I sense a long time plate (almost a year) more like gf is going to break. Ghost her or keep her spinning till she breaks up?

[isasda66]

The signs are there. That attraction is dropping or she wants commitment and realises its not going to be from me.

Her friends have convinced her to skip me multiple times and she agrees with them, but she always came back. This time I think she will follow through their advice. One of her friends privy to those conversations happens to be a school-friends LTR. So I have all the dope upfront. Her last message on the group was "so Im doing the right thing keeping away from him"

 

[Gstring]

The signs are there.

The "Just Got Dumped" GUIDE

At one point or another, everybody ends up getting dumped for one reason or another, even Brad Pitt. So there's absolutely no problem with that. The woman just didn't want to be with you any more. Perhaps she only wanted the sex and it got boring or maybe she is looking for something more...

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Best to make her emotional.

 

[isasda66]

The "Just Got Dumped" GUIDE

At one point or another, everybody ends up getting dumped for one reason or another, even Brad Pitt. So there's absolutely no problem with that. The woman just didn't want to be with you any more. Perhaps she only wanted the sex and it got boring or maybe she is looking for something more...

www.sosuave.net

Best to make her emotional.

So ghost her. I dont plan on spinning her any more than she wants. So Im fine with a final fvck and her "dumping me"

 

[Gstring]

So ghost her. I dont plan on spinning her any more than she wants. So Im fine with a final fvck and her "dumping me"

Those b****s make men their orbiters, it's okay if you don't plan orbiting her, but have a heart and make her your orbiter. It's gonna up your SMV, suddenly with her girlfriends you're not the guy she dumped, you dumped her, something wrong with her and you're a curiosity.

 

[deadmasterx]

I think that once you got a woman to like you that much, to the point she'll be "begging" for a relationship, it's gonna be hard for her to move on easily. Of course, she'll keep on testing you, she may even become bitchy because you're not doing what she wants, but as long as you keep centered she'll be around you.

But honestly speaking, the point of "spinning plates" is let them come and go. If you like her, go ahead and try it. If you don't, leave it clear that you're not looking for a relationship in the moment, you got other priorities for the time being. If she wants to stay, great, if not, great too.

Truth be said, she probably won't be moving on unless she find someone better than you.

 

[Lookatu]

Plates generally have a finite shelf life. Avg is 3-4months. Be glad you got almost a year out of her.
Don't exert any effort and look for a new plate replacement. If she comes back on her own will, milk it out while you find her replacement.

 

[Alvafe]

if you are sure she will break up with you, I say replace her right now, aka dumb her first and don't let her get ok with the idea.

i'm all up to preemptive break ups not only to amke her emotional but so save you time, like a bandaid, just pull it in one go

 

[isasda66]

I think that once you got a woman to like you that much, to the point she'll be "begging" for a relationship, it's gonna be hard for her to move on easily.
Truth be said, she probably won't be moving on unless she find someone better than you.

She never really begged. Probably wont move on but I can tell that the friend network is encouraging her to drop me asap.

"A woman's best friend has to sign off on all big relationship decisions." - Alex Hitchens

Its unfortunate the friend network has so much influence and they arent independent. I know there are rate exceptions where the woman thinks she can fix the guy or he is misunderstood and overrides her friends.

 

[MatureDJ]

Sensing the loss of a woman's allegiance to oneself can be daunting.
Periods of non-sexuality is to rightly be feared by the healthy, heteronormative man.
Indeed, it is the nature of the man to compete against his rivals for food & poontang.
Not getting poontang will leave a man in a state of imbalance.

Many men have been in the position of the OP one time or another.
Opportunity, however, is always around the corner.
Regarding ghosting, I suppose that it wouldn't hurt.
Each man, however, must decide what is the best course of action.

Perhaps the continuation of spinning the wayward wench is the answer.
Lovely women have an abundance of options, so an effective strategy is needed.
Above all else, there must be the internalization that any woman is ultimately replaceable.
The social memes may say otherwise, but they serve the femynist imperative.
Exclusivity, of course, should only be done on the man's terms, not the woman's.
Such is the burden on the man to look out for himself.