You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yes. Due to the Vegetarian, Vegan being a popular trend. Also Plant based diets being pushed out. (low protein levels in all of these)Haven’t T levels dropped too? I wonder if this is a factor. Or a result.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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It's the processed foods. Yes, they also eat processed foods in Europe, but the ingredients are regulated better than in the US. Plus, HFCS was banned in most of the world. Rest assured, if the US gov't took away the subsidy for corn and they didn't make HFCS, things would be much different. HFCS is not used in Canada or anywhere in Europe. I do not think even China or India use it.Agree with most that has already been said, just wanted to point at something.
I see old men (aged 50 and above) to be bigger framed in terms of bones, I notice the difference especially in terms of hand and wrist size even compared to younger taller guys.
China is one of the biggest market of Coke. They infiltrated China 40 years ago and slowly built up from there. Since 15 years ago with more and more Coke products being imported, you have Chinese citizens obesity rates go up to record levels never seen before.I do not think even China or India use it.
True, but Coke bottled for the US market is different than international. International versions of Coke do not have HFCS; similar to international versions of Sprite, Dr. Pepper, Pepsi, etc.China is one of the biggest market of Coke. They infiltrated China 40 years ago and slowly built up from there. Since 15 years ago with more and more Coke products being imported, you have Chinese citizens obesity rates go up to record levels never seen before.
Coke has used trade tactics to push as much of their product there with coordinated efforts with the CCP to increase $$$. Their ad campaign there is generally to drink more Coke because it's good for you but exercise with it and have an active lifestyle. LOL
If you notice Mexican coke is made from cane sugar rather than HFCS. Other European nations taxes heavily on HFCS products knowing it causes obesity so the profit margins and sales aren't as great as they have with China.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Some do and some don't like I said. The ones going to China which is one of their biggest markets do have HFCS.True, but Coke bottled for the US market is different than international. International versions of Coke do not have HFCS; similar to international versions of Sprite, Dr. Pepper, Pepsi, etc.
Soda is bad for you dude.Some do and some don't like I said. The ones going to China which is one of their biggest markets do have HFCS.
For those soda lovers that can't get off it. I recommend all the throwback formulas which soda companies sell from time to time in some groceries. These are the original formulas that existed back in the 60's comprising of only a few simple ingredients including regular sugar instead of HFCS.
I was merely making a suggestion for those that had to have soda. I never said soda was good for you.Soda is bad for you dude.
Try Zevia if you'd like some soda. Also, it's DA bomb, not the bomb. ;'pI was merely making a suggestion for those that had to have soda. I never said soda was good for you.
I have to disagree. Soda with HFCS is bad. Ones with natural sugar is just like eating/drinking anything else with it. The body is able to break it down easily and not store it as fat cells since it's a natural substance. Where as HFCS isn't.
Some will argue sugars in general are bad for you and there's truth to that but I'm not going to deny all life pleasures to be imprisoned by any one thing. As such in life, it's all about moderation.
I haven't drank sodas for a few years now except IZZES. That stuff is the bomb and all natural. Only Juice and carbonated water content. Most flavors contain 60-70% juice. Good stuff.![]()
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I think I might've tried it awhile ago. Maybe the flavor I tried wasn't good enough for it to be memorable. I'll give it another try as it would be good to have an alternative to IZZES. Thanks.Try Zevia if you'd like some soda.
I'm certainly no expert but from the research I've done, High Fructose Corn Syrup is what's bad for you since it's not natural and it's processed. So the body doesn't really know how to process it or what to do with it and this is where it starts being stored as fat rather than having it processed and exit out of your body like natural sugar.What is it about sugar that turns it into fat in the body?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.