Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Nofap is Bullsh*t

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OP you are 24, some of us are in our 30s were desensitized to things......

so for instance before Nofap, i had a mediocre erection, smallish flaccid, and it took aggressive stuff to make me ejaculate.

now 2 months into Nofap.......I have a large flaccid, 100% 2pm erections, they dont go down either. and all it takes is a woman to stroke me off. or breathe on me, and shes gonna get conquered

Best feeling ever, depression/mood has lifted considerably
Ten days into my last nofap my confidence was lifted. The third time thats happened. Its because I end up fapping when my sex life isn't as good as I like. But it ends up being a depressive release. Getting rid of that depressive release gives mind and body confidence. C0ck is stimulated in real situations.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Georgepithyou

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Ten days into my last nofap my confidence was lifted. The third time thats happened. Its because I end up fapping when my sex life isn't as good as I like. But it ends up being a depressive release. Getting rid of that depressive release gives mind and body confidence. C0ck is stimulated in real situations.
When you finally do have sex again you won't last long becauze of nofap. I consider fapping like working out.
 

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When you finally do have sex again you won't last long becauze of nofap. I consider fapping like working out.
lmao, youre right, when i first did NoFap for 25 days......it was a wrap in about 6 seconds........best feeling ever lol.
 

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No fapp community on reddit is really crazy. Apparently they are asking and freaking out if seeing a hot girl on social media counts as porn. God..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm a pretty pragmatic, skeptical guy about everything.

I will tell you that nofapping works for me.

Libido is up. Drive is up. More ambitious. Better sociably. Not a placebo.

I would say this. Experiment without fapping for two weeks. Then, do the other extreme and fap daily or whatever amount is typical is for you.

See what works for you.
 

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I guess it's different strokes (pun intended) for different folks.
At first my libido was through the roof and i could even see my self smashing a land whale. But over time i got used to it and started losing libido.

Pron however is really bad and im glad i stopped watching that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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At first my libido was through the roof and i could even see my self smashing a land whale. But over time i got used to it and started losing libido.

Pron however is really bad and im glad i stopped watching that.
Yeah I still watch it like once every one to two weeks. It's a real ***** to quit.
 
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