Integrity, words and actions with women

[Sir FB]

So I've got this plate that lives 3 hours away. By "plate", I mean we smashed once a few weeks ago. Yesterday I find out she drove over 100 miles to my small town to go on a "date" and didn't contact me, despite me inviting her more than once. Our communications have been 7-10 days apart. I initiate over half the time. Seems a classic case of low interest. She says she hasn't banged anyone since me and still wants to get together. I know that I don't get to expect exclusivity if I'm not exclusive. but there's got to be 10x more men in her big town than 3 hours away in my small town. Her words say she wants to meet again but her actions say low interest. My problem is that in a moment of weakness, I said I'd get back with her soon. Now I want to go silent and distant. Man to man, I keep my word. Can someone tell me why I don't have to keep my word to a woman when I say I'll get back to them and still maintain my integrity?

 

[Georgepithyou]

Can someone tell me why I don't have to keep my word to a woman when I say I'll get back to them and still maintain my integrity?

Ask yourself, would she have the same level of integrity for you? Like you said she probably has low interest, just put her on the backburner and pursue other women.

 

[manfrombelow]

So I've got this plate that lives 3 hours away. By "plate", I mean we smashed once a few weeks ago. Yesterday I find out she drove over 100 miles to my small town to go on a "date" and didn't contact me, despite me inviting her more than once. Our communications have been 7-10 days apart. I initiate over half the time. Seems a classic case of low interest.

You answered your question yourself.

This is clearly a classic case of low interest. There's nothing else you can do beside letting her initiate 100% of contact from now on, and keep banging other plates in your inventory.

 

[manfrombelow]

She says she hasn't banged anyone since me and still wants to get together.

Pfff. Oh please. I had a plate who after our fvck was done, she said something like "I never went to a hotel to do something like this before, you're the first one I did this too" to which I laugh outloud and said YEAH I BET YOU NEVER DID HAHAHA, to which she laughed too hahaha seeing her BS got busted.