"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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First red flag to look after at a woman

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If a woman removed the read receipts from whatssup or whatever similar tool , be very weary of her , as for sure she is hiding something . Basically it is a red flag

consider also as a yellow flag if she removed the last seen
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I wouldn't look too much into it if I were you.

Because I do it too myself. It's just a personal thing.

But one clear takeaway is that if a girl did that, it meant she is a veterant there and most likely were pumped and dumped by many guys.
 

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it's def a flag, although if you're checking your phone constantly to see if she saw your message you may well have a one-itis problem.

Another reason to remove them is she has dealt with stalkers before, but that is a different red flag....
 

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it's def a flag, although if you're checking your phone constantly to see if she saw your message you may well have a one-itis problem.

Another reason to remove them is she has dealt with stalkers before, but that is a different red flag....
if she replied to your message and the previous one does not show as read , it means that she turned off the read receipts
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If she is constantly checking her phone when you are with her instead of paying attention to you... Dump her fast...
(Sort of the modern version of the old "door sh'it test" in the video above)
 

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If a woman removed the read receipts from whatssup or whatever similar tool , be very weary of her , as for sure she is hiding something . Basically it is a red flag

consider also as a yellow flag if she removed the last seen
They do this because they don't want you to know if they received your dik pic.
 

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The first red flag is she is a woman. Just assume all woman have something to hide; it's their nature. However, that doesn't mean she's a bad person or incompatible for an LTR. You can't get upset at a woman for merely being a woman. It's not our job to try and figure what they are thinking or why they do the things they do. The moment you start trying to look at every single action for a potential red flag, such as spending time and energy looking at every text you send her, and whether she has read-receipt or last seen on...you've already lost because I guarantee she is not spending all that time and effort trying to figure you out. Always remember, the one that cares most in the relationship, has the least power.

As men, we just need to go about with our goals in life. Once a woman disrespects you by her actions, then you treat her accordingly. All we can do as men is focus on ourselves and understand the nature of the game. Look at a woman's actions towards you. You should always be weary when dealing with women, and always be willing to walk away if her actions warrant it. But once you start assigning red flags to everything a woman does, it creates a mentality that a woman without those red flags is a "unicorn". That's where the pedalizing starts; when you start thinking how this woman is different from every other woman since she doesn't have a particular red flag. That will be your downfall.
 

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The first red flag is she is a woman. Just assume all woman have something to hide; it's their nature. However, that doesn't mean she's a bad person or incompatible for an LTR. You can't get upset at a woman for merely being a woman. It's not our job to try and figure what they are thinking or why they do the things they do. The moment you start trying to look at every single action for a potential red flag, such as spending time and energy looking at every text you send her, and whether she has read-receipt or last seen on...you've already lost because I guarantee she is not spending all that time and effort trying to figure you out. Always remember, the one that cares most in the relationship, has the least power.

As men, we just need to go about with our goals in life. Once a woman disrespects you by her actions, then you treat her accordingly. All we can do as men is focus on ourselves and understand the nature of the game. Look at a woman's actions towards you. You should always be weary when dealing with women, and always be willing to walk away if her actions warrant it. But once you start assigning red flags to everything a woman does, it creates a mentality that a woman without those red flags is a "unicorn". That's where the pedalizing starts; when you start thinking how this woman is different from every other woman since she doesn't have a particular red flag. That will be your downfall.
very good point :)
 
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