"I Got A PHD"

[BadBoy89]

I still am in shock that women's accomplishments(school, professions) are less important than how flirty, nurturing and compliant(basically, feminine) I am with him.

As was said, men generally only care if the women is young, sexy, fertile, and not a hooker. Men can take care of themselves, they don’t care about a woman’s money, they care about a woman’s reproductive ability. Women don’t care if a man can reproduce, they care about his resources and earning potential.

Take the hottest girl who wants to get married, her family is rich. She asks her fiancé to sign a prenup that he can’t touch her family‘s money. He would sign in 8 seconds.

Take the hottest guy who wants to get married, his family is rich. He asks his fiancé to sign a prenup that she can’t touch her family‘s money. She would not sign. She would want to be “protected” and see what see “gets” out if it.

And they say women fall in “love”.

Why do guys still ask what education level women have attained?
Why do they still ask what they do for a living?

What do you want guys to ask, how many cats you had growing up?

A man goes out with a girl, the next day his friends asks him:

”How was your date last night with Angela?”
”OK.”
”What does she do?”
”I don’t know.”
”Did she go to University?”
’I don’t know.”
”Well, is she a hooker?
”I don’t know.”

Come on.

I would like to keep these things private and confidential. Can't there be other things to ask to get to know me?

What would you want the guy to ask you? Your favourite sexual position?

Unless you are a hot 19 year old virgin who wants to get pregnant tomorrow, a guy asks you questions to help him decide if you can be his partner for life.

 

[christie]

As was said, men generally only care if the women is young, sexy, fertile, and not a hooker. Men can take care of themselves, they don’t care about a woman’s money, they care about a woman’s reproductive ability. Women don’t care if a man can reproduce, they care about his resources and earning potential.

Take the hottest girl who wants to get married, her family is rich. She asks her fiancé to sign a prenup that he can’t touch her family‘s money. He would sign in 8 seconds.

Take the hottest guy who wants to get married, his family is rich. He asks his fiancé to sign a prenup that she can’t touch her family‘s money. She would not sign. She would want to be “protected” and see what see “gets” out if it.

And they say women fall in “love”.



What do you want guys to ask, how many cats you had growing up?

A man goes out with a girl, the next day his friends asks him:

”How was your date last night with Angela?”
”OK.”
”What does she do?”
”I don’t know.”
”Did she go to University?”
’I don’t know.”
”Well, is she a hooker?
”I don’t know.”

Come on.



What would you want the guy to ask you? Your favourite sexual position?

Unless you are a hot 19 year old virgin who wants to get pregnant tomorrow, a guy asks you questions to help him decide if you can be his partner for life.

 

[Georgepithyou]

I seriously don't understand why they even think guys care about what they study or work as

 

[f(x)]

 

[Lookatu]

I seriously don't understand why they even think guys care about what they study or work as

It shouldn't but at the same time, you don't wanna wife up a girl that's gone to Ivy League school for Art Appreciation and is $260k in debt and working as a barista at Starbucks. It may not matter when you're young but it does factor in more, the older you get.

 

[EyeBRollin]

It shouldn't but at the same time, you don't wanna wife up a girl that's gone to Ivy League school for Art Appreciation and is $260k in debt and working as a barista at Starbucks. It may not matter when you're young but it does factor in more, the older you get.

This part mostly. Women are expenses.

 

[Kotaix]

Many women mistakenly assume the very characteristics they perceive as valuable in a potential mate that a man would also value those same characteristics, in them as a/his woman, and as his potential mate.

I believe this misunderstanding is one of the biggest reasons women have sadly strayed from their feminine nature and instead adopted more male characteristics.

Any insight as to why has this only happened now and not at a previous point in history?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This part mostly. Women are expenses.

ALL women aren't "expenses". Most are! All women don't introduce drag in your life, or will mess up your well intended plans, or will try to keep you "down", but most are like that!

There are still women who will be benefitial and an asset to a mans life, and her presence and energy will add to mans growth, but MOST aren't like this.

Women make the same money as us, so they have money too.

 

[Lookatu]

This part mostly. Women are expenses.

They can be if you are thinking of marrying them and being the head of the household. That's why I waited until marrying my wife since she had 80k debt. I waited until she sold her house and made a profit, which partially paid for our wedding too.

Always look at her debt and family. Those two you will inherit automatically once you get married. Don't marry someone just for her but look at her finances and family. I can't stress this enough. Otherwise just continue being LTR at most.

 

[BMX]

Look at me, I got a PhD, I am the captain now. Look into my eyes, not at my cankles bruh.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Most women have no idea how a truly feminine woman radiating/sharing her femininity is more desirable, to most men, than just about anything she could ever list on her resume.

Its literally like money

 

[OldComeBacker]

" I dropped out of college but I still got a PHD"

 

[bat soup]

I've noticed women who are highly educated Masters/PHD degrees
Think that for some reason it's something to be impressed about
However In my experience, these women tend to be least feminine, and combative
Don't get me wrong some of these women are sexy and I understand why they have the energy they do (high positioned careers etc)
However, I tell these women I'm more impressed by how feminine a woman is than their degrees. It blows my mind how women think we judge them on the same scale they judge us

Just my .02 cents

We just need them to shut up and hold still.

 

[Focal core]

Gosh she cant fak phd.. Get over it

 

[zekko]

Why do they still ask what they do for a living?

I think this is a perfectly natural thing to want to know. Can you really understand someone without knowing what they do for a living, we're talking about something they spend hours per day on here. If I ask a woman "What do you do for a living", and she says "I'm a stripper", that tells me a lot right there.

I've seen a lot of guys on this forum object to this question too, but I just don't see a problem with it. Guys are like "They're after my money!", or even worse "They'll find out I don't have any money!" lol.

By the way, I do think getting a PhD is impressive. But it's not really an attraction factor.

 

[christie]

I think this is a perfectly natural thing to want to know. Can you really understand someone without knowing what they do for a living, we're talking about something they spend hours per day on here. If I ask a woman "What do you do for a living", and she says "I'm a stripper", that tells me a lot right there.

I've seen a lot of guys on this forum object to this question too, but I just don't see a problem with it. Guys are like "They're after my money!", or even worse "They'll find out I don't have any money!" lol.

By the way, I do think getting a PhD is impressive. But it's not really an attraction factor.

I do see what you mean

I'm still going to keep saying I'm a homemaker.

Its like my transition cue I give to myself to be less masculine and more feminine.

 

[Solomon]

Update:

I hung out with a "Boss Babe" back in November/December of last year she was older than me (46) that I met off Bumble but still had a decent body, especially for her age. We hooked up and it was awful. No foreplay, no bj's Needless to say I sent her text after telling her I don't see it going anywhere. These women IMO just don't know how to turn off their career mindset. I recently dated a low key chill 28 year old and it was completely different

 

[EyeBRollin]

Update:

I hung out with a "Boss Babe" back in November/December of last year she was older than me (46) that I met off Bumble but still had a decent body, especially for her age. We hooked up and it was awful. No foreplay, no bj's Needless to say I sent her text after telling her I don't see it going anywhere. These women IMO just don't know how to turn off their career mindset.

Sounds like a terrible LTR but a good f buddy.

 

[Solomon]

Sounds like a terrible LTR but a good f buddy.

A woman not willing to give a BJ is not a good F buddy

 

[The Duke]

Bumble is full of nice looking 40-something y/o women with upper level management/VP jobs. It cracks me up when the first thing they mention is something about their job. No one cares but you sweet t!ts. When are you going to stop being so self absorbed and learn what does attract men. Automatic left swipe.