I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
everyone on this world faces some kind of discrimination, or hate crimes, some for being fat, otehr for being hetero, other for being too dumb to notice how they are being manipulated, some just because what he did or said was removed from the context of it and people used it as a hate tool.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I am indifferent to metal singers. I certainly wouldn’t cheer if they are subjected to violence.
That’s a strawman argument. No one is saying be an activist.. just keep your bigotry to yourself don’t act on it in public.
why you can be a bigotry in public and others don't? also you really should stop calling others of what you are is not honest, course honesty is not something you would know
Im indifferent to lgbt people too and not only I wouldnt cheer on violence on them but I would also want the attacker to be jailed.
Among the many things...often those character dont even have a reason to be gay, its just something the producers put for no particular reason.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hey now, this is 2020. You ALWAYS have to have a transgender Captain that is the smartest and strongest to lead and save the entire crew from obllivian.
I don't know what reality you live in, but there has been a massive shift in public opinion on the matter of gays. I'm old enough to remember when there were fag drags. That hasn't happened for about 20 years now. Most people are fine with gays having rights outside of hardcore christians. Discrimination is probably at an all time low, and you will never get rid of it entirely.
I'm pretty sure a short bald beta looking guy nowadays faces much more bullying and discrimination than any minority.
If that were truly the case, half the posters in this thread wouldn’t be triggered at the sight over an LGBT flag. Those of us who aren’t bigots don’t give a damn when we see that flag. OP made the thread to get validation from other people who don’t like gays.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I think there's a difference between not liking gay people and not approving of the movement. They should be treated like everyone else. I personally think gay or trans behavior is a perversion. Now that's not the worst thing in the world, I have my own perversions. But I don't fly a flag for them or insist that everyone declare that they are normal. Perversions aren't necessarily healthy. I wouldn't kick somebody's flag over though.
I barely watch Netflix. And if I enjoy a show, I'm not going to turn it off just because one character might be trans or whatever. But I can't help but notice the way they shoehorn these characters into the stories. You're right when you call it overcompensation. What I don't like is when I get the impression I'm being sold somebody's political agenda on diversity.
That at least sounds like a fresh idea. The Walking Dead has become so stale, and with all its spinoffs they're beating it into the ground. It was a cool show at one time. I respect Robert Kirkman for ending the comic book, he told his story and got off. They never really realistically depicted how women would have likely been affected by an apocalypse situation IMO.
The Walking Dead was very inaccurate on how such an apocalypse would affect women. They sure as hell wouldn't be all gun ho part of raids. Even in today's society of "women can do anything a man can do", you only see men out in the driveway fixing cars. This in spite of decades of efforts to get women to act like men.
Pretty sure most of the 'other people' you're referencing don't have a personal problem with gays. And they can speak for themselves. They have a problem with people like you, aka people who think that they're better than everyone else. You're not.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
