"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Haridan: Picking out a sperm donor was fun, she said, like perusing an online dating site to find the ideal mate.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women still want to get pounded hard. There's no such thing as a CoitusCel.
 

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What exactly is in it for the sperm donor?

Nothing.
Uh, the furtherance of his genetic line? :rolleyes: By your line of thinking, all a father gets is a single-cvm party for free.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women still want to get pounded hard. There's no such thing as a CoitusCel.
These gals obviously do not want to let sub-tier men "pound" them. :rolleyes:

And even the bio-dad doesn't get to pound either. :rolleyes:

The old saying that husbands would say is that "all I am is a d!ck with a wallet"; now men will be "sperm-makers with bachelor tax obligations". :mad:
 
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