"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I had a young friend come to my shop to learn physical/mental/mechanical stuff in regards to racing. After a while he met this girl that turned him from a hard charging winner, into an annoying little Sissymary. 3-to-5 phone calls within an hour. First time I worked around it. 2nd time I told him he is not welcome if he answers his phone when she calls.

I thought he would tell her not to call when he's at Jim's.. Told him to leave, never heard from him again. Note: He thought I was joking and asked over & over are you serious? Are you for real? I said yep! Go, be gone, see ya!
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I had a young friend come to my shop to learn physical/mental/mechanical stuff in regards to racing. After a while he met this girl that turned him from a hard charging winner, into an annoying little Sissymary. 3-to-5 phone calls within an hour. First time I worked around it. 2nd time I told him he is not welcome if he answers his phone when she calls.

I thought he would tell her not to call when he's at Jim's.. Told him to leave, never heard from him again. Note: He thought I was joking and asked over & over are you serious? Are you for real? I said yep! Go, be gone, see ya!
Very wise of you. Maybe he can figure it out you helped him greatly.
 
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