don't know. Every young chick i met and chatted with was incapable of maintaing a high quality conversation.

Usually i speak about superficial personal information, let her talk, when that runs out, college stuff, let her talk, when that runs out i start making my moves.

I prefer to speak with woman 23+ because around this age they can say something worth paying attention to.

Older women don't say anything of more substance lmao this is such a silly notion. If you're 19 you shouldn't ever be interested in women over 23 anyway.

 

[spikeanut]

Treat her as you would any woman at any age in your dating footprint. Let her do the talking. Keep your words to a minimum. Women love mystery; the less a guys talks the better. Too many guys will talk themselves out of *****. Ask her questions about herself, and go with that.

 

[Velasco]

interesting perspectives/anecdotes with regards to sex and male-female social dynamics.

 

[deBrito]

Older women don't say anything of more substance lmao this is such a silly notion. If you're 19 you shouldn't ever be interested in women over 23 anyway.

Usually the woman that i speak with over 23 all have masters degree in something and they bring some useful topics to mind. But i don't mind to hook up with a girl my age.

 

[deBrito]

I've never once met an educated women who majored in anything that was actually interesting or useful. Maybe that's just me.

It depends on your surroundings for sure.

 

[derby1]

I prefer to speak with woman 23+ because around this age they can say something worth paying attention to.

wait until you meet the 30+ and theyre so self absorbed from social media, they ask you nothing 5 dates in.

LOL Dysfunction Junction

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

just let her run her mouth , if she is interested you wont even have to say nun bruh.
just nod your head every 5 mins like you're listening.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I recently had a teen GF. Music. Movies. Booze. Console games. Politics. Vaping. Tech devices. Work. Vloggers. YT personalities. True crime. Family stuff.

 

[manfrombelow]

Treat her as you would any woman at any age in your dating footprint. Let her do the talking. Keep your words to a minimum. Women love mystery; the less a guys talks the better. Too many guys will talk themselves out of *****. Ask her questions about herself, and go with that.

This.

Basically, treat her like any other female.

Let her talk 80%, you just relax and listen. I find girls this young are the most fun to be around with because their BS and drama inventory is still not as big as older chicks.

 

[Epimanes]

Open ended questions.... when she yaps pick a keyword from her yapping and then say something like .... "what's the story behind that"

 

[Josh Davidson]

Open ended questions.... when she yaps pick a keyword from her yapping and then say something like .... "what's the story behind that"

Great advice!

 

[lost_blackbird]

I was 28 and and the woman I'd go on to marry was 18 when we first got together.
It was only by a few month but I still banged a teen on my 30th birthday,
Just.... She turned 20 the following August

 

[Grinderman]

I don't know.

...her puzzy will be like a paper cut with candy floss above, though. Keep that image in mind while she's talking.

 

[PRW63]

so will just try and let her do all the talking.

That is what you do with any woman.