The thing I truly like about women

[Paper Crane]

I like the fact that women can rationalize things based on whats right or wrong when you present them simple information.

Ie: girl im seeing right now has been staying at my place quite often (doesn't live with me), she has some stuff here but nothing major. I told her its best she doesn't stay here too often because I wouldn't want her to see me with someone else here. (We're not in a serious relationship, no strings basically). One night she came over to me plowing someone. Embarrassing part was it was one of her old associates (similar industry but not super close). She was upset for about a week or so. WHen i realized it, I simply reminded her we're not in a relationship. She was able to rationalize it quickly and everything was solid instantly.

I noticed this in the past with other girls too. Its like they can't argue with you or be upset when you go based on standards of current society. If you're not together, technically, you're both allowed to do whatever.

Now, on theo ther hand, how many dudes have we heard complain about the same **** reversed? "Bro i dont want to continue messing with her if she sleeping with other dudes man! im no cuck!" or "dude i think this girl is a hoe, im bout to move on" or stories about how dudes freak out on a girl, act super posessive, check her phone, try to "hack" her accounts.

Moral of the story: If women can understand simply that they don't own you, beta males need to understand they dont own a woman just because you have sex with her.

 

[Barrister]

I like the fact that women can rationalize things based on whats right or wrong when you present them simple information.

Ie: girl im seeing right now has been staying at my place quite often (doesn't live with me), she has some stuff here but nothing major. I told her its best she doesn't stay here too often because I wouldn't want her to see me with someone else here. (We're not in a serious relationship, no strings basically). One night she came over to me plowing someone. Embarrassing part was it was one of her old associates (similar industry but not super close). She was upset for about a week or so. WHen i realized it, I simply reminded her we're not in a relationship. She was able to rationalize it quickly and everything was solid instantly.

I noticed this in the past with other girls too. Its like they can't argue with you or be upset when you go based on standards of current society. If you're not together, technically, you're both allowed to do whatever.

Now, on theo ther hand, how many dudes have we heard complain about the same **** reversed? "Bro i dont want to continue messing with her if she sleeping with other dudes man! im no cuck!" or "dude i think this girl is a hoe, im bout to move on" or stories about how dudes freak out on a girl, act super posessive, check her phone, try to "hack" her accounts.

Moral of the story: If women can understand simply that they don't own you, beta males need to understand they dont own a woman just because you have sex with her.

This won't last for you though. She is only going to hang around for a limited amount of time before she gets tired of not getting commitment no matter how strongly you maintain your frame.

As far as your second point about dudes not being interested in sleeping with women who are sleeping with other men, I think most of us acknowledge that this is probably happening unless exclusivity has been agreed to. I think a lot of the behavior you are framing here as "beta" typically happens in an LTR where the man is losing frame/woman losing interest. Not so much in plate spinning.

 

[sch]

Ah, you never know, maybe she wants to win you over? She'd lose interest when she sees that she can't and maybe starts looking for other options.

And sometimes they start looking for other options because of too much commitment, isn't that strange?

 

[RickTheToad]

This won't last for you though. She is only going to hang around for a limited amount of time before she gets tired of not getting commitment no matter how strongly you maintain your frame.

As far as your second point about dudes not being interested in sleeping with women who are sleeping with other men, I think most of us acknowledge that this is probably happening unless exclusivity has been agreed to. I think a lot of the behavior you are framing here as "beta" typically happens in an LTR where the man is losing frame/woman losing interest. Not so much in plate spinning.

You know how not to lose frame in an LTR? Don't care if she stays, lays or prays. If she walks or gets into a pissy fit, let her, just remain in your frame. Never let the female take you for granted and all should be relatively okay.

 

[SirBigBell]

I like the fact that women can rationalize things based on whats right or wrong when you present them simple information.

Ie: girl im seeing right now has been staying at my place quite often (doesn't live with me), she has some stuff here but nothing major. I told her its best she doesn't stay here too often because I wouldn't want her to see me with someone else here. (We're not in a serious relationship, no strings basically). One night she came over to me plowing someone. Embarrassing part was it was one of her old associates (similar industry but not super close). She was upset for about a week or so. WHen i realized it, I simply reminded her we're not in a relationship. She was able to rationalize it quickly and everything was solid instantly.

I noticed this in the past with other girls too. Its like they can't argue with you or be upset when you go based on standards of current society. If you're not together, technically, you're both allowed to do whatever.

Now, on theo ther hand, how many dudes have we heard complain about the same **** reversed? "Bro i dont want to continue messing with her if she sleeping with other dudes man! im no cuck!" or "dude i think this girl is a hoe, im bout to move on" or stories about how dudes freak out on a girl, act super posessive, check her phone, try to "hack" her accounts.

Moral of the story: If women can understand simply that they don't own you, beta males need to understand they dont own a woman just because you have sex with her.

Men and women have never played the game to the same rules and have never been judged using the same scales. Thats why a man who has a harem is a hero and a woman with multiple bulls is a communal bike. Women have known this separation of rules for centuries and are “at peace” with it, whether they are conscious of it or not.

Its therefore easier for you to blankly inform her that you are roasting other birds, because its a man birth right to have the confidence point to the rule book governing his play. It wouldnt be easy at all for her to do the same if she were seeing other dudes, because her rule book is different. Her innate fear would be that disclosing such a truth would be detrimental to her market value.

 

[Tilex]

Well at least you were honest about it!
Women have no shame if the roles were reversed in this type of scenario.
You could be in bed with her butt naked and would shortly hear the doorbell ring because she invited another guy over while you were still there, without notifying you.

 

[Paper Crane]

Ah, you never know, maybe she wants to win you over? She'd lose interest when she sees that she can't and maybe starts looking for other options.

And sometimes they start looking for other options because of too much commitment, isn't that strange?

Well I purposely go for girls who I don't think I'd ever be in a serious relationship with or that are looking for a serious relationship. I mean I'm sure she likes me just as much as I like her, but I believe its more about the consistent sex and having someone that we can rely on more than anything else. If I lost her, id be pretty disappointed but I'm not too worried about it. The way I look at it is that its her choice whether she sticks around or leaves and as of right now I don't see any reason why she would leave. I mean that situation was more than likely a one off. I am on Tinder and do look for other girls to smash but that's just how I manage being single and enjoying my freedom.

But yeah shes not my idea of relationship material. I mean she's your superficial instagram ass and tits all over my page type girl. Shes a former dancer too and all of her friends including her have sugar daddies and all that. She also has an onlyfans account and just not my idea of a girlfriend. However, thats not to take anything away from her personality because she's alot of fun, funny and genuine. We don't have much in common besides mutual attraction.